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LITERARY WORLD CONTEST
Happy 2016, fans and followers! This January we here at Literary Starbucks are excited to present to you something we’ve been working on for the past month: the Literary World Contest.
A month or so back we asked for you to write in with testimonies of what your favorite literary world is and why. We narrowed those testimonies down to 8 distinct worlds, and now we’d like you to VOTE on which world and testimony you think is the best! The world with the most votes will be the subject of a very special Literary Starbucks post: we will place a Starbucks in that world, and have a host of characters enter, order, and interact with one another. Furthermore, the writer of the winning testimony will receive a free copy of our upcoming book!
So vote for your favorites, and don’t forget to reblog this post– spread the word, and hopefully secure a win for your favorite world!
The contest will end two weeks from today, on January 18th. Vote before then!
Take the poll now!
Here are the 8 testimonies:
WORLD OF DIANNA WYNNE JONES: I’ve always loved the world that Diana Wynne Jones created. Somehow, she made it seem like all of these fantastical elements, like mermaids and dragons and alternate dimensions filled with magic, were entirely plausible and that one simply needed to ask the right person to discover them. (by a-flickering-soul)
WORLD OF SUNSHINE: I love the world of Sunshine, by Robin McKinley. There are tons of details to draw you in, and just enough vagueness to leave you desperately curious for more. The Voodoo Wars? Don’t worry about them, they’re over, but they killed a sizeable chunk of the population. Magical tattoos make you crazy? Tell me more, and tell me why Mel has so many! Every time I reread this book I end up with even more questions because it feels like all the answers are there, somewhere, if only I can discover them. (by mockturtle8)
WORLD OF HITCHHIKER’S GUIDE: I absolutely adore the world of Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. It turns out that when you take off on a wild adventure across space and time because the Earth got demolished, you still face all the same problems as you did back home - except now the bureaucrat refusing to stamp your paperwork might also read you his poetry. Except now when you hijack a car, you don’t get arrested - you get hurled into the sun. Amazingly inventive and at the same time a harsh mirror of humanity. (by theinsidiousdice)
NARNIA: I’d have to say my favorite literary world is Narnia. When I was younger, my dad read each book aloud to me and did all the character voices. I grew up with those books and returning to Narnia is like returning to a little piece of my childhood! (by nomadicpeach)
WORLD OF HIS DARK MATERIALS: My favorite world by far is His Dark Materials by Phillip Pullman. That might be cheating since it is all worlds, but after just reading The Golden Compass, I was totally taken by the parallels between our world and Lyra’s - nothing could have prepared me for the journey the next two books would take me on. Pullman so perfectly describes scene and atmosphere, but the best part really was the end, knowing that there isn’t any elsewhere, and that where we are is always the most important place. (by kpgillustration)
MIDDLE EARTH: Hands down, Middle Earth–part of Tolkien’s genius is that he builds out this whole world down to the tiniest detail, including histories and cultural particularities, plus he populates it with all these very real-feeling PEOPLE (regardless of species) that not only have feelings and opinions, but are very much rooted in the rituals and beliefs of their societies. (by akmcclen)
DISCWORLD: From the very first book, I fell in love with Terry Pratchett’s Discworld. I think the most important thing is that it gave me role models as an adult. We emphasize kids having good role models growing up, but what about adults? My favorite (and personal goal) is Granny Weatherwax, though Sam Vines and Vetinari are close runners-up. Not to mention the humor and charm that infuses every book! Discworld is a beautifully crafted world. (by tgecko)
WIZARDING WORLD: I really love the world of Harry Potter. I think what makes JKR’s wizarding world so lovable and so desirable to be a part of is the fact that even though it’s magical, it’s so much like our own world; characters face real human struggles and have real human triumphs in contexts magical and non-magical. (by englishmajorhumor)
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It’s tough to like the NHL right now - and it should be tough
Huge trigger warning: rape, sexual assault, violence against women
I’m struggling here. Really struggling. I haven’t written anything about the NHL’s handling of Patrick Kane (or Slava Voynov, or Semyon Varlamov, or Drew Doughty, or...). Mostly because it’s not my job to write anything. I’ve been using the Silver Seven Twitter account to highlight work primarily by women, especially victims of sexual assault. The problem with all media coverage of the Kane case is that it’s by white men. It’s like a horrific version of the Republican debates talking about birth control - a bunch of white men discussing the rights a woman has to her own body for a national audience. So for some better reads on the topic, see this one by Jen LC, and also this one by Jen LC, this one by an anonymous assault survivor on Anaheim Calling, this one by Emily W on Pension Plan Puppets, this one by Stanley Cup of Chowder, this one from Jewels from the Crown, and this one from former Silver Seven manager Andrew. And remember this list in non-exhaustive. There are many, many more worth reading that can be found with a simple Google search.
