you're fine. trust me

switchy gentle domme • minors dni • inclusive queer friendly • hypno, shibari, trust kink enthusiast • late 20s / genderfluid / ace / any prns

[hailhailsatan]

So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

[sage-trust]

babe if you don't take a break soon i'm sorry but i will be physically pinning you to the bed and tying you down. you can struggle but the lotion is coming out. that's the last thing you see before you're blindfolded.

the pressure of my hands on your back is too much at first, too heavy, pushing you down into the mattress and dragging my strength down your muscles. at first you're so stiff from overwork it's almost hard to breathe. it hurts; you're sore and i'm mostly ignoring your protests. but once you accept that you're not getting out of this and relax, it starts to get easier.

slowly, you give in. you know i'm going to do what's best for you. my touch lightens as your resistance starts to fail, as you wear yourself out and go still. everything is so much gentler when you don't fight. i murmur soft praises as your mind starts to go fuzzy.

there's my sweet little thing. just how you're supposed to be, letting me cover every inch of your skin in my lotion and tenderly massage it in. by the time I need to flip you over, you don't even need the blindfold to stay all soft and pliant like this. that's it, sweetheart, let me see your face. good.

oh, but we're not done. you're staying tied down—you can't be trusted to take care of yourself, remember?—but you can be propped up a bit on the pillows while i feed you the meal you refused in favor of working earlier. perhaps if you'd taken a break then, you wouldn't be helplessly eating out of my hands now, hmm? don't you feel silly.

well, maybe you don't. maybe you're too far gone to feel self-conscious. that's okay, baby. i know, i've made it so hard to think.

now, all we have left to decide is how i'm going to get you to sleep. any ideas? oh, of course not. well, i have a few... so lay back, sweetie, and try to hold still.

[hailhailsatan]

So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

[sage-trust]

at first you keep coming back because it feels good. understandable. it's a relief, and i'm happy to provide you with that.

but it's not only pleasure. if you missed that, you weren't paying attention.

you soon notice that parts of your life as it is are... uncomfortable. you have to change them. stop spending time with the person who leaves you feeling exhausted and angry. leave behind your worst habit. quit talking to yourself that way, even when it's only in your own thoughts.

you've suddenly adopted a skincare routine. you don't spend so long scrolling on your phone in bed. you find yourself hungry for better food.

if you notice, you might worry that you're losing pieces of yourself... that your life is slowly spiraling out of your control. who is altering you at the deep level of motivation, of desire, of comfort and discomfort? who is making these decisions? it isn't you.

but you'll still come back, pretending you don't know. it feels so good to let your mind go and rest. let someone else take over.

it won't hurt, my love. the soft descent from the person you were to the person i am coaxing out of you. though my control may scare you, it's only to free the parts of you that are trapped. you can relax.

but you can't go back.

[nyxtickled]

psychological dominance is so fucking cool and amazing and intoxicating what the fuck. the mind is so malleable. feeling yourself being actively and intentionally reconditioned by someone else is so hot. and like, if you’re guided far enough into that fully relinquishing headspace, it’s genuinely fascinating to be able to SEE your thought patterns and instincts being rearranged and rewired in real time

[cognitivebloom-deactivated20260]

brainwashing that is subtle, almost unnoticeable. brainwashing that is gentle, that moves without breaking any barriers, that sneaks through all my defences, that keeps caressing the shame until it tames it completely, until my mind just gives in, until i yield without even noticing what's happening until you snap your fingers and i obey without thinking

[yuriwinged]

girl who visibly relaxes and looks relieved and finally content when a collar is fastened around her neck.

[el-paraiso-de-eden]

Making him speak well of himself if he wants to be allowed to cum. Pushing him and asking him,

- Who's my good boy? Who's my pretty angel? Who's my songbird? Who's my starlight? Who's my perfect gift?

Just to have him stutter out a small hesitant - I-I a-am?

-Who is?

-I am!

- What are you? Say it again!

- I'm your perfect gift!

