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i dont use this blog anymore i came on here Just to promo my askblog and now i will disappear into the void again goodbye

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askyanlen

hi!! my name is len ask me stuff if u want °˖✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧˖°

#my art #hi

goneohwell

;Pointy teeth;

exih

replying with “oof” or “f” to someone venting is the worst you might as well just not reply at all because thats not how you talk to people

exih

i mean its epic and cool and all that we have established some kind of joke language that we all know but sometimes yall need to realize that those little phrases aren’t appropriate in certain conversations a LOT of the time. i feel like that this little culture of speaking in “advanced memes” has made y’all forget proper etiquette when it comes to talking to people because people will find you annoying and unhelpful if your replies only consist of “oh worm” at inappropriate times…

mouthwashh

and for people who don’t know what to say, I find it’s a lot better to say something like

I’m sorry!

that sounds awful/bad/ect

are you okay?

it’s gonna be okay

i understand/I get that

these are much better “filler” statements because I get it, sometimes conversations especially venting conversations are awkward

to-unknown-lands

For when you don’t want to just say “That sucks!”, here’s more:

You aren’t alone

Have you called [doctor, friend, authorities, etc] about it?

Can I tell you how I got through that?

Do you need to talk more or do you need a distraction?

You’ve survived/gotten through other bad things before

saltedcaramelbastard

milennial culture is sending a horrible post to your friend who is sitting 10 feet away from you in the same room, and waiting 2 seconds before hearing a dismayed “….no!”