i just love being a lesbian @reaverborg - Tumblr Blog

[x] #.txt - text posts that i text

[x] #.art - art that i art

[x] #.asks - asks that was ask at me

[x] #.tags - for when i ramble in the tags

[x] #neat - for posts that make me go neat

[x] #cool art!! - for art from others that make me go cool art!!

[x] #ough - for posts that make me go ough

[x] #:) - for posts that make me go :)

[x] #hhhhh - for posts that make me go hhhhh (these are all suggestive in subject)

[x] #brain alterant - for posts that i thought about a lot

crowwkui

Have you ever drawn Rose Wilson perchance?

not til now :D plus a little doodle of helping jason out of a bind

#cool art!!

liquidroots

happy pride from the trans flag on the floor in deep space nine

foone

I always say: Star Trek: Deep Space 9 started in 1993 and ran until 1999, and the trans pride flag was designed (by Monica Helms) in 1999.

The carpets on Deep Space Nine aren't Trans Pride flag colored: the trans pride flag is Deep Space Nine carpet colored.

#what are the odds that #the trans flag is not only ds9 coloured #but specifically based on ds9

814519

baran topless sunbathing

#ough her #cool art!!

badasserywomen

She's a silver fox

#cool art!!

erros429

roommate texted this to me……..

erros429

update on this from my (now former) roommate:

dawn-lilacbloom

butterfly-sapphic

Op didn't stop on the part where they are also a love interest

the-haiku-bot

Op didn’t stop on

the part where they are also

a love interest

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

erros429

haiku bot got me 🫩

#lol #thats funny #HUH WAIT #THATS OOMF #hi erros

gloomshroomofdoom

Cass

#cool art!!#ough her

phi-guy

realized i like drawing objects. randomized an object and drew version of it. !!!?????

#cool art!!

spicycheeser

"A marriage ending isn't a failure at all. I spent eleven years with her. We were so in love that we couldn't image life apart from each other. We got our own place, adopted a dog, and supported each other through school. I thought if tow people loved each other enough the rest would fall into place, except... love isn't everything.

And I didn't want to believe that, but we were sitting in counseling one day, talking about our future and I realized we were describing two completely different lives. Where we'd live, what kind of life we wanted, what made us happy. And it hit me that- I love this woman and this woman loved me. And after eleven years of loss, grief, career changes, we were so deeply in love... but we weren't aligned. And I kept thinking 'We just need to try harder. We can find some compromise to make this work,' because that's what you're supposed to do when you love someone, right?

But the reality was, we had just become different people. Her trade school took her in one direction, my graduate degree in another and trying to force us back into who we were five years ago wasn't coming from a place of love. It was coming from a place of fear. Fear that, if this ended, it meant we wasted eleven years. But sitting there across from her, I realized: That's not how love works.

Those eleven years happened. They were real. The dog, our home, showing up for each other through grad school and trade school. I wouldn't change a single thing because loving someone doesn't mean you're meant to stay with them forever. And letting go doesn't erase what you had. We measure marriage by whether it lasts forever or not, but what if we measured it by whether it mattered?

What if we measured it by the love we gave, the life we built, and the people we became? Because love's job isn't to last forever, it's to help you become fully completely yourself, and sometimes the most loving thing you can do is give each other permission to be yourselves, separately. But the dog doesn't know were' divorced. He just gets two Christmases now."

Pulled this from this guy Preston Rakovsky's Instagram (@prestonrack) because it is a beautiful perspective on love, marriage, and relationships in general.

#ough