when someone is completely fucking wrong about your blorbo but you don't want to argue about what basically boils down to opinions about shit that doesn't matter so you just sit there like
"that guy's wrong tho"
you get it
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when someone is completely fucking wrong about your blorbo but you don't want to argue about what basically boils down to opinions about shit that doesn't matter so you just sit there like
"that guy's wrong tho"
you get it
Research: Understanding MCYT Boundaries
SURVEY LINK
During my time in mcyt fandom, I've watched as the fandom's perception of creator boundaries has grown and shifted into a cornerstone of our fandom, and yet we don't actually have any good data on how the fandom as a whole perceives them outside of discourse posts.
The goal of this unofficial study NOT to make a value judgement on whether creator boundaries should be respected - it is to understand how the fandom currently perceives and interacts with them.* Is respecting creator boundaries important to you? Has your favorite creator made a boundary list or spoken about it on stream? Do you find some boundaries acceptable and others not? Have you ever been the target of hate for engaging with boundary-breaking content? Whether you think boundaries should always be respected or you think they're being used as tools of censorship, I want to hear from you. What are boundaries, and why do they matter so much to us?
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This survey is a mix of multiple choice and optional long-response questions. It should take about 15 minutes if you’re only doing the required questions, and much longer if you choose to answer the optional questions.**
If you are able, please reblog and share this survey link around. Feel free to post it on any platform, as I am currently only on Tumblr, which is not representative of the fandom as a whole. In fact, I’d love it if it reached Twitter. The more responses, the more accurate the results will be for the whole of mcyt.*** Anyone in mcyt spaces, including creators, are welcome to take the survey to share their thoughts. However, I ask that for the comfort of content creators and the spirit of good fandom etiquete, please do not directly share the survey with any creator or post the link in any creators’ official communities. Thoughtful discussion is always valued over reactionary comments.
The survey is set to close at 11:59pm EST on August 1, 2026 - I may extend this date if there is still a high volume of responses coming in, or if there aren’t enough responses yet for meaningful data. I will aim to publish the results within a month of the survey’s close, and keep you updated on the timeline if that’s not feasible for any reason.
A huge thank you to everyone who helped beta this survey- you all gave such wonderful suggestions! I wish I could’ve kept every question, but in the end a lot needed to be cut to make this manageable. Please know that I appreciate every one of you, as this survey would not exist today without you.
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* Why I think this data is important to collect: The idea for this survey came to me almost a year ago, and I started developing it around February of this year. I’ve spoken with dozens of people about this topic with diverse opinions, read and catalogued hundreds of tumblr posts, rewatched streams and videos by creators and fans, and watched as opinions have shifted across fandoms in real time. I feel extremely confident in saying that every person on every side cares deeply about respecting others and creating safe, welcoming communities in all mcyt spaces. Where they differ is on how to show that respect, which kinds of expectations they think are reasonable in different spaces, and beliefs on how those in power should be using their influence. I don’t expect this survey’s results to fundamentally change anything - this debate has been going on longer than mcyt has existed. But I think it’s still important to analyze the actual arguments people are making and how they affect our communities, instead of focusing on expected behavior from others based on our own values, so we can see the varying expressions of humanity in each other and work towards a better future for our fandom. I don’t think we’re as different as the discourse may have us believe.
** This survey is designed to encourage all participants to think critically about their position and the effects it has. I am aware that I have my own personal biases, so I have taken steps to ensure that the survey is as bipartisan as possible and also gives participants the opportunity to explain their answers for every question if they feel the need. Because of this, there may be questions that make some participants uncomfortable. While I would appreciate knowing why a question has made someone uncomfortable, participants are always free to skip such long-response questions.
*** I’m well aware that any recent discourse on this topic may skew results if arguments on one side are more successful than another in convincing fans of a particular position. I still think the data will be valuable even with a potential skew.
An update on AvidMC:
He rebranded his youtube channel to Delta Archives
He pretended to delete his discord account.
