Sandee After Dark 💋

Sex • Love • Life• Self

[sandeeafterdark]

So what we doing⁉️ ___________________________ #grownfolkshit #grownandsexy #badbitchquotes #sexystyle #goddessvibes (at B R O O K L Y N!*) https://www.instagram.com/p/CJEdulRjrkV/?igshid=17e43ut1ktm4b

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The moment you own who you really are is the moment you become free to be yourself and you’ll stop looking around for acceptance because you just don’t give a fuck anymore.💋 ___________________________ #browngirlsrock #focusingonme #baddie #overfortyandfit #feminineenergy (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CJDK8C_jst0/?igshid=cak2smap6gj3

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You know chocolate is an Aphrodisiac 💋 ___________________________ #browngirlslove #imavibe #brownskingirls #melaninqueen (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CJBwdzeDxEi/?igshid=1u0r25a4v7c6h

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This is what loving your body from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet look like 💋 ___________________________ #youdontknowme #butyouplayin #demisexual #feminineenergy #musicsoothesmysoul #danceismypassion (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CI7A2kPDkd4/?igshid=11n49uckqnigs

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My mission is to help women evolve from feeling invisible to feeling invincible & embracing & embodying her Feminine Energy. 🥂 __________________________#feminineenergy #goddessvibes #bodypositivemovement #sisterhoodispowerful (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CI60rFaDV37/?igshid=xtjj3vlip7za

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The perfect way to end a fucked up week. Being around the right people will make a difference in your life.... Try it 🥰 ___________________________ #happyfriday #ilovemydaughters #lifeischanging #happyandblessed (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIruCP8jhm-/?igshid=1f4gh5h070m7m

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This woman right here is the exact type of woman I wished I could be so I made sure I raised my daughters to be everything I wasn’t growing up. She is me at 26 and I am her at 48 we are so fucking alike it’s really scary but amazing at the same time. I’ve learned so much from my babygirl since being on this single self love personal development journey starting back in 2019 when my husband and I separated and started our new lives as single people. Age really is just a number when it comes to life lessons because these teachings can come from so many different people and places as long as you’re open to listening hearing paying attention and take it all in then making the decision that works best for you. Life is so beautiful 🤍 __________________________ #motherdaughterlove #nubianqueen #femininepower #melanindripping (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIrmMEaj1hN/?igshid=qi0do23albv0

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I had to remind myself how strong I am because I was two seconds from saying fuck it to everything. But one phone call changed my day not my life but my day so that I can sit down think clear and move forward. Sometimes when it seems like you are being looked over by “your high power” you realize you are not being looked over it just takes time for diamonds to come through and shine. Breathe I have to tell myself this every damn day. Living is hard and living a LEGAL LIFESTYLE is even harder especially when you see others coming up doing ILLEGAL SHIT. I’m staying focused and I hope you are too. Our time is coming I can feel it. ___________________________ #elevating #rememberwhoyouare #singlemomstrong #feminineenergy (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIo1ylij5kH/?igshid=1r0tqrrm0y5z4

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This post may offend some or everybody because YES I have no top on Big fucking deal.🤷🏽‍♀️ Life is short and I don’t know when my time is up. I’ve wasted so much time (that I can never get back) trying to please every body but myself. So until I take my last breathe I will continue doing what make me smile every day. Why do we continue to stress ourselves out on people that you may just continue to let down. The situation that you are in you know in your heart you’re not happy anymore. We just be exhausting ourselves trying to please everyone and trying to make everyone happy and we have no one to give to us the same way. I taught myself almost 2 years ago to love me unconditionally, without judgement, flaws and all. I release all my feminine energy and I’m vibing so high. I have never felt so full and magical in my entire life and as my feminine energy get stronger it ignites the energy of my sensuality. I am loving this new me and I’m not shame about nothing I do or say .. Now what 🤤😛 ___________________________ #beautifulbrownskin #bodypositivitymovement #goddessenergy #embracingbeauty (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIhKnd0jzZ9/?igshid=1brlfmzgmbxf7

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It’s been said that the storm always come before the rainbow ... Well I’m riding this storm out because I believe in rainbows. 🌈 ___________________________ #believeinyou #imaunicorn #dreamsdocometrue✨ #stayfocusedonyourgoals (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIgs81fjZ7k/?igshid=1d67iydm86lhn

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💥Stay focused💥 The closer you are to receiving what you have been manifesting the more obstacles will get in your way. I have to remind myself of this so I can focus on what I am manifesting in my life. I’m not gonna lie I’m not a religious person. This weekend has been a true test of my patience and the old Sandee was trying her best to come out because when someone fuck with my family, my money, and my peace I have a serious issue with them. I have come to far to lose focus. Sunday’s are for getting deep in your mind to heal your heart and move forward. Set backs are just the trial run for getting you ready for the amazing life you have been working hard to have and prayed to get. 🤍 Don’t let no body fuck up your focus. ___________________________ #findpeacewithin #manifestyourdreams #iknowmyworth #iknowwhatiwant (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIe3uNcjd35/?igshid=ihsnyslpo31y

