I think that in real lifeā¦. Relationships r like . Your partner WILL ātrauma dumpā on you. You will have to perform āemotional laborā for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult ā¦. To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to meā¦. The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway













