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Some of these men are well into their 50s and have no money, no savings, no property, no stocks, nothing! They’ve had five decades to get their shit together and they simply couldn’t. Why on earth would I waste my time on you when you couldn’t even waste enough time on yourself to establish your life into something? You should be ashamed of yourself.
manifestation and law of attraction are SO FUCKING REAL. please hear me on this y’all.
just say what you want out loud every day. morning and night. speak as if it’s already yours or already happened. fake the mindset of believing until you actually do.
why did grown adults fall for sex positivity and hookup culture so hard and encourage it…as if left wing men don’t literally invent “free love” movements at least 3 times a century in order to sleep with as many young women as they want with no consequences
I think people would make much better decisions when it comes to dating if they stopped focusing on things like weddings and babies and instead focused on things like funerals and disappointment. What I mean is when I think about who I want to marry, I can’t just stop at who I want to meet at the altar. Because when you’re thinking about the person you want to spend your natural life with, that means the person who will be by your side when life is hard. When your parents die. When you lose your job. When your child is hurt. When bill can’t get paid. And when all of those painful moments come, you have to think “is this the person i want by my side? Is this the person who will be generous and giving when I’m in need? Is this the person who will find the words to soothe my aching heart? Is this the person that when I look across the room through tearful eyes, I want to, need to see their face?”
What I’m saying is when you’re thinking till death do us part, you really have to listen to the whole vow. The commitment is more than just walking down the isle. Its who you want to walk through life with.
Freestyling 101 for SBs.
Okay…. so freestyling isn’t for finding men to give you x per meet, that’s something else. Freestyling is looking for vanilla gems that are willing to be a SDBF (sugar daddy boyfriend). Most men don’t know that they’re a sugar daddy waiting to be found until you find them and make them realise they want to spend it all on you. The goal is find a dapper older man with a Hublot on a nicely fitted suit at a bar that has been making eye contact with you all night. You chat, you flirt, light taps to the knee or slight arm grabs. You exchange numbers. You DO NOT talk money. You talk about your goals and how career minded you are. You go on a fancy date. You tell him you’re attracted to older men because they “know how to spoil and take care of a gorgeous young lady”. They “appreciate” your time more. He’ll get the hint. It may start with shopping and gifts (no intimacy yet, just kissing). You could even go as far as aaaalmost having sex then “having to go because you have to be up early for work! Work pays the bills!” He won’t be able to get you out of his mind. Wow, he never thought he’d get so lucky with a young, hot 20-something year old. You can then mention a pesky bill that you’re struggling to pay for (real or fake to test the generous waters)… if he sends money without batting an eyelid then JACKPOT. If it’s an issue, you kick to the curb and start against.
FYI ladies, 3/5 of them will be a disappointment. Learn that kicking men to the curb is a norm.
^^^^^ this.
Freestyle In 50 States... 50 States Masterpost
Alabama:
1. Osman’s Restaurant
2. Noja
3. Ruth Chris Steakhouse
4. Legacy Bar & Grill
5. Highlands Bar & Grill
Alaska:
1. Crow’s Nest
2. Kinley’s Restaurant & Bar
3. Sullivan’s Steakhouse
4. Torchon Bistro
5. Simon & Seafort’s Saloon & Grill
Arizona:
1. Hillstone Restaurant
2. Steak 44
3. Tarbell’s
4. Durant’s
5. Ruffino’s Italian Cuisine
Arkansas:
1. James At The Mill
2. Vetro 1925
3. Theo’s
4. Newport Grill
