Trash Blog, Potentially NSFW

Luna/Angus | Genderfluid (He/She/They) | Bisexual Polyamorous

[orochislayer]

PSA: if you dont have a fursona by January 1, 2019 you WILL be assigned one

[orochislayer]

@ everyone in the notes saying they’d rather die: dont worry! you cant

[asterosian]

Exclusionists are out there really thinking people take resources they don’t need

They think aces don’t get kicked out of their homes but they’re worried about homeless aces taking up lgbt+ shelters (how did they become homeless then…?)

They think aces don’t face enough discrimination to drive them to suicide so they kick up a fuss when the Trevor Project offers their services to aces (if that were true then no ace would call in so who cares)

They think aces don’t need any of the resources offered by lgbt+ organizations but they’re so worried that aces will take those resources they supposedly don’t need, all without ever being able to answer the question of why anyone would take those resources if they don’t need them

But since aces do use these resources… maybe that’s because they need them. And maybe that’s because asexuality isn’t compatible with heteronormativity, which results in discrimination against aces by the hands of straight people.

Which means sitting around on Tumblr doing your damn hardest to make aces feel unsafe in the community isn’t actually activism and you’re contributing to the hateful shit aces are already facing

[golbatgender]

They’re literally just like people who yell about “illegals.” No one’s invading, ffs. Queerness isn’t some kind of dragon’s hoard. If people need help, they need help, and we should try to give it to them.

[radiqueer]

I'm a rape survivor. Why do you people think the most traumatic thing that ever happened to me is erotic? Do you think it's ok because a handful of survivors feel that way, so now I and the rest have to spend our lives knowing that what happened to us is a turn-on for people like you? This is basically misery tourism lite, where people are masturbating to my trauma. Thanks for validating my rapist.

1. the world doesn’t revolve around you and your trauma. this is harsh, but it’s the truth. the vast majority of people who have rape fantasies do not know you, and aren’t thinking of you, or your rapist. it has fuckall to do with you. nobody is masturbating to your trauma because most people don’t know you. hell, I don’t know you. it’s not about you. it’s about the people having those fantasies. 

2. fantasies are a way of sublimating traumatic incidents into things we can deal with. It’s one of the ways we deal with trauma. some people are triggered and repulsed by anything that reminds them of their trauma, and other people want to rewrite the traumatic incident until they have gained power over it. both are equally valid ways of dealing with trauma, and neither of them is better than the other. different things work for different people. maybe only one of those works for you; that doesn’t give you the right to talk over people with experiences of recovery different to yours.

2a. links for my claims: one / two

3. nobody is forcing you to have such fantasies (I hope). I want you to be healthy, and to have an environment that allows you to curate your experiences so that you never have to see things that trigger you. but also? the creation of this space is your responsibility. it’s up to YOU to ask people to tag things, to use tumblr’s inbuilt tag filtering system, or install xkit. it’s up to you to curate what you see so that you are safe. I want you to be safe, but I cannot swaddle you in bubble wrap and nuke everything that makes you uncomfortable. things that make us uncomfortable will continue to exist despite what we want. I am so sorry. but it’s up to you to make the world as easy for yourself as possible. 

4. things that make us uncomfortable exist despite our best efforts. you know what makes me uncomfortable? food. especially meat, which I don’t eat. vegans also make me uncomfortable, because they’re wrong. religion triggers me. food is something I have to interact with very carefully, because it makes me hurt in ways I don’t know how to deal with. but both of those things are everywhere. I have to go to the temple sometimes. I definitely have to eat. it’s not the same, but it is comparable. I have food blacklisted on tumblr, and I am still trying to work up the courage to ask people I follow to tag their religious posts. I am trying. so should you, to the best of your ability. for your own sake.

[golbatgender]

Anon, the world is not about you. You are not the protagonist of the world. You are one of nearly 8 billion individuals just existing on this weird little planet. All of them have just as many feelings and goals and fears as you do. Most of them have no idea who you are. You’re not even some kind of celebrity known to them, let alone someone they talk to. It’s not about you. I hope this gives you some peace.

[chelonianmobile]

Anon, if you won’t even put a username to your question, what the fuck makes you think anyone involved knows who the fuck you are and would ever think about you in any context other than “wow, that anon sure asked a stupid question”?

[fullmetalfuck]

@donutsandpacifism replying to you separate because i’m pretty sure he’s a minor (who shouldn’t be on Ao3 anyway, let alone talking to adults about child porn). i can’t tell if you want an actual answer, but i’ll answer regardless.

—> TRIGGER WARNING: CSA survivor story

i’m a CSA survivor. i was sexually abused by my cousin for years. he created child porn of me. luckily he got caught before he was able to spread it, but it still horrorfies me in a way i cannot explain. i’m sure other survivors can attest to this. i am a victim of sexual abuse. i will always have trauma. i will always have to block the edwin tag. i won’t ever be able to look at barbies again, because that is what he groomed me with.

when i got older fiction helped me cope. royed fanfic? fuck yeah. fucked up sexual shit? yes. stuff like hermione/ snape? sometimes, yes. fucked up sexual shit helped me realize just how bad my abuse was.

i’m getting off track. my point is that i know what abuse is like. i know what CSA victims go through. and fanficiton and shipping will never be anything even closely like that.

and honestly? i could care less if people who aren’t CSA survivors read fucked up shit. what fiction you consume does not dictate what you support IRL. if it did, 90% of the population would be pedophiles, murders, and rapists.

