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if you post in fan tags to tell people in those fandoms that their fandoms are bad (or PrObLeMaTiC) you're a cunt

literally not a single person likes you, no one has had their mind changed by you, and everyone wishes you didn't exist

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#harry potter

quixotic-dragon

Personal gold stars

bobmorane

vomitdodger

cantankeroussob

But white peoples are the problem

theswordofdamntheseknees

In the early 2000s, after a car chase where he crashed-out, I arrested a 9 year old black boy for car theft and evading police. He’d used blocks to reach the pedals, and could barely see over the steering wheel. A felon at 9 (Nine) years old.

I can’t imagine being a murderer at 14yo. That’s some kidnapped child soldier of Boko Haram type shit.

swedishfalcon-actual

Not that uncommon where i live.

salt-n-tigers

Becoming more common here all the time

Police say a 13‑year‑old was arrested after Cassondra Andrews‑Huff was found stabbed. Investigators recovered a notebook and fire‑starting m

sal-absinthii

we can't coexist with people who teach their children to be like this

feminismisstillahatemovement

Feminism is a propaganda-driven mental disorder that removes women's ability to love, reason or maintain anything objectively good in the world.

the-chaos-official

making girls think that pregnancy and motherhood is disgusting and ruins you is one of the most evil things i can think of happening in modern times

sal-absinthii

"I'm so pro-female empowerment that I refuse to believe a woman who has made a different choice than me did so of her own free will and with her own intelligence, she must be doing it because she's too stupid to know she's being oppressed. I'm so pro-woman that I actively despise any woman who finds value in something other than radfem misery. I'm so feminist that I think all women everywhere are automatically doomed to be perpetual helpless victims to the extent that I think it's wrong to even bring little girls into this world because their lives won't be worth living. I'm so pro-humanity and well-adjusted I will project my own real or imagined bad experiences with men onto literal infant boys because having a penis makes them oppress me."

birdsofrhiannon

skf-fineart

Snake Bracelet, Egyptian, 100 B.C. – A.D. 100

Gold, glass

wholeheartedsuggestions

forgive the version of you that didn’t know any better

wholeheartedsuggestions

forgive the version of yourself that knew better but did it anyway. forgive every version of yourself. we are constantly learning from our mistakes.

wholeheartedsuggestions

forgive the version of you that didn’t know what to do and could not have foreseen what the right choice was, if there even was one. forgive the version of you that made a choice and regretted it.

datesthefruit

I really hate the portrayal of Lily Evans as mary sue and Severus Snape as creepy stalker, because no doubt Lily would've griefed just as bitterly if Severus was the one assassinated.

They spent roughly eight years together & assumingly every summer together in boring Cokeworth. That sort of adjacency birthes the kind of friendship that makes you feel like your souls are intertwined, but also resent with no rhyme or reason.

I mean,

Lily & Severus who have stupid inside jokes. Who can read each other's expressions. Who revert back into their eight-year-old selves around each other. Who argue over the tiniest things and go back to normal without even thinking of apologising or talking things over.

Lily, who taught Severus how to rollerskate, and Severus, who taught her how to cast dark spells.

Before Hogwarts, they would've had their own magical brotherhood that had nothing to do with muggle-borns vs Death eaters but what was most entertaining to do together.

LIly & Severus who both had awful tempers and might've fed off of each others cruelness. Like, little ten-year-olds loitering and committing small rebellions of shoplifting and arson and dark magic around Cokeworth - all before Lily gets told "No, you can't do that," and Severus gets told "No, you can't do that with her."

Lily who pretends to be nicer and Severus who pretends to be meaner.

And then there's all this social structure and expectations, and they're both bending under the pressure. Their friendship on the rocks. And then, summer comes, and they are back again to their stupid mischief. They spent every day together and feel at peace again. They don't talk about Hogwarts. They both hope the other wouldn't act so differently when they get back to school, but they always do.

Lily & Severus who both want the other to stand up for them.

Lily & Severus both feeling like they are the ones being cheated.

Then, Severus calls Lily a mudblood. Absolutely neither expect it. His temper alights hers, and suddenly it's just over. Very quickly and unsatisfyingly. It doesn't feel good enough. Eight years and just that? So Severus begs for either forgiveness or an argument, he's not really sure. And Lily isn't as sure about what she wants either, but she's adamant.

They see one another the next summer, before sixth year, in an ordinary public setting. They look at each other, Lily looks away and Severus keeps glaring. Nothing happens. They keep this up until graduation.

Lily who rants to all her friends about Severus being a dick and Severus who allows his friends to call Lily a mudblood - each do it for a twinge of satisfaction.

Then Lily dies and everything is forgiven. Lily is an angel and a saviour, as everyone is remembered posthumous. Severus is so hateful and loathing to everyone ever, but melts at Lily- and Lily's stupid kid. Because that's almost his kid, 'cus he and Lily are one in the same

- And if Severus were the one who died, it'd be the (mostly) same. No one could talk shit about Severus ever again. Says that James doesn't get it, and puts all her resent into him. Just him. Back then it'd felt good to get with the guy who not only idolised her, but also tormented Severus like crazy. Now she's ignorant to how she's been since.