5. Ciao Baci
California:
San Francisco:
1. La Folie
2. Michael Mina
3. Morton’s Steakhouse
4. Bob’s Steak & Chop House (located inside Omni Hotel)
5. Hakkasan
Los Angeles:
1. Grand Havana Room
2. Bar 1200
3. West Resturant & Lounge
4. SkyBar At Mondrian
5. Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse
Colorado:
1. Penrose Room
2. Joseph’s Fine Dining
3. Walter’s Bistro
4. Ristorante Del Lago
5. The Mona Lisa Fondue Restaurant
Connecticut:
1. Barcelona - New Haven
2. L’Orcio Restaurant
3. ROÌA Restaurant and Cafe
4. Goodfellas Restaurant
5. Valbella
Delaware:
1. Tucci’s
2. Westin Wilmington
3. Krazy Kat’s
4. Moro Restaurant
5. Walter’s Steakhouse
Florida:
Miami:
1. Azul
2. Il Gabbiano
3. Prime 112 Restaurant
4. Tuyo Restaurant
5. The Villa by Barton G
West Palm Beach:
1. Cafe Boulud
2. Top Of The Point Restaurant
3. Chez Jean Pierre
4. Agora Mediterranean Kitchen
5. Table 427
Georgia:
1. Fogo de Chão Brazilian Steakhouse
2. Park 75 Restaurant
3. The Optimist
4. STK Atlanta
5. The St. Regis Atlanta
Hawaii:
1. La Mer
2. Roy’s Waikiki
3. Top of Waikiki
4. Tommy Bahama Restaurant | Bar | Store - Waikiki
5. 53 By The Sea
Idaho:
1. Gino’s Italian Ristorante
2. Chandlers
3. Berryhill & Co
4. Emilio’s
5. The Brickyard
Illinois:
1. The Ritz Carlton
2. Biggs Mansion
3. Sable’s Kitchen
4. Wardolf
5. Trump International Hotel
Indiana:
1. Sixteen
2. Recess
3. Meridian Restaurant & Bar
4. Ocean Prime
5. St Elmo Steak House
Iowa:
1. Proof
2. Cobble Hill
3. The Quarry
4. The Hotel at Kirkwood Center
5. Hotel Blackhawk
Kentucky:
1. Vincenzo’s
2. Corbett’s
3. Rivue
4. 211 Clover Lane
5. Volare Italian Ristorante
Louisiana:
1. NOLA Restaurant
2. GW Fins
3. Emeril’s New Orleans
4. Doris Metropolitan
5. Balise
Maine:
1. Back Bay Grill
2. Emilitsa
3. Evo Kitchen + Bar
4. DiMillo’s on the Water
5. David’s Restaurant
Maryland:
1. Stanford Grill
2. The Kings Contrivance Restaurant
3. Iron Bridge Wine Company
4. Petit Louis Bistro
5. SoBe Restaurant and Lounge
Massachusetts:
1. Yvonne’s
2. Island Creek Oyster Bar
3. Eastern Standard Kitchen and Drinks
4. Hillstone Restaurant
5. Da Vinci
Michigan:
1. Pacific Rim
2. Vinology
3. Logan Restaurant
4. Registry Bistro
5. The West End Grill
Nevada:
1. The Wynn
2. Bellagio
3. Alize’
4. Top Of The World
5. Joël Robuchon
New Jersey:
1. Fernandes Steak House
2. Don Pepe
3. The Orange Squirrel Restaurant & Bar
4. Above Restaurant and Bar
5. Fascino
New York:
1. ABC Kitchen
2. Orso
3. L’Artusi
4. Nomad Library
5. Print
North Carolina:
1. Revolution
2. Metro 8
3. Four Square Restaurant
4. Fairview Dining room
5. Parizade
North Dakota:
1. HoDo Restaurant
2. Basie’s Restaurant
3. HoDo Lounge
4. Maxwells Restaurant & Bar
5. Toscana
Ohio:
1. Crop Bistro
2. Lola
3. Blue Point Grill
4. XO Prime Steaks
5. Red The Steakhouse
Oklahoma:
1. Ludivine
2. Vast
3. The Drake
4. The Metro Wine Bar and Restaurant
5. Mickey’s Mantle’s Steakhouse
Oregon:
1. Le Pigeon
2. Portland City Grill
3. Ava Gene’s
4. Ox
5. DOC Restaurant
Pennsylvania:
1. Moshulu
2. Bistrot La Minette
3. Fond
4. Buddakan
5. Le Chéri
Rhode Island:
1. Primecut Modern Steakhouse
2. Siena
3. Providence Oyster Bar
4. Cafe Nuovo
5. Camille’s
South Carolina:
1. Solstice Kitchen
2. Ruth Chris
3. Ristorante Divino
4. Rioz Brazilian Steakhouse
5. Al’s Upstairs Italian Restaurant
South Dakota:
1. Parkers
2. Foleys
3. Delmonico Grill
4. 445 Martini Lounge
5. Dakotah Steakhouse
Tennessee:
1. Etch
2. Watermark Restaurant
3. The Standard At The Smith House
4. Prima
5. Miel Restaurant
Texas:
Houston:
1. Masraff’s
2. Chama Gaúcha Brazilian Steakhouse
3. Mockingbird Bistro
4. Eddie V’s Prime Seafood
5. Ibiza
Dallas:
1. Hibiscus
2. Del Frisco’s Double Eagle Steak House
3. Canary By Gorji
4. Hillstone Restaurant
5. Madrina
Utah:
1. Valter’s Osteria
2. Bambara Salt Lake City
3. Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar
4. Christopher’s Prime Steak House & Grill
5. The Roof Restaurant
Vermont:
1. Trattoria Delia
2. Leunig’s Bistro
3. Blue Cat Cafe & Wine Bar
4. EB Strong’s
