block the "tw discourse" tag if you want to avoid any sort of negativity, discourse, or actual radqueers! (ink/willow, they/them) anti radqueer, anti proship, recovering from both
Hi there, welcome to my former radqueer positivity + support blog ^^ I'm here to help anyone who is a former radqueer or who is considering leaving the radqueer community.
The radqueer community traumatized me and many other people. I hope to stop that from happening in the future, and I hope to be a place where traumatized people can go to for positivity and support.
This isn't really an education blog, it's more of a positivity blog, however feel free to send in asks and I'll do my best to answer them. If you want more educational blogs, check out antiradqueer's blog and the blogs they reblog from.
Refer to me as Ink/Willow, they/them. I'm an intersex, neurodivergent, disabled person of color. I am anti-proship (unless it's exclusively used in private to cope), ex-proship, anti-radqueer, ex-radqueer, pro-para, and anti-contact (including "consang", there is nothing "consensual" about incest).
"Transabled" is a term stolen from pwBIID, "transrace" is a term stolen from adoptees, "transspecies" is a term stolen from alterhumans/nonhumans/otherkin/etc, and "transage" is a term stolen from traumatized and neurodivergent people (yes, it was stolen, I was in the community before radqueers appropriated it).
@antiradqueer @anti--transid can I get a boost? :3
hya!! i love all you paras who aren't radqueer! i love all you paras who are anti-contact! i love all you paras who got them from trauma! and i love all you paras who got them from non-trauma things!
Warning About "Xenosatanism" and those who follow it.
[PT/ Warning About "Xenosatanism" and those who follow it. /end PT]
oh boy... if you thought kandiqueer was bad get ready...
Since its relevant now and that we have gathered more info on the topic, this post will list the majority of what "Xenosatanists" belive in and some first-hand experiences seeing the label in tags, on twitter and so on.
The code for xenosatanist is Ο⧠, you will find these in bios, pinned posts, tags, etc. as code for xenosatanist.
This post will talk about alot of triggering, shocking and just. gross shit. so be aware of that before you click "keep reading". if you wish to not continue reading, take this warning to avoid and report anyone calling themself a xenosatanist. And if you can please spread this info about these people as every so often they pop up and post distressing content. ESPECIALLY if you use the BIID, mogai and xenogender tags, i urge you to spread this so your peers know aswell.
TW for: mentions of drugs, CSAM, CSA, animal abuse / bestiâality, incâest, raâpe / SA, self haârm, canniâbalism, pro contact paraphilia, descriptions of gross images, and mentions of the legalisation of all the above.
If youve been active in the anti radqueer space recently or mogai-liom spaces going back from now to over 2-3 years (possibly more) ago you have likely heard of "Xenosatanism", whether you saw it in someones DNI or you saw something about it in tags, but you probably never really knew what it was all about or just had a vague idea of what it was about and why it was bad.
To make it clear, "Xenosatanism" is not the same as satanism and it is not linked to it in any way. the only reason its called "Xenosatanism" is because of "political satanism" and how satanism is viewed now days /somehow/ being similar to the stuff xenosatanists belive. Xenosatanism is also described to be an ideology.
now here is where all the trigger warnings come in, all of these things listed are from the Xenosatanism carrd (NOTE: if you do come across the Xenosatanism carrd DO NOT click any links on it, alot of them download files or open PDFs). Again, you do not have to read further if you think it will distress you, please take care of yourselves.
now...
(Most of) What "Xenosatanism" is/means/supports :
Porânography to be allowed and accessible anywhere and everywhere
Public nudity, public sex and public poârno to be allowed and socially encouraged
Abolishment of the age of consent and age of majority (the age which you are considered an adult)
Legalisation of chiâld poârn, both real and fictional
Inceâst to be legalised, normalised and socially encouraged
Bestiâality to be legalised, normalised and socially encouraged
Normalisation of raâpe, sexual abuse and molesâtation and the legalisation of ânon-consensual sexual encountersâ
Normalisation and allowing of self harm
Anti-psychiatry
Normalisation and legalisation of cannibâalism and for human flesh to be sold
Liberation of all drugs
What ever the fuck "Prolonged delay for abortion" means, we speculate it means abortion even after a child is born
Free speech but only for things they like as they say it might be "counterproductive" to their goals
Pro nihilism (for some reason)
What ever the fuck "political bisexualism" is
this isnt a complete list and it is definitely subject to change. As you can see here, this is what xenosatanists are getting behind. I dont have to tell you how absolutely disgusting this shit is.
If you look at any blog or page of any Xenosatanist they're mainly open about being pro contact for harmful paraphilia (usually alot about pedo/zoo), being pro minors in kink, openly talking about/posting softcore or just full on câp/lolisho and of course they talk and post about the stuff listed above and how much they like those ideas, all while encouraging others to do so too. They are also likely to be radqueer or transid in some way or another, whether it be them being radqueer/transid or just pro.
