I'll be here thinkin

24 yo lesbian with a functioning brain

[quillsand]

picketing terf conferences is OUT, releasing 6000 live crickets into the audience of a terf conference and watching chaos erupt as everyone scrambles to evacuate is IN

[quillsand]

it occurs to me that this sounds like a shitpost if you don't have the context that this is a real thing that actually happened in the uk yesterday

Teenage trans activists release 6,000 crickets on transphobic LGB Alliance conference | Trans Kids Deserve Better

“Squash them, kill them, kill the buggers!” a speaker urged the audience.

[pussy-nefarious]

and these nutjobs wonder why we want to Drop The T

[purpleflowerles-deactivated2024]

This is, at the very least, a homophobic hate incident, and possibly a hate crime.

As a lesbian, I no longer have any camaraderie with the trans community. I refuse to consider these pseudo-conservative freaks - who, at best, think actual homosexuals' innate, immutable sexuality is a "genital preference", and, at worst, think we are disgusting "genital fetishists" who, with proper "education" (conversion therapy), can "unpack" our bigoted, exclusionary homosexuality in order to tolerate heterosexual sex - a part of my own community.

And if an LBG person calls the TQ+ community out on this shit, their manipulative asses will swear up and down that no one says that, and then if receipts are provided, you're cherrypicking and only a few people say that and it's just someone venting online; it doesn't affect real life; why are you so mad... and then trans activists release 6,000 crickets on a meeting for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals, and are celebrated by the rest of their gleefully homophobic community.

Fuck you, you homophobic, lesbophobic, misogynistic pieces of shit. We were born this way. You weren't, and you're trying to destroy the only community we have from within.

Drop the fucking T.

[djuvlipen]

these people are just like conservative homophobes

[eliotlime]

guess i'll put this here too, even though its past the day in my timezone lol

[sadcanofpeaches]

so basically ur saying that your gender identity is a fetish wow

[hamsterdads]

office au perhaps

[mikey-beans]

I doodled a helpful infographic 

please notice the stink lines and flies buzzing around the word terf 

(it’s because they Smell and are Bad)

[kiefbowl]

Terf Ally for drawing bush

[lesbian-lizards]

Never happy.

[ms-revived-frogs]

Getting tired of this narrative of “TERFs only see women as vaginas!”.

Radfems / Gender critical people: Women are humans of the female sex and thus have vaginas, the female sex organ

TRAs: So you think women are just walking vaginas?!??!!

It’s like if I were to say humans are a bipedal species, and TRAs went “So you think humans are just legs?!!!”. They’re so ridiculous.

[voidofsky-deactivated20230707]

Also, aren’t TRAs literally the very people that call us “people with vaginas”, “bleeders”, “menstruators” and other wonderful, totally not defining us by our reproductive function words?

It’s as if they want to distract from all that by making these stupid drawings

[failhag2]

the intellectually superior sex be like i have to go on a stabbing spree because i can't get a girlfriend

[radsplain]

y'all will say "biology has nothing to do with being a man or woman" and then take hormones to mimic the secondary sex characteristics of the opposite sex and in extreme cases go under the knife to chop off your breasts and castrate your penises. like if being a man or woman has absolutely nothing to do with biology, why are you attempting to transition at all? what are you even transitioning from, if your biological sex has no bearing on your so-called internal sense of identity. why are any of you even calling yourselves trans. like genuinely

[houseoferem]

I removed extraneous parts of my body that others ascribed gender to. My surgeries were like taking off a tight bra that had been on for 27 years. My body is comfortable, now, and is no longer the signpost for people (like op) to make a bunch of assumptions and say things that don't apply to me. There are no more jokes about being a breeding horse, there are no more men trying to grope me. There is no more expectation to "fulfill my biological role" as a woman and procreate.

I'm happy.

Shame they can't perform surgery on OP's bitter heart to remove the callouses and give them peace, instead of hatred for something that doesn't apply to them.

[g0dlessheathen]

Okay so why don’t we just remove all women’s breasts and the problem of misogyny will be all solved and women will never again have to deal with being groped and harassed or considered broodmares.

This is all so men can be spared from changing themselves, of course.

Great solution!

[hairless-biped]

In some regions in Africa, girls get their growing breasts ironed/flattened/beaten/burned off, and it's for the same reason: "The mutilation is a traditional practice from Cameroon designed to make teenage girls look less ‘womanly’ and to deter unwanted male attention, pregnancy and rape."

wild how this objectively horrifying practice has been re-packaged for Western markets as progressive, and questioning its roots makes you the hateful person somehow

[sichorean]

"No more things that don't apply to me" (referring to groping, "breeding" jokes and unfair social expectations)

YOU THINK THEY APPLY TO THE REST OF US? HUH? DUMBASS? YOU THINK EVERY WOMAN NOT CUTTING HER BREASTS OFF IDENTIFIES WITH BEING GROPED OR DEGRADED AS CATTLE?