For those who don’t know what’s going on, NHL superstar Patrick Kane was accused of rape over the summer. There was some discussion as to whether or not he’d be allowed to show up at training camp. Not only was he present, he did a press conference in which he answered exactly 0 questions about the on-going investigation. The case has been further complicated by a variety of aspects, which are very easy to find via Google.
There are so many problems here. First of all, I don’t understand why Kane is even present at camp. The commissioner has the power to suspend him with pay until the investigation concludes. That power was used last year against Slava Voynov while he was accused of domestic assault. Even that one wasn’t handled well, but I took it as a sign that the NHL was committing to a new, victim-focused path. How wrong I was. At one point, I though Kane was getting preferential treatment because he’s a superstar and he isn’t Russian. But now, I don’t even think that’s true. I think Voynov was suspended because of how soon after the whole Ray Rice debacle his incident occurred. I can’t help but think that if Voynov’s assault happened later this summer, after Kane’s alleged rape, neither would be suspended. Eric Macramalla, an oft-used sports law expert, argued that Kane should have been at camp while Voynov was suspended, and his argument basically boiled down to “there was a reporter at the Voynov incident that saw blood”. If the absence of TMZ starts to be used as a legal defence, we’re not in a good place.
I understand the concept of innocent until proven guilty. Kane gets that benefit, legally. However, he is accused of a heinous crime. The Blackhawks are willing to expose all of their female staff to a potential sex criminal for the sake of having a better hockey team. And considering that 1/6 American women have been the victims of a rape or an attempted rape, that’s a lot of victims exposed to a potential rapist. But hey, Kane scores a lot of goals, so the team has decided it’s worth it.
Additionally, a lot of people who give Kane the “innocent until proven guilty” benefit don’t extend the same statement to the victim. I’m advocating for Kane to be suspended with pay until things have come to a conclusion. Letting him live his life normally is akin to calling the woman a liar. It means that she’s already been declared guilty of slander in the eyes of the team.
The likelihood that Kane is innocent here is extremely low. It’s estimated that only 32% of rapes even get reported to the police. The FBI reports that about 2% of rape accusations are false, which is on par for other crimes. So the odds are a lot higher that Kane has sexually assaulted someone before who did not report it than that his current accuser is lying. But people are very ready to defend Kane’s innocence in the face of statistics, hopefully because they like him as a hockey player and want to think the best of him, possibly because they are misinformed about rape, and some disgustingly because they don’t see rape as an issue.
But the issues don’t end there. The mainstream media has been awful about this. ESPN and TSN analyst Pierre LeBrun said the NHL isn’t used to arrests like other sports leagues. This perpetuates the “good guy hockey player” myth. I call it a myth, because a lot of players have been involved in assault accusations, as this non-exhaustive spreadsheet shows. (If you’re one of those people who looks through it and ignores the list because it includes players making light of rape on Twitter, don’t. Realize the gravity of the other accusations, rather than looking for a reason to dismiss the whole list.) Statements like this reduce the statements of victims to attempts to tarnish the league. As if hockey is more important than a person. One can also follow the lead of Bob McKenzie, which it to never talk about anything that could be controversial. This essentially helps the NHL to try to sweep issues under the rug. One could also followed the lead of Elliotte Friedman, answering when he’s called out on not addressing the Kane issues, but then not really saying anything other than his press conference was dumb. So I’m grateful that the blogging community is speaking up, but disappointed it’s only the blogging community.
Today Sens prospect Mikael Wikstrand was suspended by the team for going back to Sweden. People were livid on Twitter, calling him a mama’s boy that needs to grow up and get used to living in Ottawa. I don’t see how we’ve entered a culture where being accused of wanting to go home is vilified but being accused of rape is defended and argued away.
It bothers me that probably the only people who bother to read this are people who already agree with my opinion. The people who blame the victim are the people who know they’re right and won’t bother to listen to anything else. The only reason I bothered writing this is so that when someone asks what I think, I can direct them to this, rather than going on a poorly thought-out rant in multiple snippets of 140 characters.
But overall, I’m very bothered by the NHL. It’s very clear the NHL doesn’t care about women or victims if it involves alienating their best players. It’s all very calculated. A player of Kane’s skill brings in a lot of money, and the league won’t risk that cash flow to stand up for women’s rights. I can’t really walk away from the league, I’ve just taken over management at a blog. But this will taint my whole season. When (not if) Ottawa plays against Kane, I doubt I’ll be able to watch. I can’t even imagine what victims of assault are feeling. I would support the decision of anyone who decides to walk away from the NHL completely after this. Sometimes sports is a coping mechanism to help with tough circumstances. But when sports create tough circumstances, I don’t know what to do or say.
