☆ eli ☆

17 | they/she | smosh girlie | Damien Haas and Angela Giarratana enthusiast right now

[roseus-eli]

My name's Eli! (can be pronounced as e-lie or el-ee)

they/any | 17 | agender · genderfluid · bi · aroace(flux) | 🇵🇭

The LGBTQIA+ community is welcome here. :3

My blog is very messy.

I do not have a specific DNI list, I just block according to my preferences (don't be a bigot). I will not hesitate to block if you make me uncomfortable.

I love reading, especially books and fanfics! I also enjoy listening to music and sleeping. I also write, but I rarely post my written works anywhere.

My super duper bestie is @cheeeryisaro! You guys should check them out sometime. :)

My online bestie is @hisfictionalwife!

To all my fandom friends, you guys are also my besties. :]

My AO3 account: roseus_eli

My FF.net account: roseus-eli

(This intro post will be updated every now and then.)

[laciffo-natas]

"Queer people should be accepted enough that they feel comfortable talking about themself" and "Nobody owes you an explanation of why they identify a certain way" are two statements that can and should coexist, by the way.

One is about the activism and acceptance of queer people, and the other is just entitlement. Do not feel like you should have to explain yourself to deserve the same acceptance and respect as anyone else.

You are valid in your queer identity.

[ghostly-cabbage]

Chat am I on to something

[forgleto-o]

Date idea: I lie face down on your bed and you pet my head for maybe 2 or 3 hours.

[nycoffeeshop]

Teach your children to appreciate nature and love their bodies and most importantly, to keep an open mind towards things and people they don’t understand.

[emhidesart]

the astrophage dads

[romcommunist]

please never stop talking passionately about the things you love

[its-emimi]

Happy Pride month! 🌈

[blackforestbride]

my body is a machine that makes headaches

[orteil42]

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

[theaspecyear]

People need to understand that the point ISN’T “being single is not a failure if you’re aromantic”, the point is being single is not a failure full stop.

You can be allo and be single; it’s allowed. You feeling attraction doesn’t mean your priority NEEDS to be finding romance (it can be! But it also can not).

Being single should be normalized no matter what your romantic/sexual orientation is. It isn’t a tragedy.

[malwareproductions]

hey. you have to love your trans brothers of color okay. and your trans sisters of color. and your nonbinary siblings of color. you have to okay. its simply non-optional

[malwareproductions]

you have to love your intersex siblings of color. you just have to

[thememedaddy]

[grimmscythe]

Reblog to cast heal on prev

[luxiomahariel]

[aro-ace-chaos]

I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.

So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.

[aceinthefreakinspace]

Aroace Ryland Grace Pics + Textposts Part Five

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