How to Get a Boyfriend: 47 Tips for Finding Someone Special in 2018
Thee challenge of how to get a boyfriend, can either be difficult or a load of enjoyable fun if you follow these 47 Romance tips!
“How to Get a Boyfriend and Establish a Loving Relationship!”
I am sure you agree, the problem of how to find a boyfriend for some girls is not easy.
If it was simple, then every girl would already be in a happy and loving relationship!
…but most are not, in fact, far from it.
How about you?
However, finding the right boyfriend has very little to do with luck!
Developing a lasting relationship (like most things) is always more successful if you follow a tried, tested and proven formula.
“In this article, I am going to introduce you to such a process.”
The following tips will make attracting a boyfriend and establishing a relationship at least 20 times easier if you use them.
Read this ESSENTIAL advice before you begin:
How to get a boyfriend, the hard facts!
Below are 47 Romance tips which will make the romance process both far easier, more certain, and a ton more fun.
The more of these you can adopt and implement, the more successful you will enjoy.
How to get a boyfriend (with potential) is a process.
The chances are, you will have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince.
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Not just you…
…It’s the same for most of us:
A few, (probably most) of your dates won’t work, or, they won’t be the right person for you.
It’s likely to be the same with relationships.
Just remember that every date you go on that’s a non-starter takes you closer to finding your soul-mate, so stay with it.
The accompanying hurt and disappointment is what will make you appreciate him more when you eventually find the right one for you…
…and you will find him!
So NEVER give up.
For this reason, try not to become prematurely too attached or too deeply involved.
The romance solution is a simple one:
The more potential boyfriends that you date, the more likely you are to find and establish a HIGH-QUALITY relationship.
Here are the tips:
47 Practical tips on – How to get a boyfriend.
Don’t live in boyfriend hope, become proactive!
Hope is not a strategy, and the meek are very unlikely to inherit the earth.
Whatever it is you want in life the way to achieve it is by becoming PROactive, and finding your boyfriend is exactly the same.
You could live in HOPE your whole life and never meet a suitable guy.
However, if you become proactive, adopt the right positive attitude and do everything in your power to meet new guys, you will eventually be successful.
Think big, move fast and be realistic!
Expectation is a HUGE element in success at anything, particularly important in finding your future life partner!
If you have HIGH and 100% expectation of finding your special someone, romance success will be hot on your heels.
If you provide refuge to low expectations, this will be what you can expect also.
Guys love being flirted with!
It’s usually the men that take the initiative when it comes to flirting.
However, the females (regardless of appearance) who learn this simple technique are ALWAYS popular and successful with men.
Read that bit again!
Flirting is not difficult to learn and master, and there is plenty of quality flirting advise you can refer to.
Double check he is not already in a relationship?
This is not so much paranoia as self-preservation.
The integrity of some individuals (regardless of first impressions) can be very disappointing.
The last thing you need is to waste your time and emotional energy on someone who is dishonest, or still involved in another relationship.
Just imagine how you would feel if you were the 3rd party in a similar unacceptable situation?
It’s not fair to the other person, and neither would it be fair on you.
So, before your new date turns into a relationship ask them this question directly.
If there serious about you they won’t mind you asking this question, and may even ask you the same question.
Don’t allow yourself to become a toy!
If there is any unfinished business BACK OFF immediately.
The opinions of others could be important.
Often you can learn the character and potential of a prospective boyfriend from the way his friends and acquaintances, and the way in which they refer to him.
Usually, the chance will present itself for you to engage in conversations with such individuals.
When such opportunities appear, discover as much as you can, such information as:
How they met, funny stories and happening etc.
Such information, both positive and negative will help you make decisions important to your future happiness.
What type of boyfriend do you want?
More importantly, what type of boyfriend don’t you want?
This doesn’t require much thinking about as you know yourself and the type of person who you will be in harmony with.
The important point is what type of personality and character do they need to possess for you to complement each other?
Are you looking in the right places?
Once you have a better idea of the type of guy you would like to meet. Then you need to give a little brainpower to the type of places they are likely to hang out.