Fucking idiot

[cisthoughtcrime]

saying I'm 'cis' would be saying that I have an internal identity that 'matches' my physical sex. I fundamentally reject the premise of any internal identity 'matching' either sex. I do not have a womanbrain or a femininemind or a girlgender. my body is female and that has shaped many of my life experiences, specifically because of the ambient misogynistic culture of male supremacy; none of that is innate to my brain. the things I like or do or want are gender neutral and particular to my personality as a human. the idea that the things I like or do or want either 'match' or 'don't match' my body rests on the premise that different personalities are tied to 'matching' bodies on the basis of sex innately rather than artificially. that is a fundamentally sexist premise at odds with feminism.

[whjwiwowpwlsskwjwbwbkwkwlwnw]

actually crazy that prostitution advocates minimise the abuse i suffered in prostitution to my subjective and personal experience as if any woman enjoys enduring sex, as if im the problem, as if im in the wrong for denunciating men using their money to make women perform sexual acts. and somehow when some random woman claims to love prostitution suddenly her experience is universal and the one that matters for legislation and ethical evaluation of the system sex industry. etc

[djuvlipen]

[cherrylimeade-l3sbian]

[source]: Kupferberg Holocaust Center

[thelesbianpoirot-deactivated202]

I was reminded recently of the power of dignity, and how developing a healthy or even overdeveloped sense of dignity as a woman can save your life. My gender dysphoria lessened because I was nearly thirty and found it pathetic to still be wanting to magically turn male one day, and realized how embarrassed I would be having to larp as a man the rest of my life and force other people to acknowledge my delusion. I recovered from my eating disorder because I was so swagless and unconfident starving myself into my thirties that I decide just being okay with being fat/normal weight is way cooler. Nothing is more baller than eating whatever you like, whenever you like, no fake rules, only thing holding you back is your budget. And I gave up any suicidal ideation I had because I thought about how embarrassing it is expecting to have a beautiful tragic meaningful virgin suicide, when I will just be rotting in the ground and no one but one or two people would care after I am gone, also I could be killed at any moment by a man or disease, why rush to the inevitable? Cringe! There is dignity in surviving in this world as a woman. Giving up harmful beauty practices was the easiest, I wasn't feminine to being with, because there is nothing I found more humiliating than wasting time, money and energy to put the woman costume that signals to every man that I have submitted into my role and am not a threat to patriarchal society. With a developed sense of dignity as a woman, I can't be bullied/coerced into sex with men, or any other state of prolonged sexual humiliation. I react to people trying to force me into any situation that threatens my self esteem and pride with righteous anger, not manipulatable despair like before. I cannot recommend developing a sense of dignity more as a woman. It is your greatest ally traversing the woman hating world. I won't stand for any of this bullshit anymore.

[dykemind]

calling yourself cis or a karen is so embarrassing. you fell for the corniest trick in the book. It's like a man walked up to you and said "put this sticker that says "i'm a loser idiot" on your forehead" and you just went oh okay sir! and did it.

[nails-teeth-neck]

im sorry to say but bioessentialism is "women will never be fulfilled unless they birth a child" or "women are naturally submissive and delicate caretakers because of their brains" not "female individuals menstruate and are capable of giving birth"

[sadcanofpeaches]

Not my favorite blogger deactivating 😭 rip sister i will miss you dearly

[lordofseagulls]

TERFs be like there's only two genders:

✨women✨ and SCUM

[honoraryterfposts]

Honorary terf post

[sanchos]

i love night walks. its such a shame im a woman

[stars-triumphant]

*vagina owner

[wormsoftheearth]

[sadcanofpeaches]

so is dorian electra just a straight woman who likes to dress like a weirdo

[whjwiwowpwlsskwjwbwbkwkwlwnw]

sexual consent is not just a YES, it always has to be put in context.

if someone says yes because there is a gun to their head thats not real consent. if someone says yes out of fear thats not consent, even if the other person doesnt explicitly threaten them. if someone says yes because they think they have to, because they feel obligated, thats not real consent, even if the other person is not aware of it.

its not necessarily the case that the other person is causing or even aware of the duress the supposedly consenting person is under; but if they are, it makes them an abuser or rapist.

in prostitution, the sex buyer is aware of the duress the supposedly consenting person is under: financial duress. the whole premise of prostitution is that someone needs money. they might lie to themselves that she wants sex too, but just because someone rationalises the harm they inflict, doesnt mean its not there.

there are other ways to have anonymous sex without strings attached where both parties want sex and therefore consent can be given. sex buyers actively choose to make use of a system where saying no, actively not consenting, means a loss of income. if sex is a service, a profession, a job, sex is an obligation. if you have to endure sex to make money, consent is given due to fear of losing income. and as a sex buyer, you dont know whether someone else is forcing or threatening the prostitute to have sex. this makes buying sex inherently abusive.

nordic model now