- Thats right, now be even more perfect and cum for me sweetheart.

MINORS & AGELESS BLOGS DNI ! YOU WILL BE BLOCKED !

[enchantress-arc]

Gentle corruption. Corruption in a kind of soft, romantic sense, you know? Where I get to hold them and cuddle them and press them to my chest and tell them how much I love them as I drag them deeper into my embrace. Rather than being something that makes them more horny, or mindless, or completely obedient, it just makes them feel safe and lovey around me. It makes them smile so brightly when I give them attention. Makes the sound of my voice so much more appealing, makes it so staring at me alone feels relaxing, makes their cheeks go deep red when I offer to hold their hand. So they can barely contain their eagerness when I offer to hold them, and play with their hair. Corruption that's warmth, and happiness, and comfort, and love that permeates even the furthest depths of their being. Corruption that feels good, but never wrong, just safe, safe to fall into the embrace of, safe to give into, because every part of you knows that it feels right, it feels perfect, it feels like and may very well be everything you've ever needed.

[pr3ttypunisher]

“hey, look at me, baby.” cupping your face gently. thumbs stroking your cheeks. “you’re okay. you did so good.” you looking at me with those shy eyes. face flushed. still coming down. trying to hide in my neck.

“none of that, sweetheart. let me see you.” kissing your forehead. your nose. your cheeks. your temple. “so proud of you, baby. you were perfect.”

“let me get you some water.” reaching for the bottle. helping you sit up. one hand supporting your back. bringing it to your lips. “just a few sips.” you drinking slowly. “good girl. a little more.” making sure you get enough. kissing your shoulder softly.

grabbing the warm washcloth. “let me clean you up, baby.” spreading your legs gently. wiping between your thighs carefully. you wincing slightly. still sensitive. “i know, sweetheart. almost done.” finishing quickly. “all clean.” kissing your knee gently.

pulling you into my arms immediately. wrapping the blanket around both of us. you curling into me. face hidden in my neck again. shy. “i’m right here, baby. i’ve got you.” arms wrapped around you completely. holding you close.

stroking your hair slowly. fingers running through it. down your back. rubbing gentle circles. just soothing touches. kissing the top of your head. your temple. you still trembling slightly. “shh, sweetheart. just breathe. relax into me.”

one hand continuing to rub your back. up and down. the other cradling your head. feeling your breathing gradually slow. body starting to relax against me. kissing your forehead again.

“you don’t have to talk until you’re ready, okay?” stroking your cheek with my thumb. then back to your hair. “just let me hold you.” you making a soft sound. burrowing deeper. my hand moving down your spine. gentle pressure. grounding. “i love you so much, baby.”

“you were so good for me tonight. so perfect. i love touching you. making you feel good. and i always want you to feel safe with me.” continuing to rub your back. your shoulders. you nodding against me. “i do…” voice small. “good, sweetheart.” kissing your head again.

holding you like that. hand never stopping its gentle movement. back and forth across your back. through your hair. feeling you come back to yourself. the trembling stopping. breathing evening out. you sighing contentedly.

“can i put on your comfort show?” stroking down your arm now. back up. you nodding against me. mumbling the name. pulling it up with one hand. other arm never leaving you. settling back with you against my chest. hand in your hair. fingers gently massaging your scalp. the show playing softly.

staying like that for a while. continuing those gentle touches. rubbing your back. stroking your arms. kissing your head occasionally. eventually asking “are you hungry, baby? when did you eat last?” hand still moving up and down your spine. you thinking. “lunch…” that was hours ago. “let me grab you something quick.” you gripping my shirt. “don’t leave…” kissing your forehead. “thirty seconds, i promise.”

carefully getting up. you watching anxiously. rushing to get crackers and fruit. coming back quickly. sitting back down. you immediately curling back into me. my arm around you instantly. “there we go, baby. i’m back.”

feeding you slowly. one hand offering strawberries, crackers, chocolate. other hand rubbing your back continuously. you eating more as you relax. leaning into my touch. “good girl, baby.” kissing your temple between bites.