As a matter of interest, the worst places to meet someone for long-term relationship potential is in a nightclub.
Generally, although not always, these are the haunts of those looking for sex and one-night stands.
The SMART way to find a boyfriend!
If you decide who, and who you WON’T date, mealy on appearance then you’re shallow.
Yes, I am aware that attraction and chemistry are vitally important to every relationship.
However, if you choose sex over a good, kind, loving and reliable life partner then you are both shallow and stupid.
Okay, insults over…
The EXCEPTIONAL IMPORTANT point I am trying to make here is this:
The guy's inner beauty is 1,000 times more important than just appearance.
However, you will never discover their qualities if you don’t take the opportunity to get to know them.
Remember that beauty is only skin deep.
Be prepared to compromise and experiment even if you don’t find them initially that sexually interesting.
When you start to get to know and like someone there looks become so much less important.
This is essential to understand!
Encourage double dating and group hangouts!
As I am sure you are aware, there can be a lot of pressure and stress when out on first dates.
However, there is safety in numbers…
For that reason, consider double dating as they always remove one-to-one pressure and can be lots of fun while you weigh up your date.
In the same way, group activates are a great way of getting to know someone better in advance of dating.
Make sure that he notices you!
You’re a female (I hope), so you already naturally know how to do this!
Whether you have practiced and refined your skills or not, you defiantly have the potential for oozing sex appeal that should capture his attention.
Your body language, the way you flick your hair and the sideways glances you share will do more to indicate your interest in him than a letter of intent from your lawyer.
Give him good reason to ONLY say nice things about you.
When it comes to long-term romantic relationships, first impressions are of course important.
More important, however, are the impressions we provide as our relationship develops.
It’s the real you, the one he sees after the first date best behavior has been dropped that’s most important.
If he doesn’t see a nice person with partnership potential, then you probably won’t be together for very long.
Act accordingly…
Don’t try too hard!
Let me explain what I mean.
Appearing desperate, or too keen can be very off-putting when it comes to romance and finding your special someone.
Yes, you want him to know that you are interested in him, and this he will most likely find flattering.
There are lots of ways of highlighting this fact without putting yourself across as too intense.
However, if he feels you are stalking him or have an unhealthy obsession towards him, then it will work against you.
Keep him to yourself!
I totally understand, when you have a new boyfriend you want to share your happiness and enthusiasm around.
…but come on girls!
You know what it’s like, we ALL find it hard not to gossip and keep secrets.
So just so long as they don’t know him or any of his friends, family or acquaintances, only then share details of your new boyfriend with your best friends.
If there is a connection DON’T!
Don’t do sex too soon!
There are many GOOD reasons why, below are two main ones.
If your serious about this guy as a potential long-term partner then sex can wait a while longer.
The thinking behind this is first:
If you have sex with him quickly you could be seen as an easy lay or the local bike, which has been ridden by lots of other guys also.
Such suspicions will lower his level of respect for you.
Second: if he is persistently and only interested in having sex, then he is probably not the life partner material that you had hoped for either.
Next…
Take things slowly!
If things work out, you will be spending a LOT of time together in the future.
Too many girls, (probably due to insecurity issues) want to move things on far too quickly.
Finding a boyfriend is not just about the eventual destination.
The most important part is to enjoy everything that your relationship journey has to offer also.
Find a pace that suits you both!
Become friends before you become a couple!
I hope that you can see the logic of this wisdom?
From experience, I know that the best relationships started out as just friends before their relationship developed into something more.
They came together through other circumstance such as work or chance meetings rather than dating.
Mutual respect grew, as did the enjoyment of being together and nature took its course.
BOOM!
This is how you will most likely find your soul-mate.
Let him see you’re interested!
Although, rushing a relationship can be damaging, making him aware you are interested is a good thing.
Now men aren’t always as sharp as us females.
For that reason, telling him directly, or writing him a little love note of appreciation will be the best and most romantic way of capturing his full attention.
Show him your uniqueness!
