Love actually.

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Good food is all the sweeter when shared with good friends! Had this Truffle Lobster Roll @ Pince & Pints with bestie @klxntamcy last week! Thanks for the treat Yee, my treat next time! 😎 📸: @klxntamcy #foodporn #shiok #pinceandpints

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Our eye bags game strong. 👀💪🏻 #loveyoumal #ryderkoh #weekends (at Equilibrium)

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Ryder saying "bye,see you later!" to the fishes he caught (or given) by Qian Hu yesterday. His school brought him to catch fishes from the long gang and it's his first excursion without me tagging along as he is transiting from tots class to N1. (Tissue please 😭) Not sure if he realized two out of nine fishes decided to swim opposite ways. 🤔😂 #schooldays #ryderkoh #26months #loveofmylife

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My Little Pumpkin is ready for school's Halloween dress up party! 🎃🎃🎃 . #ryderkoh #25months #pumpkin #halloween #schooldays #mylittleboy

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Fri-nally it's Friday! We are so ready for doing nothing weekends! Or maybe we can lepak at a cafe with our sunglasses on, and watch the world go by. 😎 TGIF! 🙌🏻 . 📸: @ashleymakphotography Thank you Ashley! This picture is quite baby thug life Hahahaha. #ryderkoh #25months #mickeymouse #thuglife #tgif #nofilter #countingmyblessings

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So glad I dragged myself to the last two classes back to back of this term despite the bad flu. 😷 Pardon my pale face in this pic. 😂 . So happy to have a dancing buddy. We encourage each other, buy & wear the same pole wear and dance together! Thanks for introducing me to pole dancing @kwekie8, I couldn't be happier. Pole dancing has been a great self discovery, fitness exercise & confidence gaining experience for me although some may still be judgmental about it. I can't wait for performance week and to start a new chapter & new dancing song next term! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 . #polefitness #unitedbypole #poledancingbuddy #countingmyblessings

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It has been a really exhausting roller coaster hell week for me... I seriously think that I need a holiday or something. #Throwback to happier times in 2014, cheery cherry blossoms & all the good food everywhere in Japan! 🙌🏻 . #Japan #cherryblossom #2014 #ineedaholiday #icandothis #stayingpositive

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My little sunshine is 25 months today! ☀️ . #25months #ryderkoh #countingmyblessings

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Actually, every year I wanna get you this is because I just wanna make you happy. 😘 . #yourwishismycommand #makingeffort #countingmyblessings #marriage #repost

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My private class pole dancing sisters for next term! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 . Can't wait for performance week, to learn new pole tricks and the new term! #countingmyblessings #unitedbypole #letsgo

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Accidentally cut myself while washing my stuff so I had a plaster on my pinky finger. Ryder noticed it. He kept asking if I'm in pain and examined my hand carefully to see if there is anymore. He seems so worried and I'm like it's okay, I'm fine. His actions really touched me. I mean look at his innocent & genuinely worried face! Ryder has always been gentle and cheerful. I'm so lucky that he has this caring trait in his character. Ever read this quote by Frederick Douglass: "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." After Ryder starts to pick up from the adults (mainly me & R) so quickly, we begin to mind our language and be as encouraging as we can. Because our children is actually a mirror image of us, until they are older and start to have their own set of thinkings. Whatever it is, I wish that Ryder will stay kind like this even when he grows up. I hope that we as parents are able to set good examples for our kids. This also serve as a reminder for ourselves. To have good thoughts, be kind & compassionate, speak and see positive things & in people always. #mondaythoughts #ryderkoh #24months #blessed #countingmyblessings #grateful

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Haven't been having enough sleep these few days as Ryder is sick... 🤒 . One good thing is that he is still active & cheerful! Yesterday night he took his own sweet time to brush his teeth while watching paw patrol... And when I told him I'm gonna check now... He speed brush his teeth quickly! Hahaha. I find his innocence so adorable, I hope he don't lose his 童真 so soon. Sometimes I wonder if he knows how much he let me understand life again. 😌 . #ryderkoh #24months #weekends #getwellsoonbaby #thankful #countingmyblessings #alwaysbegrateful

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Of all the pole tricks I've learnt so far, the spin climb is the hardest for me I feel. To stay on the pole, remain graceful & do a hair flip is like so damn difficult for me. Occasionally I do it right, sometimes I don't so I act like it is part of the plan and slide down elegantly (I try! 😂). Hopefully with more pole practice & determination I can perfect this trick! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 . 📸: @kwekie8 (glad you are back!) #spinclimb #polefitness #poledancing #unitedbypole #poletrick #determination #💪🏻 #strongerthanbefore

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My baby reciting A-Z at 24 months. I was so surprised! Some parts he was mumbling like MNOP... Miss out the F & I. Hahahaha oh well, I guess only mummies can decipher & understand their children's words! 😅 . #ryderkoh #24months #schooldays #countingmyblessings #abc

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Love the school portal! They always upload happy candid shots of Ryder! 😍😍😍 #ryderkoh #24months #schooldays #happychildhood

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No Monday blues with this happy baby. Positive vibes only! 😍😍😍 . Thank you @evety for this gei gei bag! He loves it! #motherandson #ryderkoh #24months #nomondayblues #positivevibesonly

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@szzs999 说这是一锅卖相像 curry 的 chicken rendang. 😅 . 用木炭闷了很久，肉很入味. 家婆说的对，用心煮的东西都会好吃. 煮的人辛苦：流汗、洗菜、切肉、和热腾腾的火和锅炒出来的东西只盼望煮的东西好吃，吃的人开心. 毕竟这是煮的人一番心血. 谢谢你家婆一向来的一直鼓励. 我会努力让自己的手能和你一样煮出一手好菜. 也想和你一样，进的了厨房、出得了廳堂. #zinkitchen #chickenrendang