They both mourn maliciously because that's what they had best in common.

lenzio

maaleaidahar

The best potions master in the world✨

what should my next questionable tattoo be

#we're going for 'things that get you put on the no-fly list'#don't say the dark mark I already have that #I want to do one on my other arm that's either native/magical plants or st george

listening to PoA again

work is driving me insane

coworker I very briefly dated has been being a psycho to me for the past year all because she didn't like that I set emotional boundaries with her when we first met...she was mad at me for saying I thought it was gross to celebrate Charlie Kirk's murder. I don't really care about him but was upset by all the people saying that a man deserved to be murdered in front of his family for the crime of being conservative. I don't even think of him as being that conservative, definitely not as much as I am, and to me it was literally seeing all these people say "this guy deserved to die for being a Republican" and I'm...not a Republican lmao. Anyway she started ghosting me for it, which is crazy because she sits literally a foot away from me at work. Finally I got it out of her that she was upset at me for saying it (it wasn't even directed at her). She thinks I "lied" to her because I "didn't show her who I really was" (meaning, having emotional reactions) when we first met. Like. I told this crazy girl about a LOT of stuff and was more open with her than a lot of people, but yes, I keep my emotions under control AT WORK AROUND PEOPLE I DON'T KNOW, and anyway it was clear from her reaction to seeing me upset that the LAST thing she could have handled was me being emotionally more open with her. She wants me to be happy and cheerful and never messy or upset and she wants to be able to believe that's the real me. The irony is that I made a special effort to be emotionally calm around her because I know she has an abusive family in a lot of the same ways I did and I wanted to be someone stable in her life. ANYWAY.

Her reaction has been to be insanely passive aggressive. She's our QC person and yet has ONLY focused on me for the past 7 months. She was supposed to do an audit of my department while the lab manager audited everyone else. Doubtless he thought this was ideal because we were friends, not knowing that she had been doing this. That audit was supposed to take a month. 7 months ago. She keeps finding INSANE bullshit stuff like "oh we don't have a policy of rinsing out the graduated cylinders before making media and it might get dust in it" ok well you can tell that to wet chem but I'm telling you for my department it DOES NOT MATTER. She's straight up lied about me and grossly misrepresented a lot of shit. And when I would push back on something that was completely unnecessary, she would write emails to the owner complaining that I was being uncooperative. It's ALWAYS and ONLY me she does this to. She doesn't help and has even gotten the lab manager to agree that she shouldn't "have" to help because, I shit you not, as the primary analyst it is my responsibility to do EVERYTHING even when I'M NOT FUCKING THERE. I was gone for 16 days and the lab manager was mad that I didn't make enough media (impossible, we haven't got the tubes for one, and it only has a 13 day shelf life for two) because "she shouldn't have to do it, you're the primary analyst" and I was like BRO I WAS 3000 MILES AWAY, SHE CAN FUCKING MAKE MEDIA. She's so passive aggressive and she knows I can't prove it but she drives me nuts.

And she gets paid more than me to sit around making up bullshit "work" to justify her position while MY work took FIVE people to cover while I was gone, is all time-sensitive, and is, you know, actually generating data for the lab. And I never ask for help. I have told the lab manager I need help with dishes. Multiple times. He tells me there's nothing he can do. So we have this bullshit meeting with me and him and her and they tell me I need to have MORE media on hand because we had a big unexpected rush the other week and they're literally dictating minimum numbers of baskets of media to ME, who does this EVERY DAY AND EVERY WEEK AND KNOWS THE DEMANDS, saying I need to do more, but at the same time telling me I'm the ONLY one responsible (which is not itself a problem, it's a problem that they're claiming I'm still the only one responsible even when I'm not there -- SHE is my backup and is considered the primary analyst when I'm not there, but she literally won't lift a finger, she claims she bruised her thumb a year ago and can't pipette even though another coworker literally broke her wrist and healed from it enough to return to pipetting in less time) AND when I repeated again that what I really need is for someone to DO THE FUCKING DISHES, he just shrugs and says it's not gonna happen. He's been gone and the person covering him did actually assign someone else to dishes over the weekend -- her -- and she didn't do ANY of them, so today I had to make media and I literally had to wash dishes first just so I could use them. Oh but when I was gone he told the whole lab to help HER out with dishes because she's a little bitch. I have asked him directly multiple times as well as brought it up in lab meetings but no, it's just assumed I will have the time to get it done because *I* don't complain and pass my work off to other people like she does. I came in today and saw she had made media yesterday, her name was on it. And then the guy who ACTUALLY made it told me she just took the credit for it. Unbelievable.

Oh and she told a coworker I was a nazi. So that's cool. Not like that puts my job or my physical safety at risk. Fucking kill yourself.