5. Church & Main
Virginia:
1. Terrapin Restaurant
2. Zoe’s
3. Coastal Grill
4. The Cellars
5. Il Giardino Ristorante
Washington:
1. Pearl
2. Trace (Located inside The W)
3. Canlis
4. Metropolitan Grill
5. El Gaucho
West Virginia:
1. Noah’s Eclectic Bistro
2. The Block
3. The Chop House
4. Paterno’s at the Park
5. Bricks & Barrels
Wisconsin:
1. Ishnala
2. Double Cut
3. Field’s at the Wilderness
4. Del-Bar
5. GrandStay Hotel Appleton-Fox River Mall
Wyoming:
1. Morris House Bistro
2. Little Bear Inn
3. The Cavalryman Steakhouse
This was by far the most challenging post I have ever done but I am glad that I finished it. Please, reblog if I am missing anything. Yelp gets most of the credit, no lie!
Scrolled thru the depths of my likes just to find this xx
Spending Sugar Money
As most experienced sugar babies will know, when first starting off an arrangement, determining how to spend your new windfall allowance is difficult. To assist newbies and other babies in the bowl, check out my strategy below!
Beginning Allowance (when first entering the bowl/a new arrangement):
Save up three months worth of rent (keep in savings for rainy day, continue paying rent out of pocket from vanilla job)
Purchase general necessities (stock up on things like shampoo, toothpaste, other toiletries, etc. also for rainy day; stock up on non-perishable food also or grocery store gift cards)
Pay off all credit card debt (minor debt)
Begin chipping away at Student Loan Debt (major debt)
Percent of what goes where:
50% - student loans (or other large debt you may be carrying.
30% - high yield savings account (I use Capital One 360 because I like the ability to make sub accounts)
10% - personal spending fun (if you’re in a lot of debt you might be tempted to put all your money in savings or paying things off, but be realistic here. You will always want to have a little bit of fun spending money! If you don’t include it in your budget, you will throw your whole budget off)
5% - sugaring necessities (makeup, hair, nails, tanning, lingerie - don’t forget to invest in yourself! This is important!)
5% - house cash (random necessities - food, toiletries, cleaning supplies, bed sheets, etc.)
What does this look like in monthly allowances?
…And so on. You get the idea. It doesn’t matter what kind of allowance you have. It’s still money you didn’t have before! Remember to think of your sugar money as a windfall and put it to good use!
I’m back & I’m better 🤑✨💸
I know I’ve been gone for awhile but booyyyyyy do I have stories to tell lol this is from the other night. Stay tuned loves, I’m serving piping hot tea soon 😌
Reblogging for good luck 💰
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Travelling to a Meet POT Checklist
Having travelled to numerous places to meet POTs, I have had a mental note of a little checklist that I always use. I am finally writing it down because I see that a lot of people are interested in travelling to meet their POTs, or sex workers/escorts interested in meeting with clients that are not from the same hometown and wish to travel. Travelling is a lot of fun but you must also be aware and stay safe. Here is a little check list that I have come up with that will help ensure more of your safety and comfort while travelling. Make sure you can honestly answer all these questions and fill it out fully before you travel anywhere!
Xoxo love J (IntlSugarBaby)
Checklist & Questions:
The Security:
1. Do I know his real name?
2. Do I know his business/work?
3. Do I have his real contact information?
4. Have I had a Skype conversation with him yet? (To verify pics are real)
5. Have I had a phone conversation with him yet?
6. Have I researched him enough? (Is he on any criminal web pages, SB blacklist, anything in the news about him, etc.)
7. Did you give all this information to at least 2-3 trusted sources? (Give one to a friend that you trust in person, another one that is from the sugar bowl could be from tumblr, and etc. Make sure people have this information!)