(what an actual deleted account looks like)
Totally random but, because I’ve been thinking about this recently, I’m just gonna yap about it here.
Reasons behind my Cambam = Border Collie agenda:
AuDHD and anxiety.
Academically smart.
The Silliest Guy Ever.
Once asked Eloise if he could run up and down her stairs, then proceeded to be hyper for the entirety of her stream after she told him ‘no’.
Wants to live in the skin of the people he loves./hj
Herds people (into walls & other obstacles lmao) when they’re walking with him.
Ominously stands in doorways.
More evidence:/silly
(photo of the border collie and cat is by themockingnerd on reddit)
Say it with me! Wheelchairs aren’t sad! Mobility aids aren’t sad! Mobility aids are instruments of freedom!
Forgive me if this is inappropriate but
So are
colostomy bags
Diapers
insulin pumps
Oxygen systems
Braces
catheters
rollators
hearing aids
compression garments
prosthetics
FREEDOM AIDS
- canes
- service animals
- noise cancelling headphones/ear defenders
- wheelchair attachments
- fidgets
IT’S DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH YALL
BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY DISABLED AND TAKE UP ALL THE SPACE AND TIME YOU NEED!!!!!
this is my art:
I think i need everyone to listen to "sitting pretty" - madds buckley and then also watch the music video (as well as the videos for "Dogbird" and "Concept without proof") Righhhht now
Kind of random but, one thing I’m discovering is, truly, the most bizarre thing about seeing Boundary Discourse over and over and over again is having to see adult creators learn lessons (if they even learn them, that is) on Being Shipped that I learnt when I was 12.
At risk of over-sharing, when I was a kid, there was a guy that I was friends with, and people in our class shipped us. This included people repeatedly telling me that I simply must have a crush on him, people asking me if I was cheating on him whenever I hung out with a guy that wasn’t him, and people deliberately trying to wind me up (including by chanting ‘shame’ at me as I was walking back to my seat after giving a presentation) to annoy him. The guy I was shipped with also encouraged people to see our relationship romantically.
I ultimately handled this, at the time, by:
- Asking the guy to stop encouraging it as it made me uncomfortable (since he was my friend, and I wanted to know if that part of the problem was solvable. It wasn’t.)
- When he didn’t stop, I informed him that I no longer wanted to be his friend and stopped talking to him. (my mum also requested for me to no longer be in his class in the following academic year)
- Throughout all of this, I ignored and avoided anyone bringing it up and, if it was mentioned in a situation where I couldn’t leave, I would tell people that I didn’t want to talk about it because I simply didn’t like him that way, and would then completely blank them if they continued to bring it up.
I simply just cannot understand people attempting to police other people’s behaviour in places that they have no authority to do so, considering you literally cannot control other people’s behaviour, and all they ever end up doing is creating a hostile fandom environment that encourages fans telling on and harassing each other (and, thus, bringing even more of the content that they don’t want to see to them).
these [ccs] as [animals] make me very happy
vagueposting again but hey, a dni tag has more purposes than just "stuff a cc doesnt like" and we all know this, right? shy fans who make perfectly within-rules art but dont always want cc interaction exist, fans who make cool art but dont want to accidentally spoil the cc for a lore server exist, fans who want to make a long critical analysis of a series/storyline without worrying about whether the cc gets personally offended and upset exist
Growing.
Cam: It-it-it-it-it breached containment, massively. Um, so much so that I got messages from family members as well. I got a message from my dad's best man? At his wedding, who I haven't seen in a number of years, congratulating me on my engagement. (three seconds silence) My dad's best man. In the family group chat, I got a message from my auntie that said, um, "why have I heard that you're engag-" I need to find the exact quote, because it was just so ridiculous, hold on-where is it again...yeah. "Cameron Wilson, what's with the 'he said yes' thing?" Um, "so and so thought you got engaged but I told him that wasn't Scott." The tweet went to my auntie's colleague, at work, who recognized it was me and showed my auntie, at work, that I had gotten engaged.
