How to be a high end escort by HCCG
Ok guys here is my ultimate list of must dos and must donts plus just some little tips. My most requested post and I’m finally making it
👑 1) okay first of all I cannot emphasize this enough. Don’t chase johns. It is POINTLESS. If they want to see you they will. If you’re having a slow week take new photos to attract clients. But don’t reach out to them. Workout. Online shop. Watch Netflix. Do anything but DONT text guys trying to set shit up. I hear my johns complain about this all the time. I.E. : “I used to see a girl regularly, whom I thought was cool, but then she wouldn’t stop texting me. And she accused me of not liking her anymore. She was angry I was seeing other girls. ” Seriously I hear that alllll the time. Ugh. Come on ladies that is not cute. You are supposed to be alluring confident and sexy. Don’t be thirsty or bitter it’s unattractive and they will probably never see you again.
👑 2) expect your johns to see other girls. Even if they say they won’t men do get bored. Don’t sweat it, just as you lost a John to another girl, she may lose one to you. It’s called the circle of hoeing. You don’t own these guys. They don’t owe you anything when the time is up and you don’t owe them anything either. If they liked you they will be back when they feel like it.
👑 3) image is EVERYTHING. Everyyyything. If you want to charge high end prices, you must appear high end. Always have your hair and makeup done. Always be freshly showered, lotioned, shaved, and perfumed. Always speak with proper English, don’t use slang around johns. No matter how hood or street you are trust me girl I feel ya. But use those proper words it will take you much further. Handle yourself like a classy sophisticated woman. Cross your ankles, chew with your mouth closed, take small sips, don’t put your elbows on the table. Always thank them for anything they offer you. (Gifts, wine, snacks, your donation). And most importantly wear NICE clothes. Classy form fitting clothes that are sexy, but could still pass as high end businesswoman attire. I.E.: a nice classy black dress, or a pencil skirt with a tight cashmere sweater. You want johns to feel comfortable asking you to see them at their high end hotels and nice neighborhoods. Don’t be the hooker in the leopard dress with too much cleavage at the corner of the bar…. It frightens johns when you are obvious and you should be frightened too. Never be too noticeable. You want to look like you belong at a 5 star hotel or restaurant.
👑 4) personality is second to looks and not to be taken lightly. You want to be perceived as classy. Deserving of the highest rates and best luxuries. You aren’t really? Doesn’t matter. Start watching the news. You need to know about politics, foreign events, travel, music, and art. You should always be smiling and be warm and inviting. Learn to fill up the conversation. Have topics prepared. Act interested in everything they say! Laugh at their jokes even when they aren’t funny. Act fascinated by their achievements. Compliment their hotel, their clothes, their looks. Tell them you’re having a great time. Be relaxed. Never try to rush them. Let them take the lead. Most of all just be kind. They will appreciate you being easy going and fun to be around.
👑 5) congratulations you are now a professional LIAR. Yup. This is not an exaggeration. You must lie about everything from now on. You’re an actress girl get that academy award. The best thing to do is to create a backstory and stick with it. What’s your name? Your age? Where are you from? Where do you live? What is your family like? Are you in school? (The answer to this is always YES by the way). What are you studying? How did you get started ? Why do you do it? Now make sure your answer to every one of these questions is a LIE and that you stick with the same answers with every client that way you have a script and won’t get caught in a lie. Example: my name is Melanie, I’m 21, I study photography and want to be a professional someday. My family is well off but I escort for fun, and because I love to shop! Plus I’m too busy with school for a real job. Make sure your story shines you in the best light possible and keep your answers very general. Like “oh I live in this part of town, and I am from that part of the state. ” the less you reveal the better. Never ever tell them anything real about yourself like your name or address or real phone number. You cannot trust these guys. I’ve only given my real name and address to one guy. Because he had seen me every week for 6 months straight and needed to ship a pair of loubotines to my house. And he needed to purchase my plane ticket for a trip. Even that was something I felt uneasy about. But hey I wanted those shoes. Lie, lie, lie, lie. Whatever they like and enjoy you now enjoy too. Whatever they like in bed you suddenly love. And my favorite lie. “I don’t see many clients at all. Only one per day a few days a week. You’re the only client I will see today” Hahahaha. No matter how many people you see this is your story now. So get used to it.
👑 6) always have your nails done. And never wear the same lingerie or outfit twice to the same client.
👑 7) you must have a nice incall. If your high end you MUST. You have to stay at a 4 star hotel. Guys don’t want to pay good money to see a girl who works out of a motel. It’s a must investment.
👑 8) other important things to invest in: professional photos, a nice reliable car, and YOUR LOOKS!!! Manis and pedis, new clothes, hair extensions, teeth whitening, plastic surgery , good makeup, spray tans, eyelash extensions. If you want to charge the highest prices you better look worth it. You gotta spend money to make money.
👑 9) this is a huge one. Be RELIABLE, and reply to messages PROMPTLY. The number one thing I hear guys complaining about is girls not being reliable, not responding to texts, and blowing off appointments. Don’t flake on appointments. If you can’t make it to an appointment let them know ASAP!!! Constantly check your profiles, texts, and emails, even when you are not working. Get back to them ASAP it will be appreciated and make you look better.
👑10) don’t get too intoxicated with a client. Limit yourself to 2 drinks. don’t use drugs with them. They will wait until your pretty incoherent then try to pressure you into doing things outside of your menu. Trust me. Two drink maximum!!! Only 2 .
👑 11) don’t be afraid to leave. I don’t care how bad you need the money. If you find yourself in a situation with John who makes you uncomfortable, brings drugs, or pressures or bribes you to do things off your menu LEAVE. Say thank you but no thank you and walk out without another word. The amount of times I’ve had a John try to get me to have unprotected sex for extra money is crazy. Always say no. You don’t need the money that bad. Decide what you are comfortable with and stick to it.
👑 12) don’t be afraid to say no. If they ask you to do something you don’t want to say no. Can I CIF?? No babe how about here instead! You’re the boss now and the rules must be strict.
👑 13) be available and flexible. Your on call all the time now and you must work around men’s schedules.
👑 14) enjoy the lifestyle and don’t stress out. Spend your money on things you want. Spoil yourself. Don’t ever worry when things get slow. The industry is lucrative, it Ebs and flows, we all have good and bad weeks. Stay positive. If you start to put too much pressure on yourself you won’t enjoy it anymore. Enjoy the perks like the hotels and the nice dinners and don’t be upset when you have a slow day. Just rest up.
👑 15) don’t confide in anyone in your real life. You can’t trust anyone even your longest friends. They will judge you / they won’t want to be around you / they won’t think it’s cool or glamorous or exciting. They will be shocked, talk shit behind your back, and slowly distance themselves from you until you don’t have friends. Vent online and save your friendships and reputations. Tell them your dating a divorced surgeon casually and he buys you lots of shit. Like I said get used to lying about everything to everyone.
👑 16) don’t see someone who isn’t a verified member with several references you feel are real and trustworthy. Investigate. Do they do reviews. Turn away anyone you’re uncomfortable with. The money isn’t worth jail time Hun.
That’s all I’m going to share right now but this is my most requested post by far so here you go. Stay safe girls!!!
One more thing that I think is really important is limiting your clientele. By that I mean, don’t see so many clients in a day you are exhausted. I have been tempted by this because you think…well what’s one more? When you’ve already had three appointments or two multi-hour appointments, the guy can tell. Trust me. So don’t sacrifice your reputation for a few extra hundreds.