Konstantin Levin
Konstantin Levin wants nothing more than he wants to join the laboring baristas behind the counter. He sneaks into a green apron and begins working alongside the baristas. The incessant, nearly mechanical work strikes him as beautiful, in its own way. An inner peace swells inside him.
The Curious Case of Charity
Socially prominent people are very fond of disease, because it gives them a chance to have these really elaborate charity functions, and the newspaper headlines say, "EVENING IN PARIS BALL RAISES MONEY TO FIGHT GOUT" instead of "RICH PEOPLE AMUSE THEMSELVES."
- Dave Barry
A week ago, I had the opportunity to volunteer at a charity bike event. The three-day event featured cyclists trekking through the Alberta Rockies, raising money for Kids Cancer Care. I drove the luggage truck, so my main job was to collect everyone’s luggage and move it to the end location before they arrived. I also assisted with a lot of other setup tasks.
I always have a hard time with charity events. I think of charity as quiet, secret, a lifestyle decision. Charity is selfless. I’ve participated in Relay For Life and volunteered at Ottawa’s Hope Volleyball and watched parts of big televised events like Idol Gives Back. I know these events raise money for causes that need the money, but I have a hardly time calling them charity events. Affluent people spend an amount of time and money that they can easily afford to spend on having a good time, and somewhere down the line the proceeds assist vital organizations. Somehow this is enough to ease people’s consciences, to believe that they have contributed positively to the world and can go back to living selfish lives. Somehow playing beach volleyball and drinking far too much beer is a selfless act if a portion of the proceeds go to charity.
Tour for Kids was definitely an event for rich people. The cheapest bike used was probably $4000, and there were a few that cost close to $40,000. All but a handful of riders were wearing more than $1000 in gear. They would ride 100-200 km per day, with all food, beverages, massages, mechanics, medical assistance, and accommodation provided. Each rider had to pay a registration fee to offset the cost of non-donated food, then had to raise at least $1200. Some simple math will tell you that most participants don’t raise as much money as they spend on equipment. The simple question is to ask why the event isn’t just scrapped, and all the riders simply donate the money they would’ve spent on bikes to the cause. Sponsor companies could then contribute money instead of wine and steak to the cause as well.
Now I know some of the arguments against this. Pretty much all of these riders are avid cyclists who spend this money on their craft regardless. If they’re going to cycle these distances anyway, why not get them to raise money on one of their trips? For a company like Mill St, it’s a lot easier to donate beer than it is to donate money. People are also less inclined to simply donate money - having an event tends to bring in a lot more.
One thing that made this event different for me was the emphasis on the people being supported. Night Two of the tour ended at Camp Kindle, a camp run by KCC for kids with cancer and their families. Having child after child come through, announcing that they were cancer-free, and saying that camp gave them the opportunity to have friendships cancer took away from them was powerful. Tour for Kids participants met many of the people directly impacted. Many of the volunteers had children living with cancer, or children who had passed away from cancer. The purpose of the ride was unavoidable.
Now does this undo the “rich people amuse themselves complex”? I don’t think so. Most of these people were doing something they would’ve done anyway. However, that doesn’t mean it was a bad thing. It was impossible for participants to ignore their effect. Thanks to sponsorship and the registration fee, 100% of pledged money goes to KCC. Since KCC is a small organization, there are minimal overhead expenses. Lots of good came out of the weekend.
I still don’t know how I feel about glamour events dressed up as selfless charity causes. However, I do know how I feel about kids with cancer, and if this is the biggest annual fundraiser for this organization, I’d like to volunteer with this event again next year. And next year I’ll probably spend the same amount of time wondering whether this is truly a charitable event.
Rape, By The Numbers.
everyone needs to see this graphic
Boost.
I linked this to my guy friends who always use the excuse of “What about the false reports? It’s not fair that innocent men are accused of a crime they didn’t commit”
2 out of 1000. 0.02% Of all rapes are false.
i think i have to start switching up jerseys tonight. wore my EK one all through the streak but then we lost on thursday. so i think it’s time to go the the bobby ryan heritage classic one
Decisions decisions, I am keeping the EK 65 one on. ✌️
erikkarlsson65 I made a set of Sens-themed Valentine's cards. That's the one for you up there, but if you're interested you can see the rest of them here
Hinton
S.E. Hinton goes up to the counter and orders an espresso. She gives her name with initials so that the barista will make her drink faster. When he puts her espresso on the counter, he’s surprised. “You’re just a 15 year old girl!” he exclaims.
Conan Doyle
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle goes up to the counter and orders a tall cinnamon dolce macchiato and a scone. The barista only remembers the scone, not the drink, and Doyle is furious. Doyle crumples up the scone and throws it into the trash. The patrons of the Starbucks immediately go into an uproar; Doyle resigns himself to retrieving the scone, dusting it off, and eating it.