Cam: So that when she sees the tweet—and she has met Scott, a couple times, and gets on really well with Scott. So is obviously massively confused and calls me immediately to say, "what-what's happened with Scott? Who is this man?" Um. So, yeah, it went to my auntie's work, who-who then she had to, very very confused realize that I wasn't actually engaged, and I had to explain the situation. Um. So that was fun.
Cam: Um. I got a message from my mum? My mum messaged me, um, (through laughter) it was quite a funny message, actually. I need to find it. Cause she follows me on Twitter, my mum follows me on Twitter, I need to find what she said. She-she like said, um, (laughs). Where is it, hold on. Hold on, yeah, here it is, says, um, "is your friend Grian Scottish? Gaelic Duolingo just told me Grian equals sun." To which I respond, "no, his name is actually—" and then Grian's name, um, and then she just goes, "oh, well..." and then that's the end of the conversation. So. Yeah.
Totally random but, I think about the fact that tf!Cambam (with Pip) is one of the only people (if not the only person?) who can keep up with tf!Scott’s ice-path way too often.
Red Rabbits for the win!!!
Is your Blorbo a good parental figure? / Would your Blorbo be a good parental figure? (Doesn’t have to be a biological parent)
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In the past? Yes. But not anymore
No
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The issue is not the boundary itself.
The issue is that this is NOT how you make a boundary.
In the words of a wise prophet (my frendd), you have created a rule by which the only form of enforcement is harassment. Or something like that, I don't have the post pulled up.
Make a block tag. Make a dni tag. Block people bringing up shipping or ships in your twitch chat, in your comments, in your discord, in your inbox. All of that is completely and 100% fine and okay. But telling people they are not allowed to make it ever, under any circumstances, under vague threat of "I will send my people after you"??? IS NOT OKAY. WILL NEVER BE OKAY.
AND I CANNOT FUCKING BELIEVE THERE ARE STILL SO MANY PEOPLE WILLING TO JUST LET THAT BE OKAY.
The core problem with basically every single instance of boundaries discourse I see is that nobody seems to know what the word "boundary" actually means.
Boundaries are personal and social. They are based on mutual respect. Boundaries are not orders, they are requests, intended to establish a cause and effect: if you do this thing, I will do this other thing. "If you show me ship fic, I will block you" is a boundary. "You are not allowed to make ship fic at all" is not a boundary, that is a rule.
Rules are not boundaries. Rules are based on power and control - they are imposed upon you. This is not necessarily bad, but it must come with understanding of where they can be applied. Rules only apply where the rulemaker has control of what is allowed. And these are how many creators seem to approach what they call "boundaries". Again, this is not necessarily bad - their own twitch chats, discords, and maintags on social media ARE spaces in which they have control (some spaces more than others - maintags are shakier since creators don't have moderation power there, but that can be alleviated by creating a dni tag and asking people to place content there instead), and are therefore places where they can make rules about what they do or do not want to be shown. This is fine. Creators have the right to moderate their own spaces how they wish.
Where the problems emerge is that many creators seem to assume that they have the power to apply their rules (in the guise of "boundaries") in places that are not their own. Non-main tags on social media, archive of our own, private discords - these are locations in which the application (or lack thereof) of boundaries is no longer the choice of a creator. They do not have power; thus, any choices made by individuals in those spaces must necessarily be based only on the social agreement between fan and creator, an inherently parasocial construction. And in this case, the parasocial agreement that actually exists is not "this thing must never be created", it is "this thing should not be created or shared in my spaces".
I would argue that the primary issue in how "boundaries" are approached is a misunderstanding of how all of this works. Boundaries cannot be enforced in private spaces because there is no power relationship there. They can only be requested. As a result, when creators attempt to enforce boundaries in spaces that are not their own, what will actually happen is a series of barely-controlled harassment campaigns aimed towards people who are, by and large, following the social contract of boundaries but not the power-enforced contract of rules. And that harassment is far more of a problem than any person in a private discord writing something against boundaries. One might make someone uncomfortable.
The other gets people hurt. And that's where the line is crossed.