[jammerjenny]

Bro I’m sorry that that happened but your coping mechanism is fucked and there being child pornography online is only gonna let people think that doing this shit is okay and should be normalized. Theres thousands of better ways to cope with what you went through than reading shit like that, and you should have the common sense to know that advocating for shit like that to be so easily accessible and accepted is gonna immediately make you look like a shitty person to others.

Pull your head out of your ass and stop, dude.

[fullmetalfuck]

ahh, clearly you have absolutely no fuckin clue what you’re talking about!!

are you a trained therapist/psychologist? have you spent years in therapy with me? do you know, in extreme detail, how, what, where, when i was abused?

no? then you have absolutely ZERO authority to tell what is a good coping mechanism for me or not.

i can link you tons of sources if you want, but i can tell you that coping through fiction is an extremely common practice. most therapists offer it as an option for their clients. it doesn’t work for everyone, but is a complete valid, scientific proven way to cope.

if fiction really did normalize fucked up shit, how is the world not ran by murderers? or rapists? genuine question. if fiction really can normalize what you say it can, why aren’t i a murderer? i mean, i watch criminal minds. a show watched by literal millions of people. what about preteen orgies? IT, a book read by literal millions of people, has just that.

[perfectsnek773-deactivated20191]

@donutsandpacifism

How self-entitled do you have to be to say something like that? That goes beyond being disrespectful. Beyond being an asshole.

You have NO RIGHT WHATSOEVER to tell ANYONE that their coping is fucked.

They just opened up about their abuse to you, and they didn’t have to. You could’ve done the respectful thing and accepted that and left, but you had to go above and beyond and cemented yourself as human garbage.

[jammerjenny]

I’m human garbage for telling someone that indulging in child porn and being okay with child porn is a decent method of coping with trauma

[perfectsnek773-deactivated20191]

You’re human garbage because you’re telling someone that you don’t know and only know the bare minimum of what happened to them and still somehow find that you know enough to tell them that they’re coping wrong. You are not their therapist. You aren’t a therapist at all. You’re just some dumbass that can’t tell the difference between child abuse and goddamn fanfiction. Go online, go find some recent official studies on how explicit fiction affects those who cope through it and maybe you’ll understand why you are horrible.

Though please let me know if you can’t manage to find any. I’m sure there are people who could help you.

[jammerjenny]

YOU DONT NEED TO BE DR MOTHER FUCKING PHIL TO TELL SOMEBODY THAT CHILD PORNOGRAPHY IS NOT A HEALTHY COPING MECHANISM TO ANYTHING AND YOU DONT HAVE TO BE SHERLOCK MOTHER FUCKING HOLMES TO RECOGNIZE CHILD PORNOGRAPHY WHEN YOU SEE IT YOU DERANGED MOTHER FUCKERING IDIOT

[perfectsnek773-deactivated20191]

You might want to have some tea and calm down. Looking over what you’ve said with a clear mid might help you see the bullshit that just came falling out of your mouth.

@theassholeantiarchive2-0 @freedom-of-fanfic @just-antithings @block-report-program

[theassholeantiarchive2-0]

Fictional kids =/= real kids aka it won’t be classified as cp agree with the content or not.  There’s no real child being harmed. unless a REAL child is getting written about and a REAL child is being hurt by said writing it’s not cp 

Also unless you’re trained professional dealing with psychologically and coping you really don’t have right to say how one should/can cope. That’s desicion is between said person coping and their therapist. 

[managinglifewithnopay-deactivat]

This. Also, I just love how antis tell us that our coping mechanisms are “fucked up”, and call us “deranged” when there are actual fucking children being abused by people out there, but, I guess we survivors are the sick fucks that need to be shunned by society.

[troycattribunny]

You mean how society already views CSA survivors???

[chelonianmobile]

And how antis are the ones bullying and in at least one case attempting to kill real people over ink lines on paper, yet shippers are the “deranged” ones?

[rose-arose-blog]

I stan one (1) trash clown (I know it don't look like him I drew it without a reference leave me be)

[rose-arose-blog]

Wormst’d’ve

[darkwarf]

hello i’m literally crying happy tears @ mark sticking up for us trans ppl

[yaikat]

hewwo i love her so much 

[hermannco]

✏ Orin Scrivello from Little Shop? Please?

HERE I COME~!

[callme-c0nn0r-deactivated201912]

Orin Scrivello in D2 😉

Oh boy 

[sama-kun]

I kept thinking of this pickup line without writing it down so it turned into:

[theelderscrotess]

the interpretation of rouxls kaard being kinda drippy/amorphous or something to explain the ‘gap’ in his mouth is valid and all but the real champs are me and the other troopers depicting him with a fucked up mouth of missing/gapped teeth. just sayin…. rouxls kaard being hot is Shitty Teeth Rep

[rose-arose-blog]

Hey?? Cronus Ampora??? I, Sweaty Horse McGee II, would die for you. <3/<>

[valyixin]

8=D

[zekrei-deactivated20191026]

My full piece for @beforuszine !

[zubious]

thought i’d dust off my filthy homestuck tendencies and draw a sweaty horse

[adorkydork-deactivated20220427]

More galora bc i love them