Everyone: Please stop putting Lena Dunham’s ludicrous book on the Most Influencial Books of 2014 lists. Child molestation claims completely aside, she glamorizes street harassment and ridicules one mental illness (schizophrenia) while begging for sympathy for her own (OCD)! Her book is...
Alfie just announced he is returning with his family on December 4th. It is going to be a very special evening and an honor to be part of it.
Alfie! Alfie!
My take on the It's On Us campaign, including SB Nation's involvement in it.
I've never linked to one of my hockey blog articles on here before, but this article isn't really about sports. It's about Sports Blog Nation's pretty weak attempt to join the sexual assault awareness movement called "It's On Us". Check it out.
Dear Jennifer Lawrence,
What’s up? We are writing to tell you that we read the statements from your interview that was published today with Vanity Fair magazine. We are glad that you are brave enough to speak out on an issue that we can imagine has been super hurtful to you and has caused a lot of problems in your personal life.
First off, we want you to know that it’s not cool what happened to you. Not cool at all. We wrote a blog article last month titled ‘Jennifer Lawrence Is Not A Porn Star. Don’t Treat Her Like One’, telling people how you were violated and that they should hashtag #HateCelebGate to show that they weren’t cool with it. We were stoked when that post went on to reach over 1 million people on Facebook. We were glad that so many people were with us in not promoting or participating in the crime that was committed against you and many other women. You don’t deserve to have your privacy violated and neither does any other human being.
However, when we just read your first interview since your hacked photos were released, you said something we found super concerning:
"I was in a loving, healthy, great relationship for four years. It was long distance, and either your boyfriend is going to look at porn or he’s going to look at you.”
Now, after reading that, we couldn’t help but feel like your perceptions of a “healthy” relationship were a little bit off. However, we also know that there are thousands upon thousands of women out there who feel the exact same way. We are sorry for that.
We’re sorry that society has been “pornified" and that we are living in a culture that thinks that hacked and stolen photos of naked people are something to seek out, cheer for, laugh about, and spread around. With a society that thinks a woman is only as good as her body, it’s easy to see why you would feel like your boyfriend would turn to porn even when dating a talented and beautiful woman like yourself.
Think about this question, Jennifer. Should any person ever have to feel that they need to give their partner something because if they don’t then their partner will turn away and get it from someone else? Especially when that something is as important in a relationship as sex? We don’t think that’s cool and neither should you. If you were in a “loving, healthy, great relationship for four years”, should you have ever had to feel like if you didn’t send your boyfriend pictures that he would have no choice but to look at porn? No person in a committed relationship should have to expect that. That’s not sexy at all. And we’re sorry that you felt that way.
We are sorry that people have judged and tormented you for something that wasn’t your fault, for a crime that was committed against you. Regardless of anyone’s personal feelings about taking nude photos or sending them to a partner, we believe that none of that warrants those pictures being hacked, stolen, and spread around online for the entire world to see. We think any logical person will agree with that. No one deserves what happened to you and no one asks for it either.
We like what you said in one part of your interview:
"It is not a scandal. It is a sex crime. It is a sexual violation. It’s disgusting… And we need to change. That’s why these websites are responsible. Just the fact that somebody can be sexually exploited and violated, and the first thought that crosses somebody’s mind is to make a profit from it. It’s so beyond me. I just can’t imagine being that detached from humanity. I can’t imagine being that thoughtless and careless and so empty inside.”
We feel the exact same way and so should everybody else. But let us ask this question: Is there any difference in what you just said when relating it to porn?
No! It’s the exact same meaning.
Just like the naked photos that were stolen from you and posted online for all to see, in too many cases, porn is a sexual violation made by people who have forced, abused, and threatened others to make it. In many cases, it is a sex crime that fuels the demand for even greater sex crimes like prostitution and sex trafficking. Regardless of who or what the images are of, the promotion of this material is extremely damaging and harmful to people.
Still think that it’s normal for your boyfriend to turn to that stuff if he doesn’t feel like his sexual desires are being met?
We wanted to write this letter to you, Jennifer Lawrence, to tell you that we support you and we wish the best for you. But let us give you one piece of advice: never accept porn as a normal part of any relationship, or a normal part of anything in general. It is harmful material that addicts the brain, damages relationships, and pushes warped perceptions about sex and intimacy into society. You should never be expected to do anything for fear of a partner turning to porn or ever think its normal for them to do so. This terrible thing happened to you largely because of the porn culture of our society and how the world will do anything to feed its endless appetite for sex.
Real women are beautiful and real love is sexy. Anything else is a counterfeit.
All the best,
Fight the New Drug
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To learn more about Fight the New Drug and how we are changing the discussion about porn, visit us at www.fightthenewdrug.org.