I'm a bouquet of barbed wire

Erin. 22. Feminist. She/Her. Bi. Activist. Cats. In a serious relationship. Non-religious. If you want a trigger tagged shoot me a message and I'll do it, I try to make this a safe space.

[zvaigzdelasas]

http://thoughtsonthedead.com/on-the-propriety-of-punching-nazis-an-faq/

[zarekthelordofthefries]

Harley Quinn shouldn’t be suave and sexy and seductive. She should be a screechy loud-mouthed bisexual disaster goblin who likes stupid puns and is both a genius and an absolute dumbass.

[twilightofthesandwiches]

Pamela Ivy, Professional Femme Fatale, looking at Harley eating ice cream straight outta the box at 3AM in her underwear and somehow getting some stuck in her hair: -dreamy sigh- I love her so much

[okaymad]

[dawnofslime]

I am a peddler of chubby cat pics

[digital-phonetics]

Pray. Show me your wares

[dawnofslime]

[kedamonoz-archive]

gentle reminder that mother’s day is not for all moms. it’s for good moms. abusive and neglectful moms do not deserve to be celebrated on this day. and if you are the child of one of those moms, you should feel no guilt in ignoring the day altogether. I hope you can stay strong kiddos! ♡

[feministism]

[8bitnatsuki-deactivated20200525]

So my grandmother passed recently, and I got her will

My birth father was always a piece of shit, always stealing from his mother and ditching his kids whenever he could, I got to his part of the will and

Grammy had the last laugh

[battlefalcon]

This is actually done for legal reasons. If Chad was excluded from the will entirely, he could make the case that he was supposed to be included but was forgotten, and get a big chunk of the estate. By explicitly giving him $1, it shows he wasn’t forgotten so he doesnt have a case.

[showerthoughtspost]

Maybe we don’t hear as much about organized crime these days because they’ve gotten REALLY organized.

[vampmotel]

sir you are referring to the government 

[allthecanadianpolitics]

Canadians right now as Right Wingers take over our provincial governments one by one

[wombshaker]

Friendly reminder: Someone holding you accountable is not the same as someone “attacking” you

[creamynut]

*inserts hard pill to swallow meme*

[garbage-empress]

good takes on tumblr are the best because everyone’s URL on this site is terrible.

thank you for the life lessons, booty scientist and creamy nut

[startrekdeepspacenine]

me @ very talkative cats: i love you so much. please continue your story. tell me about your day. i love you

[moisemorancy-deactivated2022061]

[babelady]

it’s fuckn stupid we lost the “fuck off into a hole and sleep all winter” thing to bears n what did we gain from it?? seasonal depression that’s what. it’s bullshit and i’m calling it

[revolutionunderground]

Here I sit, eating dill pickle crispy minis, minding my own business, when I realize I have actually no clue how old I am. Is my bio right? I do not know. I should probably call my dad.

[kayvsworld]

my body, tearfully: when sleep???

me: my dude we just woke up!! It’s time for wakefulness and doing things and Productivity

my body, weeping: but???? when sleep?????

[rizaoftheowls]

me: okay, finally now is sleep

my body: no. wrong.

[gravitren]

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[pokemonprofessor]

For the uninformed, vaginismus is when the vagina painfully tightens and spasms when faced with pressure, usually from anything trying to insert into the vagina. It’s the reason I can’t wear tampons, and why many people can’t have vaginal sex without severe pain.

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

[frustratedwaffle]

I’ve never even heard of this??

[shadowkat678]

Me neither. :(

[backpackfullofplums]

Thank you for sharing bc I think I might actually have this but I thought it was just me. I can barely handle so much as a tampon. Will have to bring this up at my next doctor’s appointment.

[saathiray]

So, there is a website dedicated to vaginismus which I suffered from for years and had no idea how to talk about it. I found this website ten or twelve years ago and bought some of their products which helped immensely. I know nothing about the medications, but the dilator set is probably the best you can do because it is a way to help widen the vagina on your own terms. I still have mine even though I haven’t needed it for years because it could come back later. 

One thing I appreciated about this website is that it emphasized that this is not your fault. Another thing I learned was that one cause could just be, you know, being part of a culture that gives women extreme anxiety about sex. This resource helped me when I was a lot younger and terrified that I was broken. 

Anyways, here’s the website. Please share it with everyone you know: x

[barbabangme]

I HAVE THIS AND IT FUCKING SUCKS SO PLEASE SHARE

[calamity-crow]

me: enamel pins are beautiful but I wouldn’t know what to do with them. like do I put them on a bag or a coat or something? they’re cute but n–

my magpie brain: SMALL. SHINY. DETAILS????? PIN GET PIN!!!! PINNNNN. PUT. PIN. SMALL. SHINY. GET PIN GET ALL PINS