I don't often talk about my writing but a friend sent me one of those videos of someone being like 'trying to figure out what position the characters are fucking in' and I felt like I had to chime in.
Like we hear so much about the people who believe 'sex scenes need a purpose' and I've even run into several publishers who prohibit submissions that contain the (vaguely defined) 'sex for the sake of sex'.
I write sex scenes because my characters experience sexual desire and having sex is something they would do! Plus, ya know, sex is fun and being horny is not an evil state of being!
But the way I write sex scenes is that I want them to be relatable! I want people to be able to be read my work and say "Fuck, that was hot. Hey, come here, I want you to fuck me like that". Doesn't matter if my fmc has wings, she still has big tits and a fat ass and can be folded every which way. Doesn't matter that the thing my other fmc is having sex with is a mushroom hive mind, there's concepts that can be extrapolated into your real-world bedroom. I write in a way to make people horny and want to fuck.
After all, replicating sex scenes is just cosplay with penetration and porn is a form of fan art.
