I have noticed in recent years that men say âno homoâ way less often than they used to when I was in high school at least. Like Iâve witnessed in media and online and in person adult men just willing to say âI love youâ or âyou look greatâ to their guy friends without tacking a no homo onto the end of it.
And if you think thatâs not progress you werenât there in the trenches.
Iâve seen middle aged comedians on national tv sincerely say âI love youâ to their friends with no jokes attached. Nature is so slow to heal but it is possible, I tell you. We have planted trees and seen them survive.





