8. Do I have security cash in case things go wrong? (Always make sure you have extra cash on you in case things go wrong. I would say maybe 200-500 extra on you. You never know)
9. Have I discussed intimacy with him? (Does he know that you will not be having sex on the first date you are down there? That you will not tolerate inappropriate behaviour?)
The Comfort:
1. Where am I travelling to? How long am I travelling to this area for? (I only recommend 2-3 days maximum for a first travel)
2. If I am travelling longer than 3 hours on a plane, am I getting first class? (You bet your ass you better be!)
3. Am I getting round trip flights? (Double check and call the airline to make sure it is valid! If you feel more comfortable booking yourself make sure you get all the money to book through PayPal for your trip!)
4. Am I getting my own hotel room? Is it booked with: Four Seasons, W Hotel, Trump Hotel, etc? (Non-negogiable. You must get your own hotel room. No ifs, ands, or buts. Call the front desk to guarantee it is booked and to make sure you have your own room. Make sure you are ALSO getting a nice hotel, not some cheap MOTEL!)
5. Have I discussed allowance and payments to come down? (Plane ticket and accommodation do NOT account for your time being spent down there. You must be paid for your time that you are with him. Usually for my 2-3 day rule I would ask anywhere between $1,000-3,000. It all depends for how many times you see him, how long you see him, etc.)
6. Have I discussed a “free-time” with him? (You need a break from him. You need your own time. Within each day you are down there say you need this which can be used to explore, have your own spa day, etc. You are NOT required to be with them at every moment!)
7. Do I have arrangements that a car is picking me up from my house/friends house/local area to the airport and back from the airport? As well as soon as I land in the designated town that I am being picked up by a car and drove straight to the hotel? (Never hop in a car with him straight from the airport. Make sure you go straight to your hotel from a limo/taxi car paid for by him you should not be wasting a dime on anything down there. If you need transportation to the airport from your hometown make that known to him!)
8. Have I discussed when I will be getting my payment? (I always ask for it as soon as I meet up with him in an envelope. This allows you that if no matter if there isn’t a connection there you still get paid! Do not accept payment after your date through paypal or any other way, or cheques. Always make sure it is in cold, hard, cash and in an envelope first meeting. No excuses)
9. What is the itinerary once I get there? (Make sure you know a list of exactly what you are doing. Are you going to a broadway show? The casino? A dinner? Where is the locations + addresses? Make sure to always keep checking in with your “safety” sisters aka friends! Also plan! If you are going to LA and want to go to Hollywood tell your POT. Remember this is a little trip for you so enjoy it!)
What to pack in my suitcase:
1. Always bring a carry on or a large purse. It is a lot quicker to go through the airport without having to check any bags. Remember to always pack light as well because you definitely will be shopping down there!
2. Bring 1 casual outfit. This is for site-seeing, going out and exploring. Something you feel comfortable in (shoe wise) and can walk around for extended periods of time. I would suggest a pair of jeans cute sandals or flats and a super cute top. Accessorize to make yourself look better - nice purse, sunglasses, bracelets/watch etc.
3. Bring 2 nice dinner outfits. I usually am super indecisive when it comes to dinner outfits. I usually bring two really nice ones! One will be a tight dress medium-short length, and another a more longer dress that is classier. Once you arrive in the city you will know what fits in more there and what is easier and more comfortable to wear. Bring your best heels: Louboutins! And of course accessories.
4. Bring 1 Sleeping wear. Usually a comfy top and bottom, or if you are feeling more risqué bring a sexy night gown or something. Remember you have your own hotel room and intimacy is not expected on your first trip down there. This is purely for your comfort!
5. All your sleepover gear stuff. Toothbrush, small lube of toothpaste, make up remover wipes, hair and bobby pins, hair ties, deodorant, a super mini body spray (check your airlines for maximum you can bring).
6. Your make up and accessories. Bring your most used make up such as: Foundation, powder, eyeliner, mascara, eye shadow, a couple of brushes, eyebrow pencil and lip gloss. You can bring bronzer and blush as well but remember don’t bring your entire make up kit! Some stuff might get lost… bring stuff you DEFINITELY would use! As for accessories: sunglasses, a statement watch or bracelet, and ring possibly. Keep it minimum, stick to statement pieces! Don’t want to loose anything!
7. Bring 1 Bathing Suit. You know maybe you want to take a dip in the pool, go to the sauna, or head to the beach on your time off. Who knows, always great to have a bathing suit packed just in case - you never know!
