Creepy/parasocial anons and asks are always welcome! DMs will go unanswered unless we have been mutuals for an extensive period, or we are close on other socials. Flirting and asks with romantic/sexual intentions are okay but it will not go anywhere! Doubles are welcome to interact. No DNI. Post updated frequently.
Can we please stop reblogging arguments with antis or atleast use #tw anti? Just so I don't have to keep seeing bs on my homepage..
Why are you giving these pathetic attention whores ANY of yalls time? They derive on attention, and only exist when you give it to them. Their only existence is to bring you down, and whenever you respond to them, not only does it piss you off, but the rest of your followers have to see it too.
I just want to enjoy being radqueer without the constant reminder that these people exist, so please tag your stuff with #tw anti, or just don't respond at all.
this community needs to get more normal about ALL of the cluster b disorders and not just BPD and HPD. im not kidding. stop being ableist towards those with ASPD and NPD. stop being ableist. stop being ableist. stop being ableist.
we are already demonized enough from the word narcissist being used to mean selfish and all of those "how to SURVIVE a narcissist" articles and videos. the definition and symptoms of ASPD are usually enough to scare someone away, i know it is in my experience. i have lost friends just from them finding out i have ASPD.
get your shit together, raddically accepting community. learn to accommodate those who cannot feel empathy and sympathy. learn. its impossible to not have bigoted views and the quicker you realize that, the easier it is to learn from your mistakes and change.
As much as I enjoy being the one in control, I have to admit that I occasionally enjoy having that control challenged. There's something undeniably appealing about being restrained and forced to surrender the upper hand, watching my darling finally take out all the frustration they've built up from my abuse and relentless dominance. Every so often.
pondering 🤔 I feel like radqueer beliefs are actually WAYYY more common and repressed in society than people want to admit.
remember how everyone used to be super para purists and think liking feet was devilish? on twt it's now somewhat mainstream to have a foot or piss fetish, and suddenly hundreds of thousands of "normies" are okay to admit it. isn't it funny how SO many people came around to actually admit they have paras too once it was no longer a judgemental space?
yk how many "normies" I see who WISH they were na'vi from avatar so bad, a species that is based around indigenous polynesian culture? when it's transindigenous they're aggressively against it because that's the popular opinion, but when it's under an "acceptable" format the most unradical of people admit that they have that want.
idk it's just something funny I observe. tons of my "normie" irls or people on my ig feed or twt homepage have said things to me before that I'm certain radqueers voice on tumblr literally all the time. society really is just repressing it and pretending they don't feel that way so that they get accepted more. if everything was accepting I'm CERTAIN so so many more people would admit to have paras or transIDs and being radinclus.
"i dont support paraphiles b-b-but i will support your recovery 🥺🥺 yr just sick u need help 🥺💔 im pro recovery for u sick weirdos!!! u can get better 😚🥰"
hey did u know the only reason paraphilias are disordered in any way is because of the way society treats anybeast with those kinds of thoughts . did u know there wouldnt need to be "recovery" for paraphilias if society as a whole didnt stigmatize them (like youre doing rn , by implying theyre damaged and sick and NEED to be hospitalized or seek help) . hey did u also know that paraphile ≠ predator or offender . the vast majority of offenders are not even paraphiles in any way . and the vast majority of paraphiles are not offenders in any way . having a paraphilia , "disordered" or not , does not turn u into an untameable beast that blacks out when in the presence of a child or animal .
if youre a paraphile and you WANT to seek help , by all means you should be entitled to do so . but can we stop acting like "disordered" paraphilias are like ... paraphilias that are disorders ? the "disorder" comes from societal pressure and stigma , rarely from the thoughts or attractions themselves .
reminder to radqs to be safe on the internet . especially in times like this where antis may be more actively seeking us out . that includes . . .
not posting photos of your whole face / body or any identifying features like glasses , body marks , etc.
not posting photos of where you live or any identifying landmarks / addresses / street signs / etc.
not sharing identifying information like phone numbers , your full name , emails , etc.
and also lesser known things like instead of posting photos directly from your camera roll , screenshot them to remove any data connected to your device . use VPNs (proton , mullvad , & urban vpn are all free and multi platform) . use email protectors (like firefox's or proton mail) .
please feel free to leave more advice in comments / reblogs or an ask if you'd rather . ^^ please learn to practice basic internet safety !! i see a lot of beasts who either dont prioritize it or dont know how to practice it at all . its your choice , but make sure youre not also putting others in danger.
sorry but once you notice how often ppl use a southern accent as shorthand for being unintelligent you can never unsee it. classism is baked so deeply and why are you acting like anyone who talks the way my grandfather talks is stupid.
hey so if you support actual predators && abusers and turn a blind eye simply bc theyre nice to you i hope you end up dead in a ditch and i mean this genuinely.
this is your one and only warning to block me or unfollow me. i WILL find out and i will NOT be nice about it.
if you tell an indigenous trans man to cut his long hair so that he "passes better" then im tying you to an anchor and dropping you in the middle of the ocean
nyehehe i have decided i am going to make a bah sideblog, rubbing my hands together like an evil little fly. i will be posting the @ here soon once it is up and going
