I haven’t posted in a while but here’s some tea.
Tea time: two-faced immature bridezilla
Before I get into the actual tea: There is a backstory, and trigger warning this does contain the topic of cancer. (No one has it but someone in the story told people she has it just to get attention). For legal reasons I (f25) will not be using their real names.
Chapter 1: Poorly planned, unorganized bachelorette party.
Before I get into it, this was for my best friends (f25) wedding, bridezilla (f23)wasn’t engaged at the time but she was the maid of honor for my best friend. So she was in charge with planning the bachelorette. This was her first time being maid of honor so I offered to help her with planning. I will say I have her ideas but I let it be up to her what she wanted to do. But she did not give me any credit on helping her.
A week before the bachelorette bridezilla found out she was pregnant, she was having and pregnancy symptoms like passing out, morning sickness and getting tired easily, so I made sure to help her the day of the party.
Bridezilla invited a girl that my bestie didn’t really want at the party because (let’s call her Debbie) she was upset when my bestie threw a game night and didn’t invite Debbie because there wasn’t a lot of room. (Side note: Debbie is married to bridezilla’s husband’s brother and they are living together.) on the day of the party, both Debbie and bridezilla made the bachelorette all about them, not my bestie who was actually getting married. Bridezilla needed help with putting things in the car and Debbie offered to help. But when that time came Debbie threw a bitch fit and accused bridezilla of throwing her an attitude and blaming it on her pregnancy and made bridezilla cry.
The next day Debbie told her husband that we were all being mean to her and he said to stop being friends with us. So she became mean to bridezilla, physically pushing her around, and going around and tell people she has cancer when she doesn’t, and I made sure with bridezilla and she said “yeah it’s not true it was just a bad diet but she’s saying that for attention”. Which triggered me because they both know that my mom died from cancer. And all bridezilla did was complain about Debbie. And complained to me and my bestie all the time.
Chapter 2: High School Level Drama
After my bestie got married she announced she was getting married and asked the both of us to be bridesmaids. And we both accepted, both my bestie and I already got our dresses.
I made a Facebook post of friends who I appreciate and the only pic I had with my group. Was from the party so I edited Debbie out of the picture because she wasn’t my friend. And prior to the post I show bridezilla and she thought it was the funniest thing she ever seen.
One day my bestie and I were hanging out with a group of friends. One of our friends invited Debbie but I told our friend the issue we had but I didn’t tell her to uninvite her she did that on her own and made plans with her the next day.
So bridezilla saw the post and heard what I told my friend and told Debbie about it. And instead of going to me first, she went to my bestie and was so mad about my post and started talking shit about me. My bestie stood up for me and told her she didn’t see a problem with the post and that she was overreacting. My bestie told me what happened and I started crying and confronted bridezilla, I was like “are you upset with me? How come I had to hear from my bestie that you had a problem with my post when you could’ve easily came to me first so I would’ve deleted my post and apologized?” And she started saying “my fiancé saw it and showed it to her, he’s very mad at you. And I told her what you said to your friend.” So then I was like “so why didn’t you come to me first like an adult? All of this would be avoided.” And she ignored me and my bestie for the rest of the day.
Until the next day, her BITCH OF HONOR! Messaged us in the groupchat saying “on bridezillas behalf due do drama you guys are no longer involved in the wedding, and you’re not allowed to even be invited”. First of all, I would rather hear this from the bride, just shows how much of a pussy she is. I have lost all of the respect I have for her. Second of all, bridezilla and Debbie started all of the drama. I get that Debbie is family now, but Debbie treats bridezilla like shit and I know bridezilla HATES Debbie and the only reason why she puts up with her is because she’s with her fiancé.
So my bestie and I put your 2 cents in, I explained my side of the story and apologized to her bitch of honor for having to get involved in the high school drama that bridezilla has created.
The bitch of honor has the audacity to start manipulating my bestie and I. Bringing up her and bridezillas health issues (they both have the same medical issues) saying “do you have no idea how hard it is for someone to have said health issues and being pregnant? I am a single mother and it was very difficult for me. She said that all you guys do is bring stress to her and is afraid that she’s gonna lose the baby.” OKAY AND? How is that related to the Fucking main issue??????????? I know manipulation when I fucking see it. And then I brought up how my bestie WENT OUT OF HER OWN WAY AND MONEY TO THROW BRIDEZILLA A GRADUATION PARTY FOR GRADUATING COLLEGE and that I mentioned I was there for her when she got out of that toxic relationship and the bitch of honor was like. “I GAVE HER A HOME!” And I’m like “WELL GOOD FOR YOU, I COULDNT BECAUSE SHE LIVED IN A DIFFERENT STATE AT THE TIME!!” She was being so irrelevant and I got pissed of and blocked bridezilla, and her bitch of honor, and her chump husband, and Debbie and Debbie’s chump husband.
And bridezilla still owes my bestie $300 (for her dress and the bachelorette because she was short $100) and she owes me $40 for my dress because I didn’t buy that dress to only wear once and not being able to wear it. And if she doesn’t pay up soon my bestie is thinking about going to small claims court.
And yesterday I saw bridezilla and her chump husband in the Walmart parking lot and her being the little bitch that she is, saw me and walked the other direction. Just shows how much of a fucking clown that she is 🤡.
Also I was told that my bestie and I aren’t the only people she screwed over, she got mad at one of my friends for not inviting her to her birthday party.
So my bestie, her husband, my other bestie, and I threw an anti wedding party on the day of bridezillas wedding. And bridezilla blocked me on Instagram but o heard from my bestie that on her story as she was cutting the cake they did the gender reveal party (cheesy I know) and bridezilla didn’t even pay attention so she asked what the gender was and it’s a boy and she was like “oh okay” and wasn’t even excited about it.
And bridezilla was hitting on my besties husband best man at their wedding. And was saying inappropriate things to him, which doesn’t surprise me cause she was open about her cheating on her ex.
So long story short, bridezilla is a bitch stuck in high school. And my bestie and I are the adults lmao.