8. Extra feminine supplies. Just in case you get your period on the trip, you never know! Also bring extra gravol, or advil that you potentially could need trying different foods, or just not feeling well on the trip.
9. Pack anything else you think is necessary! Remember, pack light and research what the weather is going to be like when you get down there. Is it going to be warm? Rainy? Cloudy? Check all the weather and make sure you know and pack accordingly!
Plane Checklist:
1. Bring head phones, ipod (if you don’t have an iphone), phone charger, lip gloss, little compact mirror, passport, wallet with extra cash in it, your drivers license (if you are over age of 19 in Canada you can drink there, or over 21 in States! That way you don’t have to bring your passport along with you), a magazine, and little snack to enjoy. This is usually in my hand bag/purse that I also carry on the plane. It is your plane survival and extra time alone survival kit!
2. Get your boarding passes in order, text your POT that you arrived at the airport and just wait to board the flight!
Enjoy your trips meeting your POTs! Remember to have a great time and go through the check list. If they are hesitant about any parts of it or can’t answer and try to negotiate around some of the things… these are viewed as red flags. Immediately drop them. A POT will ALWAYS want your safety and comfort to come first. If he speaks of sex in the hotel, or anything that you are not comfortable with you immediately lay down the line saying that it won’t be tolerated. Make sure to stand up for your values and comfort. The worst thing these men can say is NO which is not a big deal at all. There is a million other guys to replace them. They are indeed replaceable.
Have an amazing trip to where ever you travel to. Remember to stay safe! Safety is a number one priority! Wishing all the hustlers the best of luck.
Xoxo love Mama J
How to stand out as an SB
#1 Don’t talk about money at the get go.
Look, I understand. It’s tiring to get your hair done, makeup done and strut in heels and be on your best behavior on dates without knowing if your POT’s budget for an allowance meets your expectations.
But remember this - the best SB’s understand that the real value is in the intangible benefits that an SD can provide.
There are tons of millionaires who can shag you 4 times a month and give you money to pay off your rent, utilities and bills. No big deal there.
But finding someone you can connect with saves you all that faking of chemistry. If there’s a real mutual benefit there, you find someone who’s willing to invest time in you - to listen to your needs, as you will with his.
If your POT realizes that you’re in it for the long haul, and are interested in understanding how he got so successful - guess what?
You’d have snagged priceless lessons that’d help you be financial independent one day - even as a trophy wife.
#2 Have unshakeable standards
I just had a really nice first date with Champagne Pot yesterday. And he just sent me a text this morning to meet this wednesday for coffee and … head to the Hilton for an hour. He mentioned $500 and a talk about future arrangements.
This is what I replied:
“hi xxx - I’m really flattered that you’re interested in me :-) But I hope you understand that even if I’m a sexual person, I wouldn’t be comfortable being intimate with someone who isn’t my formal sponsor. I’m extremely exclusive, and hope that you know that I’d love to first discuss if we want a similar arrangement before becoming intimate - as much as I’m attracted to you ;-)”
Sure. I kinda would like the $500 before going for my $500 WYP date. That’s a grand for half a day’s work, and I don’t even have a model’s body.
But hey, I’m tall, smart and hopelessly ladylike. I command attention whenever I step into a room. Heck, I was doing my nails yesterday and every one did a double take when they passed by the salon. And nope, I’m not even skinny.
It’s the way I carry myself, It’s the way I dress. Always classy, always confident - always smiling and charming.
I used to think about all that was wrong with me. That was then.
Guys can find an easy fuck if they want. Go ahead. I’m not that girl. Don’t get me wrong. I love a good fuck. If I’m attracted to a guy? Heck I’d do him without thinking if I’m getting paid. Sex is sex. I still enjoy it. But I won’t fake it for money.
What my SD will get though - is my grace and attention and all that jealousy from men who’d pass us by.
Really. I’m sure a lot of you babies are even more beautiful than I am. Remember that you’re more than just a fuck. But more importantly - Act like it.
#3 Be patient
Men can smell desperation. And it smells like an easy screwover.
The odds for SDs are so much better than for us babies. So they know its their ball game - any day, any time. They know it. We know it. And they sure damn well know WE know it.
Champagne asked me about my financial expectations. I said 5k a month. I saw him typing, and deleting.. and typing and deleting..
