*shrugs*

[sadpurplelamb]

Hey I was going through my blocklist to transfer it to my 2nd account and happened to click on your blog and see your pinned post. I'm really happy for you, it takes a lot to change and admit that you're wrong. I hope your days are happier without that hate constantly brewing around you and that your shoulders feel lighter. Congratulations/gen

you sent this a while ago but i really appreciate it. i'm so glad i got to where i am now.

[sadpurplelamb]

it’s been a while. i figured i’d make a farewell post before probably deleting this blog altogether. i don’t believe in most of what i believed in when i created this. i’m not a transmedicalist, i’m not conservative in any way. i’m not a centrist. i’m incredibly progressive and would like to dismantle and rebuild the entire us government. i use he/they pronouns now, as a trans man. non-dysphoric trans people are not responsible for transphobia, and i really don’t care who says they’re trans. it doesn’t impact me in the ways i was falsely convinced it did.

i’d say i don’t know why i believed these things, but i do. i didn’t want people to know i’m trans, and i was stuck in a high school where every single person knew. i was trying to prove myself as “a good trans,” who had “rational” political opinions and was conservative in gender beliefs. this way i would be accepted by everyone, even conservatives. i wanted to separate myself from being trans as much as a i could, and minimizing it to a medical condition requiring treatment was the best way i could do that.

there are more than two genders and it doesn’t impact my life at all. queer isn’t always a slur, nonbinary people exist. they/them pronouns are valid, and so are neopronouns if that’s what you want. none of this affects my trans-ness. the identity of other people doesn't affect mine, and they are not responsible for negative experiences i have because of my identity. do what you want. be who you want. be who makes you happy. i'm really sorry if there were people who read my blog and posts and it made them feel bad or question themselves. i cared way too much about the lives of others, thinking they impacted me when they really, really don't. so please, identify as a nonbinary trans man, as nonbinary alone, as some other gender. use xe/xym pronouns, be a trans woman cosplaying as a male character. call yourself queer or pansexual, it's not just spicy bisexual.

be yourself. i will defend you, and i will never be who i was three years ago.

[anxietyproblem]

[snoopingasusualisee]

weaner pods

[snoopingasusualisee]

I wouldn’t have it any other way. Thank you.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[televisionandchill-deactivated2]

[friskdaferret]

You know what I love?

silent rebellions.

I mean don’t get me wrong the loud ones are great too but there is something so poetic about the quiet ones.

Like when a kid hides a pride flag in their room or paints their stuff the colors because they know if its not rainbow their parents won’t know what it means.

or when someone hides a binder in their backpack to change into and out of at school, “plus school takes up most of the time I can bind anyway”

The kids that are never deadnamed at school but in front of their family their classmates will never betray them.

The kids that have secret blogs

the kids that have secret lives

because you simply cant live in a world without some of you in it.

Kids that all flock to the one with supportive parents

the kids that sneak out to pride festivals with their friends

the kids that are secretly themselves

the kids that are secretly heroes

and those secret silent rebellions

are fantastic.

So please

Please

keep it up.

The world is so much better with you in it.

[beaft]

im watching spongebob squarepants and havin a lot of trouble figuring out if this episode is deliberately gay or if it was purely accidental that they made an episode where squidward develops a full-on crush on his new neighbour because they both play wind instruments

[beaft]

omg they’re painting pictures of each other….need me a freak like that

[beaft]

fellas is it gay to admire another fish’s interior decoration 🤔

[beaft]

this is more dramatic than the entirety of the fault in our stars

[recoversuggestions]

sometimes things aren’t meant to last and that’s okay. better things are coming.

[teachagainstfascism]

i just have this persistent feeling of “i’m not doing enough” combined with “i don’t have the energy to do anything” and it just really fucking sucks

[semidepressed]

I don’t care what happens to me anymore, I’m exhausted

[pdmori]

[whitepeopletwitter]

[niacinamides-deactivated2020010]

yall are gonna lose your minds over this but.... you dont need to say LGBTQIAP2SQA whatever the fuck like . just say Ell Gee Bee Tee thats all there is to it, saying LGBT is sufficient youre not leaving anyone out.

[niacinamides-deactivated2020010]

in fact!!!! lemme make a bolder statement. u are accomplishing nothing by insisting that people add “+” or “Q” to the end of LGBT

[radiqueer]

we add + and Q to the end of LGBT to explicitly state that we welcome identities that are not covered by LGBT. not all nb people are trans. not all aspecs are also lesbian, gay, bi, or trans. by insisting that all we need is LGBT, you're implicitly affirming why we insist otherwise so hard.

[peachy-political]

If you aren't lesbian, gay, trans, bisexual you arent in the community so you don't need an acronym in the first place.

[the-memedaddy]

meirl

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[abuelitalesbiana]

i wonder what its like to get upset without getting suicidal