I will now talk about what ive seen around this ideology and the users we know and who are possibly behind some of it, if that sounds boring or distressing feel free to skip the next paragraph.
My (me being mod Mew) first experience seeing Xenosatanism pop up was around 3 years ago in the mogai community, both here, on reddit and on twitter, my memory of details is bad but i still remember a few things, but i imagine there will be some people who remember these things too. It was first these flags showing up in the Xenogender tags here, some screenshots on reddit and posts on twitter, depicting half naked or just barely clothed children, with amputations, injuries or physical disabilities, all drawn with pastel colors and pastel flags, the names of these lables would always have some word relating to loli/sho/kodo (like ampukodo), some flags had actual gore, but they were all about those disabled under-clothed children and were absolutely about or linked to transid, mainly transabled. i remember one or two labels aswell that were linked to these flags but wernt visually similar, one being a xenogender about what i remember being a "little asian kid (or kodo) peeing on a (possibly injured) puppy" and others just being about loliâcon shit. these flags and posts took hours all the way to days to get taken down, i remember the user posting them on twitter had a Len vocaloid icon and hieroglyphs as their username, but there was absolutely more than one person that was behind this. One of these users who are behind this stuff recently is a user name of Lucas (iirc), who was also behind the MAP picrews from a while back, you would remember them as xenosatanist-egg or fuck-ageism on here, they have also mentioned a certain Avery a few times on that picrew which a few of us speculate to be the same Avery that has been spoken about on this blog before for many disgusting and illegal things they've allegedly have done via an ask. this is however only speculation.
If theres anything i remember or would like to add to this ill do it either by editing this post or in a reblog, so look out for that. Stay safe, and remember if you see any of these people, radqueers, and the like, report the fuck out of them and dont interact with them, and again if you can, please spread this info.
thank you for reading, and again, please stay safe.
Any time I see something about Sophie it makes me wonder how people genuinely support her
The amount of people we've had to block because they made an excuse as to why they support her even after everything is disgusting
Same, she may be ""transid neutral"" (no the fuck she isnt, shes made multiple posts in support of it.) but she frequently, positively interacts with radqueers and is seen as a literal g-d (o) in that community.
Not to mention the g-ddamn (o) laundry list of shit shes done.
honestly, when we first started to be active in plural spaces on tumblr, we kinda liked Sophie. she made her blog around the same time we discovered being a system and at first, she seemed great! someone who was very pro-endo, called out anti-endos, etc. and theeeeen... she started to spread misinformation and spoke over disordered traumagenic systems on topics related to disordered plurality. and THEN it got even worse when she started to openly support transids - or well, decided to be "neutral" towards them but lmao she is anything but neutral. Idk, we're just lowkey sad it went downhill with her like this...
Same here, I used to really like her blog until she started to be super pro-transid (yeah she definitely isn't "neutral" at all) and I ended up realizing that following her was making my recovery from radqueers that much more difficult (not to mention, her following is an entire cypto-radqueer community disguised as "just pro-endo" that nearly pulled us back into the cult). Safe to say she's a huge problem in the syscourse community
When I was radqueer, she was really put on a pedestal and defended to death, everyong absolutely loved her and if you didn't like her then you were seen as "secretly an anti". The way radqueers act(ed) towards her is... Worrying
In January 2022, an article came out that exposed the fact that the Crisis Text Line was selling personal data to for-profit companies. The Trevor Project also was mentioned in this article for sharing data with Google and Meta.Â
They arenât the only crisis lines with issues: this article that also came out in January 2022 talks about how the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is ignoring the testimony from their Lived Experience Committee about stopping involvment with cops, and is working with the Federal Communications Comission to try to get permission to use a newer type of mass surveillence technology during their calls.Â
Quote from the article: âBasically, Vibrant/NSPL argued that everyone who calls, texts, or chats through the new 988 number should have their personal information and exact current geolocation to within three meters exposed to NSPL call centers automatically, immediately, and by default.âÂ
Beyond these ethical issues around data collection, a huge problem with almost every single crisis line is their policies of âactive rescueâ: basically, what this means is that crisis lines will track your location and send police to your location if they think youâre at risk of harming yourself. This happens hundreds of thousands of times every single year. This is extremely dangerous, especially for Black people using these lines. There are examples of people being shot because of calls made to hotlines where police showed up. Police showing up also leads to forced psychiatric incarceration. I personally have had the police called on me twice through a crisis line that I thought was anonymous; they showed up, entered my room without my consent, and searched me without my consent. They literally made everything in that moment worse.Â
If people want to learn more about the history of police involvment and crisis lines, hereâs an article.