So I said this:
“Hey.. I want you to know I’ve met with others - and even with their generous allowances, I’ve never gone with someone I don’t feel attracted to. And I’m attracted to you. I just usually don’t talk about money this early on in our relationship. But please don’t rush in thinking about it. I want you to be comfortable with me as well. This is my expectations but I want you to be happy in knowing that you’ve selected the right babe for yourself.”
If I bag him and bossy banker - that’s 10k a month for 3/month meetups. Great? Yes.
But if I don’t bag them? I’d move on and find someone else.
This is a marketplace. But don’t be that desperate product on sale that’d settle.
If they’re not meeting your expectations - someone else will. Maybe not today, maybe not this week, maybe not this month.
Look babies. You’re in this for longer than a month, right? Be patient.
Don’t give up your standards, ever, just because you’re greedy and impatient.
The real gold takes time to be found. And you definitely want to be an available sugar baby when that time comes.
So be patient, my babies and all the best!
-Via: Sugarrangel
Good advice. Thanks for sharing xo
This was earlier this morning. I blocked this dude right after, smh. I can’t waste my time anymore. Before even meeting a guy now I ask if they prefer ppm or a monthly allowance. He then sent me this long paragraph and I was done. Ew.
A fucking mood
reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)
OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.
THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.
The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.
AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.
THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.
YOOOOOOO
I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS
LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL
IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS
holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS.
I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT
SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP
WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????
ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE
THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.
GUYS.
HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER
20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.
GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.
I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.
OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG
this is my favourite thing
OKAY SO MY WISHES ALWAYS COME TRUE BC OF THIS HOLY SHIT
This really worked I wished for an iPhone 6 and I got a fucking iPhone 6
HOLY SHIT IT ACTUALLY WORKED
@fuck-yo-feelingsss OMGG FATIMA MY WISH IS GONNA COME TRUE 😂😂
BLISSFOLLY
THIS WORKS, IVE USED IT SO MANY TIMES AND ONLY REALISE IT WORKS NOW THAT I LOOK BACK AND SEE HOW THINGS WORKED OUT OMF
Yo. This actually works lol
Reblog forever.
A man who doesn’t bring enough to the table knows he’s playing you. And he’ll play you for as long as you accept it. But a man who is actually worth your time will prove it.
Weed out the losers ruthlessly.
A man who cherishes you will ALWAYS show it. Even in the worst of times.
You'll be amazing by where the conversation goes.
“’How are you?’ These are the three most useless words in the world of communication. The person asking doesn’t really want to know, and the person responding doesn’t tell the truth. What follows is a lost opportunity and meaningless exchange with zero connection.
“But the key to making the most out of small talk, according to Harvard researchers, is to simply ask the other person follow-up questions. In a series of experiments, researchers analyzed more than 300 online conversations and found that those who were asked more meaningful follow-up questions (a.k.a. questions that aren’t ‘how are you?’ or ‘what do you do?’), found the other person much more likable.
“’When people are instructed to ask more questions, they are perceived as higher in responsiveness, an interpersonal construct that captures listening, understanding, validation and care,’ the researchers wrote.”
what're some good questions to ask interviewers?
-What is the company culture like here? (If you don’t ask this I will be HIGHLY worried. You need to assess the culture for wherever you’ll be working.) Additionally you could piggyback off of this like “If you could change one thing about the company culture, what would it be?”
-Could you describe day to day operations for this position?
-What makes someone great at this job instead of just average? (Shows you’re interested in excelling at the position)
-What makes you excited to come to work every morning? (Watch their answer because you will KNOW if it’s insincere or bad. If your interviewer hates their job don’t work there.)
-What is the biggest achievement this department/company has made? (Lets you know how often they outdo themselves. If the biggest achievement was a number of years ago they’re likely on a decline.)
-Would you mind giving me a tour of where I would potentially be working if I’m hired? (Allows you to envision yourself in the position and to make sure your area isn’t shitty)
-What is your vision for the company? (If they have no vision don’t work there)
-What does the onboarding process look like? How often can I expect to hear from you?
-Ask any questions related to the company that you’ve found out about, like their new merger or initiative or anything. Shows you’ve done your research. Most companies do have this information online.
-Does the company experience a high turnover rate?
-Would you like clarification on any answers I’ve given?
-If your future boss is interviewing you, ask about their management style. You don’t want any surprises.
-What opportunities in this role will I have for professional development?
