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Hello! 🥰 I have an update for you about a new feature!

Talking about myself doesn’t come easily to me but I promised myself I’d get out of my comfort zone and start showing up more online. So here goes!

As of today, I am offering monthly memberships on Patreon, Buy Me A Coffee and Buy Me A Kofi. There are four tiers for you to choose from: Bronze, Silver, Gold or Platinum.

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PLUS a social media shoutout (IG or Tumblr) when you join!

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High-def versions of my IG photos

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PLUS guided meditations!

PLUS drafts + un-published content

Journal prompts

Affirmations

Behind-The-Scenes 🥰

High-def versions of my IG photos

A social media shoutout (IG or Tumblr) when you join

Guided meditations

Drafts + un-published content!

PLUS full archive access!

PLUS one free 1:1 coaching call with me!!

PLUS 10% off of my breakup recovery coaching program Heartbreak To Breakthrough!!!

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I work part-time and I’m starting school full-time on September 7th so any donation is greatly appreciated ❤️

I’ve got more of these personal posts coming your way, so stay tuned for that! 🥰

Much love,

Bella ✨💙

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When someone new enters your life, act like you trust them but hold them at a distance until they’ve proven themselves trustworthy. Treating people with suspicion is generally a self-fulfilling prophecy, so you must act like you trust them, lest they pull away or become angry due to your accusations and/or accusatory behaviour. Give them small responsibilities at first, then give increasingly more important ones over time. Tell them small things about yourself, before you entrust them with more and more intimate details. Increase the level of trust you give them incrementally as they reveal their character to you. Pay attention to their actions: do they keep their promises? how do they react to your boundaries? do they respect your limits? do they value your time? do they gossip to you about others? do they lie to you? How people act in one aspect of their life is almost always how they act in every other aspect. Sometimes, even people who truly deserve our trust can bring nasty surprises, so imagine the types of surprises that could be lurking beneath the behaviour of someone shady? For example, when someone is known to be abusive to their child or partner, it means they’re okay with people knowing about their actions, so you can only imagine what must go on at home behind closed doors. We’re all a little less saintly when we think we’re alone. So when you meet someone new, give your trust but don’t be naive, because naivety is blindness which can lead to disappoint at best, and serious harm at worst.

♡ Love Strong Move On ☆ 06.02.2021

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In the midst of hate, I found there was, within me, an invincible love. In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile. In the midst of chaos, I found there was, within me, an invincible calm. I realized, through it all, that in the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger — something better, pushing right back.

Albert Camus

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This blog is an accumulation of quotes, resources and advice for Moving On from a breakup, how to recognize when a relationship is healthy or unhealthy, and the importance of having a good relationship with yourself first.

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If you’re in an abusive relationship and you want to talk with me but your social media accounts are being monitored, you can contact me on Kik (username: lovestrongmoveon)

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Don’t lose yourself. Know your worth. Leave what isn’t for you. Save space for people who matter.

Unknown

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being with the wrong person will make it hard for you to thrive because of their insecurities. you will be watering yourself down to please them while you lose yourself little by little. 

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At some point you just have to let go, and move on. Because no matter how painful it is, it’s the only way we grow.

Meredith Grey

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It doesn’t matter who they are or what they have going on, abuse is never acceptable and you do not deserve it. 

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All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm's way.

Bell Hooks, All About Love: New Visions