Reality Check. Fiction VS Reality for a Sugar Baby
You’ll be so busy traveling to exotic locations that your passport book will be inundated! You’ll stay in castles, mansions, and works famous 5 star hotels where servants will wait on your every whim. While your SD works all day you will be unlimited funds to shop!! You’ll explore the streets of Paris, go on safaris in Kenya and be dancing in Buenos Aires before you know it girl!!!!
You’ll end up going on a business trip with your SD somewhere-usually domestic. Think less Paris, more Seattle or Phoenix. If it’s for work you’ll be alone all day and if it’s for pleasure then that’s worse because you’ll be what your SD wants to do all day. You’ll be exhausted from entertaining him. The hotel will be nice but probably not extraordinary. You’ll have to see pictures from his exotic vacations that he takes with his wife and family and pretend not to be petty about it. If he’s considerate and leaves you money to do things while he’s gone all day it’s usually a set amount-no Chloe for you. :(
Your SD will be handsome, late 30s, and have the sex appeal of Brad Pitt, Clooney and DiCaprio combined-and he’ll be tall! He’ll have connections to royalty, Fortune 500 CEOs, University deans and Obama himself. He’ll be progressive and respectful. The sex will be amaaaaaaazing.
Even if you find a great guy, nobody is perfect. You’ll probably find a not so great guy. He’ll probably be unattractive and old. He’ll treat you like a “hooker” (no shade at FSW) and the men in his generation don’t treat “hookers” very well…he might be a prick (probably be a prick). He might have some tenuous connections but more than likely he won’t use them to help you especially if you dare have a backbone. The sex might at least be tolerable and it will be hard to be turned on by a balding, chubby, 50 year old man with beady eyes.
Life as a sugar baby will be thrilling. You will attend movie premiers, art gallery openings, and be invited to amazing parties-you’ll be well known by the paparazzi in no time!
Life will basically be the same but occasionally you’ll get a free nice dinner and then fuck an old guy. Depending on how close you get to him maybe you’ll hang out and do normal stuff together: watch TV, go see a movie, go to a baseball game….normal people shit.
You will make 20K/month. Your closet will be drowning in Prada, Givenchy, Chanel and Hermes. You will live in Beverly Hills and take a helicopter places, because traffic is for the proletariat. You will brush shoulders with celebrities and CEOs and politicians on the daily and somehow you will end up best friends with celebrities.
2-5K is more realistic. That’s only 24-60K per year. That money alone will allow you to live a decent middle class lifestyle depending on your location. No Prada, but at least you’ll be able to pay for your Honda Civic’s car payment. Even if you make 20K/month, that’s 240K per year which isn’t bad at all but depending on where you live, it’s not necessarily going to be enough to justify extravagance. Pay your bills and be grateful you can do that because most people can’t!!
The world will be progressive and applaud you for your efforts to support yourself by putting your skills to use.
People will see you as a “whore” and treat you that way. Being a SW of any kind is very dangerous and if people in your vanilla life find out you’ll probably be ostracized and face consequences.
These are generalizations and it’s different for some girls (some get really lucky I guess??) but some of you need to take a few dozen steps back and get some perspective and not believe everything you see and lower your expectations by about fifty notches. Don’t be fucking gullible and don’t count other girls’ coins.
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