Avoid hotlines that call the cops:Â
Crisis Text Line
Trevor ProjectÂ
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
NAMI helpline
LGBT National Hotline
SAMHSA National Hotline
List of State Crisis Lines that all call copsÂ
Alternatives that do not share data or call the copsÂ
Pretty much every national and mainstream crisis line calls the cops. A general rule of thumb is that unless it specifically mentions that it doesnât call the cops on their website, it does. I also havenât done a ton of research on the data sharing side for the lines Iâm listing below, but if anyone has any more info please let me know and Iâll update the list.
National:Â
Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860, 24/7
THRIVE: text message line at 313-662-8209, 24/7
Promise Resource Network: (833) 390-7728, 24/7
Project Return Peer Support Network: (888) 448-9777 English or (888) 448-4055 Spanish, hours are Monday through Friday 2:30 PM to 10:00 PM
and Saturday and Sunday 10:00 AM to 6:00 PM
Wildflower Alliance Peer Support Line: 888-407-4515, hours are 7pm to 9pm Monday through Thursday and 7pm-10pm Friday through Sunday
MBRLC Peer Support Line: 877-733-7563, hours are 4 pm-7:45 pm every day.Â
Check out this page for a directory of warmlines by state. These are much less likely to call the cops, but itâs good to check with each individual one about specific policies.
Reminder that the new 988 suicide prevention number calls the cops and engages in the unethical issues described above! Donât share that number without letting people know it calls the cops, traces your location, and has a risk of involuntary hospitalization. The articles linked above have sources talking about all of these issues.
(The âbabyinnitââ blog is made by âheartinitâ as they state in the post.) extremely concerning.
either this a minor presenting themselves to be preyed upon or another attempting to contact pedos???
They also have another blog called @/shotainnit. Either way, whether theyâre a predator or a kid putting themselves in danger, they should be reported.
i found the post of the âdni hominiphiles, teleiophiles and vitaphilesâ and took a screenshot with their username
now i can always look at that image and remember where tf society is going
I remember that post. Ik it isn't a troll post but I really wish it was đ Whenever I get reminded of it I just remind myself that 99.99% of people in the world are also disgusted by radqueers so shit like that will never be the norm
PLEASE give the gosip on safetypinz i hate their guts
I won't give out any personal details (like accounts or anything) but here are some of what I've seen (although I've never spoken to them, I used to be in servers with them):
They're really fucking weird and gross. Like, constantly posting unsanitary shit untagged. I think they have paraphilias related to that stuff which is the excuse I've seen them use?? But yeah they'd post really gross shit untagged and unprompted, which made a lot of people uncomfortable
I'm not going to immediately jump to "they're a faker!!", but they claim to have self-diagnosed ASPD despite having stated that they fit basically none of the symptoms (I remember them saying something like "I'm an asshole because of my ASPD", so I think that's why they say they have it? because they think all pwASPD are assholes??). I know a couple people who have ASPD and safetypinz shows none of the symptoms they experience, even things as basic as feeling no empathy and having little to no emotion (from what safetypinz has said, they don't fit either of those basic criteria). I won't say they're faking, but... There's definitely something not right going on here (even if it's just as basic as them not understanding what the actual criteria for the disorder is)
They're pro-transnazi, and claim that because they have Jewish ancestry they have the authority on this (even though they're aren't a practicing Jew and don't know anything about the culture nor do they know any other Jewish people and that even a lot of the radqueer community disagrees with transnazis)
Not to mention the constant posting of cutesy emojis with captions like "mother-daughter consang <3333" - not only supporting incest, but also supporting child grooming too. Wow!
And also them claiming that torture and abuse... isn't traumatizing. Which they base off of pseudomemories/exomemories - which were only brought up to say "well actually I went through this and it wasn't traumatizing, so actually if someone says they aren't traumatized then you're a horrible person for disagreeing and wanting them to recover!", outright supporting people being denied help because they "aren't actually traumatized" or because they're in denial about their trauma
They're super pro-c, pro-incest, pro-"race/age/neurotype transitioning", and shit like that. The "kandiqueer" in the tags wasn't lying - they're absolutely awful. They're besties with someone who's "dating" a dog, although idk if safetypinz themselves is a pro-c zoo (considering they have "zeta", a well know pro-c zoo term, in their username... I wouldn't be surprised)
They're one of those "cripplepunk is for physically abled people too" people as well - so even more ableist. I'm pretty sure they even harassed and attacked someone because that person said cripplepunk was only for physically disabled people
There's definitely more that I either haven't seen, was done before I became radqueer, or was done after I left. If anyone has anything they'd like to add, feel free to share!
