Sappho Haven

@sapphohaven

🌺 A safe space for wlw (with some general lgbtqia+ positivity mixed in) 🌺 Antiracist 🌺 Trans, aspec, pan, and nonbinary sapphics are welcome (this blog is NOT for terfs or REGs) 🌺 run by Lotus (earthmoonlotus), and by Faerie -the founder of the blog- (faeriegoddessofsluts) 🌺 icon by kristendoodles 🌺 Thank you for existing 🌺

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filmphotofranz

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#yaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy #this makes me so happy #mod lotus #couple #kiss

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#art #she ra

filmphotofranz

I get the importance of the transfem community warnings but sometimes I see shit like girls talking other girls out of trying to get their teaching certificates because of the potential for harassment from conservative parents and idk that's very real but also at a certain point we are just doing preemptive hiring discrimination to ourselves

filmphotofranz

Like on the one hand it is very real that societal transphobia would like to see us all unemployed, forced to do survival sex work. But also that's not the only reality available to us at this point! And sometimes I worry that we are self policing in a way by flooding so many trans girls with this message of "your only options are to get super good at onlyfans or be Raytheon's strongest coder" when like, so many of the women I know are teachers, home care workers, nannies, day care workers, postal workers. Not glamorous, but like, idk the world of lower middle class pink collar jobs is available to us more or less at this point. Other girls have office jobs, some girls have to work food service and retail. But we get to exist in some form besides either NEETs or internet famous porn girls. And obvi hiring discrimination is real, and obvi disability issues come into play for a lot of us that makes a lot of the work I just mentioned inaccessible. I'm not saying things are sweet out there. But there is a world out there where you can live. Maybe not in the exact way you want, maybe not super easily, but you can live.

#trans #transmisogyny tw

mousidy

if you are a transgender woman never feel guilty for anything. you did nothing wrong beautiful

#trans

esthermika

she/her and it/its girls are right about everything all the time

#pronouns #nonbinary

cyprozombiegirl

if you're a trans woman it is very important that you're friends with people who are interested in living and living well. Find gym rats, painters, academics, devoted gardeners, gourmands, cinephiles, audiophiles, wine snobs, fashionistas... anyone who is deeply devoted to something in life, that fascinates them, brings them peace, and compels them to live. Learn from them, ask them to show you what's so good about ____. Imagine yourself as one of those anime slice of life characters who've learned that they can be satisfied (fulfilled even) with life as long as they pursue their love of __. The world is full of so much misery for us, and so many of us let that misery and hatred eat away at us until we're depressed, angry shells of people. Refuse that, choose life, choose learning how to live well. Choose enriching your senses by training them.

#trans #advice