“feeling better?” you nodding. “yeah… thank you…” “always, baby.” both settling back. you against my chest. my hand stroking your hair. down your back. up again. repetitive. soothing. you getting sleepy. eyes heavy. melting into me.

“you can sleep, sweetheart. i’ve got you.” hand still moving. still touching. still grounding you. you already drifting. “love you…” “i love you too, baby.” kissing your head one more time.

holding you as you fall asleep. hand never stopping its gentle movement. keeping you safe. warm. loved. exactly where you need to be.

[prettyypearl]

Realizing I crave to be dominated in a soft, affectionate way that makes me feel wanted, desirable and worthy of every kiss, every touch, every second of pleasure I’m given. I want to give away control to someone who will choose to care for me and appreciate me in every way.

[cognitivebloom-deactivated20260]

I think the reason hypno kink affects me so deeply is because I can’t relax on my own. My thoughts never stop. The idea of someone forcing everything to go quiet, of being guided into rest, feels like relief I don’t know how to give myself.

[gentlyevilvt]

I think I have like a usefulness-breaking kink or something. taking someone who's so desperate to be useful and taking it all away from them, softly, sweetly, gently, until they can't even try to help at all... Forcibly relaxing them until they don't even protest about what they "should" be doing....

Awwwww, somebody went and ripped out all that usefulness you hold so dear but guess who's still loved? that's right, it's you!! No, silly, there's nothing you can do for me, but I can do some things for you! here, why don't you just put your head in my lap and let me tell you what a good job you're doing by relaxing for me~

[yesmeowstress]

"Give up control" this, "you're totally under my command" that. What about aggressively trusting and safe hypno. What if I made them brainless and empty with the promise that everything is okay and that I love them. What if I held them gently and reassured them the entire time What Then

[poseysgarden]

[i-suggest-petplay]

yeah

[sage-trust]

concept: you're safe in your helplessness. the person watching over you has every opportunity to hurt you, but instead actively chooses to care for you, and you don't have to feel ashamed of accepting their care once it's happening. in fact, you can't. you're down too deep for that.

of course, you first have to hand over your vulnerability, to trust someone despite your fear of being seen as a burden... but sweetie, that's why your dom loves it so much when you do.

your willing submission is a gift to be treasured, even more so when it's difficult at first, and you're so beautiful when you finally relax. mind empty, breathing slow, accepting of gentle touch and little treats... precious.

don't worry. let yourself be trained, give in to the safety, and soon it'll become easier. to be loved is to be changed <3

[sleepytrancysub]

One thing I love doing with hypnosis is rejecting the need for a sub's resistance. It's one thing to break their will, but convincing them that they want to give it up themselves? So much sweeter.

I love holding a squirming sub against myself, firmly enough that they can't escape, but not enough to really reinforce their desire to fight, and cooing in their ear about how glad I am to help them relax, how I hope they enjoy not having to think, how happy I am to be able to give them that feeling. Honestly, I often have to stifle giggles as their intention to resist clashes with the feeling of comfort I give them and makes them so adorably confused.

I love treating a sub so gently, so sweetly, that their every instinct tells them to relax, to ignore the need to resist that their poor, confused brain keeps trying to impart. I love watching a sub's struggles slow down as I run my fingers down their spine and whisper about how I just want to make them feel good.

That's always the end. It's one thing to gently drop someone, but even that often meets some resistance, but to frame it as something I'm doing for them? It's always so cute to watch a sub's overwhelmed brain give out under the contradiction and just make the easiest choice. The choice to give in.

[sleepytrancysub]

I honestly love using weak triggers. Sure, it's fun to trigger a sub and have them immediately drop, but there's something so delightful about watching them grow just a bit fuzzier instead. I really love spacing out weak triggers like that, 'cause, honestly, if you haven't seen the expressions that cross a sub's face when they hear the first trigger and realize what's about to happen to them, then you're reallllly missing out