You constantly need to be highlighting the fact that you are different from other girls because you are!
Keep looking for ways of highlighting you’re the perfect woman for him.
Become a girl really worthy of dating!
If you haven’t yet started dating let him see your skills and FULL potential as a life partner.
If you don’t yet have that many, then let him see you developing them.
You don’t have to flaunt such facts so much as subtly, or even accidentally expose them.
If he has the slightest interest in you he will notice!
As a matter of interest, MOST MEN are subconsciously interested and attracted most by women with family and home building skills.
Get him to talk about himself!
Let’s face it, most people are generally waiting for the opportunity to start talking about what interests them.
Relationships, by contrast, are about sharing mutual interests.
What is happening in each other’s life.
However, if you start by getting him talking and telling you about what interests him, this is one of the fastest ways of growing your relationship and knowing him better.
It’s really easy:
Just ask him a question and shut up and listen carefully. Nod reassuringly while he talks, and with your encouragement, he will.
In fact, stopping him may be the problem.
Make him feel good about himself!
Everyone one enjoys hearing compliments about themselves. It warms the soul and makes you feel appreciated.
For this reason, constantly be looking for points you can complement him on and you will be onto a winner.
In fact, you will probably find that by leading the way, he will reciprocate and start paying you compliments also.
Share your aspirations, and think big!
What do you want to do with your life?
If you have serious ambitions and a direction that you want to follow you should share these with him because he is interested.
Knowing that you are a ‘go-getter’ will provide you with a very positive advantage.
This will be persuasive information when comes to long-term romance related decision-making time.
Also, although it may not be good for your long-term relationship.
If you have very different life ambitions, which aren’t congruent, now would be a good time to know about them.
Before you become too deeply attached and involved.
Make him want to spend time with you!
How to become really interesting is a learned skill which we need to study.
Generally, interesting individuals employ a variety of attention-grabbing techniques, a few I have already outlined.
If you stay enthusiastic and passionate about your together time he will enjoy being with you so much more. He may also invite you into other aspects of his life.
Let him see your true personality!
The most difficult thing for anyone to change or upgrade is their personality and behavior.
However, to save wasting each other’s time there will come a point when he will need to see all of your negative and positive attributes.
It is better to know about them now and be prepared, rather than later when they come as a shock.
Be nice to others!
Nothing would be more off-putting to a potential mate than a life partner who was difficult, confrontational and uncaring with other people.
Unless you plan on living in isolation, good social skills are necessary virtues.
So constantly demonstrate that you’re nice to others through your actions and interactions.
Aim to develop your people and community skills on a daily basis.
You will never be short of opportunities:
BTW, it will make you feel great about yourself and is powerful advice on how to get a boyfriend.
Explore and find NEW mutual interests!
Just become a little creative and think out of the box and you will come up with dozens of possibilities.
Or, do you or he already have a passion that the other would like to become more involved in?
Examine couples who share close relationships and you will discover many also share joint interests and passions which will do everything for building your relationship.
Never EVER cheat!
I know this is an obvious one I know, but it needed mentioning.
I wasn’t sure where to put it in this how to get a boyfriend article, so here seems as good as anywhere.
Cheating is a dirty horrible thing to do and no amount of words will ever justify it.
It will create deep and unrepairable cracks and ongoing distrust in your relationship.
Even if you can justify it to yourself, consider how it would affect your boyfriend and make him feel.
Don’t dwell on past relationships!
Most of us have been hurt by past boyfriends at one time or another.
Of course, your present boyfriend will probably show interest in knowing about who he has superseded.
However, there are two actions that will likely damage your relationship, these being:
A: Comparing him with any past boyfriends.
This highlights the fact that your past boyfriend is still on your mind and you are not fully over them yet, and this fact obviously could create concern.
B: Making him pay for the indiscretions of other boyfriends.
No one wants to suffer the emotional bombardment of past and unrelated relationships.
Please remember that the past DOESN’T equal the future, and whatever pain was caused by a boyfriend from the past should stay in the past.
It has nothing to do with the guy you’re now dating, so DON’T make them pay for it.
