i understand that it is hard to switch pronouns when u arent used to it but if you have a friend who comes out as trans please try your hardest to avoid misgendering them being misgendered can be so exhausting & can have such negative effects on trans people’s mental health please try your hardest to get our pronouns right
Just to add, and it’s important. If they are out to friends they might not be out to family. In which case you might need to use deadname and wrong pronouns. This is to avoid them being at risk of abuse from family members or even some professionals (teachers for example). If your trans friend says I am out to you guys but not these people, please for the love of Gods be careful when using their name and right pronouns vs using the deadname and former pronouns.
Don’t put people at risk, and always respect what they ask for.