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💕My sexual pleasure is SMELL, SIGHT, TOUCH, TASTE, SOUND (keep reading to find out more) In my soul searching, self reflection, and self discovery journey over the last almost 3 years after my 12 year breakup of my marriage and through LOTS of trial and error. I knew I needed to change my entire narrative because I was truly not happy in my life and with myself. Some days I could barely look in the mirror at myself. I was so broken and so shattered I was just a shell of myself and I just did shyt to put bandages on the wounds. I’d hit my rock bottom literally. I knew this time was now quarantine hit and just like magic the real hard work began. I thank the universe for this time that made the world stand still because if this hadn’t happened at this exact time. I would be dead real talk. I was trying to figure out ways to kill myself and make it look like an accident but I didn’t want my daughter to find my body later. So I knew there was only one other choice and that was to change my mindset to transform me into the woman I needed a long time ago. In this amazing journey I focused solely on me every part of me. From my head to my toes. I discovered so much about me that I’m not joking I didn’t even know 😳 I found that I am a very sensual and sexual woman that is not shame anymore of her pleasures and it’s not always about SEX! I created for myself a lot of different tools to begin transforming my life and my sexuality and femininity. I especially wanted to work on my internal pain and my sexual blockages. So I created: 💞 The 5 Sexual Pleasure Languages for woMEn (I created it for ME but I wanna share my tools with other WOMEN). 🔥MIND POWER (sight: visual, image, attraction, pics, thoughts feeling real). 🔥OH YEAH! RIGHT THERE (touch: playful, foreplay, rubs, hugs, kisses). 🔥SAY WHAT? (sound: words, music, text messages, phone calls, his voice, her voice). 🔥OH DAMN THAT’S GOOD (smell: scents, fragrances, flowers, perfume, cologne). 🔥OHHH YUMMY! (taste: flavor, food, drinks, body parts your choice). 💞Women have different types of sexual pleasures. What’s yours? ___________________________ #31daysofpleasure #intimacy #selflesslove (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIdqt_8jj4l/?igshid=ot32nuj8xfml

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6 tips to increase Feminine Energy: 1. Be Unapologetically You Always. People are gonna talk anyway so fuck it just be you and keep it moving. 2. Tap into your “pleasure chest”. Count to 10 backwards, when you get to 1 write down the first 5 things that enters your mind when you think of what gives you pleasure. Note: pleasure isn’t always about “sex”. 3. Create a morning ritual to jump start your “Venus” (Feminine Energy Goddess). Starting your day with a positive mind is very important in creating peace harmony and balance throughout your body (ex. dancing, meditating, journaling, etc.). 4. Create your Affirmation(s). Affirmations help you to keep positive thoughts and visuals strong the more you manifest what you want the strong the energy will be and what you need will be yours. 5. Create your Mantra. Mantras are strong and powerful like affirmations are however mantras are what is to keep you focused on building a strong mindset to know that you are powerful beyond words. So start becoming those powerful words. 6. Lastly while your becoming unapologetically you make sure you are also shameless in the process and through the journey. 💥 You will never truly experience real freedom until you allow yourself to release the bonds that’s holding you hostage from owning your #feminineenergy Are you ready to release the bonds that’s been holding you hostage? ___________________________ #sexualhealing #elevateyourmindset #grownwomanshit #imaboss #owningit #elevateyourself (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIdAWyMDnm-/?igshid=1ir42hcxnr0t3

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WHYYYYYYY!!!!!!! I’m screaming and cussing everything and everyone the fuck out. 💥When is it my turn. 💥When do I get a fucking break? 💥Who did I piss off in the heavens damn. They say you are only given what you can bare. Well how strong am I suppose to be to bare all the bs that’s been trying it’s best to take down my peace and harmony energy that I’ve been working so hard for. 😫 I’m trying to be strong but this shit is hard. It’s like the closer I get to the light some motherfucker run by me at a fast rate of speed and blow my fucking light right out. 🖕🏽 I’m so over getting knocked down. 👽 Okay universe I’m definitely paying attention more than ever now because you are definitely trying to tell me something that I’m not getting. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Life is fucking weird. 😫😫 Does anyone feel me at all or am I just really losing my damn mind? ___________________________ #lifehappens #keepitmoving #strongblackwoman #goddessenergy #imgood (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIca66MDEGJ/?igshid=1j6ylh5eu0cgt

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I love how this King @keith_lee125 gave the best answer and dropped some knowledge to the peasant that gave him a negative comment about him cooking for his Queen.🤍 • Only a real King or God know that when you treat your heart like royalty you WILL receive back from your Queen or Goddess the highest treatment for life and if this isn’t happening they truly aren’t the One 🤷🏽‍♀️ ___________________________ #kingsandqueens #godsandgoddesses #blacklovecouples #lovewinsalways (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIb1YIKDBAJ/?igshid=do6o896r0orh

[sandeeafterdark]

So what I’m not gonna do is fall back and allow myself to stop shin I f just to make other people feel more comfortable being around me.💋 ___________________________ #feminineenergy #feminineembodiment #feminineempowerment #brownskinpoppin #melaninpopping #selflovealways (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIbnKFdjCIT/?igshid=1sx0p2ll41v53

[sandeeafterdark]

Do more for yourself this time around. Chances happen on purpose not on accident. 🤍 ___________________________ #itsallforyou #doyouforyou #youareincontrolofyourlife #heyboo https://www.instagram.com/p/CIbMl5wjgoz/?igshid=1bht9u07ngorz