Become a role model!
It’s easy to find arguments and quarrels in your relationship simply because he is not doing what you would have done, or expected and wanted him to do.
I know, it can be so annoying.
I have been there and done that and realised that there is no point in getting angry!
Here’s why:
Just remember he is not you, and being male he almost certainly thinks in a VERY different way, and that’s part of what makes us unique.
Stay mindful of the fact that there are generally many different ways of achieving the same or a similar outcome.
Are you sure that your way is the right one?
For that reason, consider becoming a role model in your romance and totally avoiding such petty and needless arguments that could grow into something more.
Be a strong woman!
Whether they are prepared to admit it or not, men usually admire strong women because they heavily contribute to the development of a strong relationship.
Being seen to be strong doesn’t mean sacrificing your femininity in any way.
Just let him see that as well as being good life-partner material you are also a formidable ‘make it happen’ ‘don’t mess with me’ type of character.
Always be honest!
Now I am not suggesting that you tell lies.
However, when you deceptively fail to disclose the full details of a situation you are still being dishonest.
When your boyfriend asks you a question you’re aware what it is they are trying to discover.
It’s easy to distort and manipulate the truth without telling a lie, but you're still being dishonest.
Relationships are ALLWAYS built on trust and honesty.
Never be manipulative!
What we females lack in size and strength we tend to compensate for in feminine manipulation skills.
It’s a sort of unfair advantage that we possess.
However, in the same way, that we would hate our boyfriend to bully us into doing what they want by using their additional size and strength.
Would be equally unfair if we used our feminine powers of manipulation or emotional blackmail for the same purposes.
Leave jealousy and possessiveness to idiots!
The is nothing good to say about jealousy.
I agree that a little initial insecurity jealousy highlights their interest which can be flattering.
The problems begin when it grows into something more.
Jealousy paranoia can be a very dark thing:
It will conjure up many false situation demons and quickly be responsible for totally destroying your relationship.
If it’s you who is feeling jealous?
Then remember that your relationship is built on trust. You have to give it willingly or your relationship will suffocate.
If your partner proves himself to be untrustworthy, forget jealousy!
Just move on because he is UNLIKELY to change.
Be yourself
We are all actors in new relationships putting on airs and graces and our best (sometimes slightly exaggerate) ego forward. It's part of what makes dating fun.
However, the time will come when holding character will become tiering or, you will have to revert to the real you.
This is who he will be most interested in getting to know better, the one who could become his life partner.
Let things happen naturally!
Be relaxed and go with the flow.
Building a quality trusting relationship takes time and it’s not a race:
The quotation: ‘Marry in haste, devoice at leisure’ says it all!
If you have problems with self-confidence and insecurity deal with them.
Impulsiveness can be interesting, but not when deciding on something as important as your future.
Take the initiative!
Now you have mastered how to get a boyfriend, but he is now REALLY dragging his feet.
Things have happened naturally, and you have reached a point where things need to be stepped up.
However, and quite frustratingly, he is likely to have grown a long beard and start drawing his pension before taking things to the next level.
So, what do you do?
If he seems happy with your current speed then making things happen will be up to you. I make all the big decisions in our relationship and my man is happy with this arrangement, yours might be also.
Be confident!
Did you know men admire confident women?
Those who are tenacious, who are not afraid to make things happen.
So, show him you have no shortage of self-confidence. If you have to, be prepared to ‘fake it until you make it!’
Confidence generates more confidence!
Just act confident and you will begin to become so.
Support him and back him up!
When your part of a team, you, of course, have to act like a team player.
This means occasionally (although not ALWAYS) that you will have to show support for something you don’t agree with.
If you can’t show support, you will have to stay natural and not be drawn.
…of course, never highlight public opposition as public mutiny will quickly destroy the trust and relationship you have built.
Give him space!
I have the best man in the world, but occasionally he needs a little personal time.
Personally, I find this need hard to understand which is unimportant!
He goes off, usually to the park, or sometimes fishing (never catches anything) and then comes home again and is back to his usual wonderful self.
Obviously, this time is important to him!
It could be the same with your new boyfriend so be understanding.
Taking it to the next level
There are no hard and fast rules here as it will differ for everyone and from relationship to relationship.
You will know when it’s time and if you both feel the same way even better.
Stay exciting – Not costly!
One of the best ways of maintaining a healthy romantic relationship is by keeping yours exciting and fresh.
In the nicest way, be a little unpredictable and keep experimenting and trying new things in all aspects of your life together.
Never confuse new with expensive, which it doesn’t have to be.
Just think and plan creatively.
Respond – NEVER react!
Arguments and disagreements from time to time, are most likely going to happen.
The important part is getting over the disagreement and back to normal as quickly as possible.
So always think out what you’re going to say rather than snapping with cruel replies.
My husband and I have arguments most days and bicker all of the time, it means nothing.
We have a great relationship, but both have inflammable personalities and both of us tend to be argumentative. We have learned to never react but respond, generally with more sarcasm.
Leave the drama to actors!
If you allow it to you can let things get out of hand, it can take days or EVEN WEEKS to get over such disagreements.
You’ve got together for good reasons which in spite of latest disagreement are probably still valid?
You live together so always aim to be nice to each other and leave cause and ‘blame’ for the TV soaps.
The painful bit!
Occasionally you will come across a guy you want so badly your teeth hurt, I am speaking from experience.
However, just because you like them doesn’t mean they're a good fit for you in a relationship or even interested.
In fact, although I was infatuated, one older guy who I fell head over heels for was very bad for me.
It may be your family and friends that tell you this fact, but you need to listen to them because generally, they have your interests at heart.
Not all relationships last forever!
Sometimes, and for no obvious or apparent reason your relationship will come to an abrupt end.
Usually, this happens when he is (for whatever reason is NOT happy!) but didn’t want to talk about it.
Generally, they have seriously thought things through, but were too callous, selfish or cowardly to talk it through with you.
When they have made such a decision it’s usually irreversible.
When to let go!
If this ever happens to you.
Or, he changes into the boyfriend from hell and begins giving you ongoing grief, or gets abusive or violent.
Then it’s time to move on and move on ASAP!
Although children can be a problem in such situations.
If there is no good reason to perlong your unhappiness, then get it over with QUICKLY!
No relationship is better than a bad one!
Many people continue to live in poor quality relationship because it’s what they have got used to.
Or, and far sadder, they think if they were to separate they wouldn’t find another relationship.
It’s simple, you deserve to be happy and if you have a relationship you deserve it to be a loyal, caring and loving one.
So, if you can’t repair it, move on.
Whatever your circumstances, if you are a nice person there is someone out there who would like to meet you.
If you are wondering how to find them then click on the below link.
How to find a nice boyfriend.
FAQ (Frequently Asked “How to get a boyfriend” questions!)
How to find a boyfriend in ten days!
Have you seen the adds that tell you can achieve this? Finding one is possibly, but developing a relationship with them in such a time span is not.
I really hope that they’re joking?
Finding a boyfriend with life partner potential is not a race.
So, my advice to you is to take it at a leisurely pace and enjoy the process because.
Just think, if you get it right, you will only have to pass this way just once.
How to find a boyfriend if you’re shy!
If you’re a nice person shyness won’t be a problem.
Most decent men will adapt because just like you they are looking for a good life partner also.
However, they may be shy also, problem over.
How to find a boyfriend when your fat!
When you find a guy, who is smart enough to look beyond appearances, how you look will be very secondary to your inner beauty.
Looks are only skin deep and fade with age whereas inner beauty and virtues (like a fine wine) mature and improve with age.
Click here to discover how to find the type of person who is most interested in your inner beauty.
How to find a boyfriend when you lack confidence!
Self-belief and self-confidence are probably the most important assets of all to possess when it comes to finding a life-partner.
The good news is that these assets are easy to improve and with just a little focus you can quickly improve both your level of self-belief and self-confidence.
Tell me more about boosting my levels of self-confidence…
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