WickedWhims v176b
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WickedWhims v176b
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it’s autism acceptance week!! some information and reminders for our non autistic allies:
- autism speaks is horrendously harmful to the autistic community. I won’t go into it here but research it if you’re curious!! don’t support them or donate to them.
- “light it up blue” and the puzzle piece symbol are both disliked by the majority of autistic people, as they were both coined by autism speaks as well as the ironic fact that blue lights can be extremely unpleasant and painful to autistic people with sensory issues. The puzzle piece implies that we are a puzzle to be solved, which removes agency from autistic people and is generally hurtful and disheartening.
-autism acceptance week > autism awareness week!! this one doesn’t need too much explanation, acceptance is always better than just awareness (:
- better symbols to show your support include the rainbow infinity symbol!! this symbol was coined by neurodivergent people and is a much more appropriate and appreciated choice than the puzzle piece.
- asperger’s is a term a lot of autistic people are trying to phase out of language used for ourselves, as it was coined by a nazi and has roots in eugenics.
- high functioning and low functioning are also labels we are trying to get rid of as they remove agency from autistic people with high needs and diminish the chance of accommodations for low need autistics. (low needs is the new high functioning and high needs is the new low functioning!!) these new labels address the needs of autistic people without referencing functioning abilities, which are often arbitrary as our needs are more important than our ability to process things (:
- autistic people are sexy and awesome and deserve your patience, respect, and support!! want to show your support in the little ways? ask your autistic friend questions about their special interest(s) or hyperfixations!! try to up your use of tone tags, as they’re necessary to many autistic people. and just be normal about us!! dont act like we’re special or more worthy of attention than others, and don’t ignore us or throw us under the bus. happy autism acceptance week!!
please reblog to share this so it reaches more people (:
MC Command Center 2023.1.1 is out!
MCCC 2023.1.1 is out! This is a hotfix version fixing all the known issues we’ve found so far with 2023.1.0 with EA’s Growing Together update released March 14th. There may be some other hotfixes coming in the next several days if any other critical issues are discovered.
The MCCC Discord server links are below:
General Support - Support for other mods or just general Q&A.
General Support (Sims After Dark) - Alternate support for other mods or general Q&A
MCCC Support - MCCC errors and questions
Error Support- Last Exception questions
Compatibility:
This has been tested to be working with (but does not require) GTW, OR, Get Together, Dine Out, City Life, Vampires, Parenthood, Cats & Dogs, Jungle Adventures, Seasons, Get Famous, Strangeville, Island Living, Realm of Magic, Discover University, Eco Living, Journey to Batuu, Snowy Escape, Cottage Living, Werewolves, High School Years, Growing Together and the patch released March 14, 2023 - PC: 1.96.365.1030 / Mac: 1.96.365.1230. It will also work with anything after that Sims 4 update unless otherwise specified on Tumblr/Patreon posts I make after the update. Earlier Sims 4 versions may not be compatible, so we often do not support anything below the specified version here!
The legacy version of Sims 4 will now, and forever, use MCCC version 6.6.0, which can be found on Patreon and on my website.
DOWNLOAD HERE:
MC Command Center - All Modules Version 2023.1.1
MC Woohoo - Version 2023.1.1 (optional if MC Woohoo features are wanted)
A non-exhaustive list of the ways autistic people may show empathy even though we are assumed to not have it.
Are these exclusive to autistic people? No, not at all, we're just more often pathologized for them.
If I'm in a relationship with someone who does this, does that mean I just have to suck it up even if it doesn't work for me? No, it doesn't, but you do probably have some adjusting to do. You'll need to treat it as a mutual miscommunication instead of something it's all on the autistic (or ADHD, or whatever) person to fix. You'll have to change some of your expectations and get comfortable asking for (and explaining) the show of empathy you need - and you may even find out that the way you show empathy isn't working so great for them either. 😉
[Image description: AUTISTIC EMPATHY CAN LOOK LIKE… - Infographic by Autball.
White translucent boxes with black lettering inside on a magenta to purple diagonal gradient. The first four boxes read: (1) I’ve been through something similar, so maybe sharing my story will help; (2) Ooh, I know how to fix that! Maybe helping them solve their problem will make them feel better; (3) Oh man, now I have big feelings too! I just feel this so much!; (4) My favorite thing always calms me down, so maybe it’ll help them too. I’ll ask them to do it with me. These four are grouped together with a blue line and labeled: Misinterpreted as “Making it All About You.”
The next four boxes read: (5) I’m not sure how to help, so I’ll leave it to that person who looks like they do; (6) When I’m upset or overwhelmed, I prefer to be left alone, so I’ll bet they would like the same; (7) If I get involved, I’m gonna become overwhelmed myself, and that will take attention from them, so it’s best to just stay out of it; (8) I’m not sure how to help, and I usually make it worse when I try but get it wrong, so it’ll be better for everyone if I just do nothing. These four are grouped together with a blue line and labeled: Misinterpreted as Cold and Uncaring.
At the bottom is one last sentence, in white bold lettering, that reads, “Just because we don’t show it the same doesn’t mean we don’t feel it.”]
i am begging you all to stop treating this site like instagram if you dont want it to be content free by next year
actually i'm reblogging this again with commentary, fuck it.
There's people in the notes talking about "not basing your worth off numbers", and like. that isn't what this post is about. It's not a threat, either, it's a comment on how this site works, at a mechanical level.
Likes are worthless. Let me say that again.
Likes. Are. Worthless.
They don't do anything. They're a bookmark. They were never part of how tumblr works - in the early days we didn't even have a like button, and the site still more or less acts as though we don't. They're personal bookmarks and the only people who "get" anything from them are you (you bookmark the post) and the OP (maybe a very slight serotonin boost), but they don't keep the post in circulation, they don't keep it alive.
Without reblogs, a post will be dead in the water within an hour. No matter how good it is, no matter how many hours of painstaking love and attention its creator put into it, it will be dead within an hour and never seen again. It gets pushed down the dashboard and nobody aside from the followers who were online when it was posted will see it. And there's a huge difference in engagement on posts that get even one lucky reblog from someone with wider reach - that one reblog shows your post to five, ten, fifteen other people, and if one of those people also reblogs it, and so on and so forth, that's how posts stay alive and in circulation. It's like a contagion, but we're sharing creativity instead of disease.
And that matters. That "lifespan" of the post matters, artists and writers give up on this site and go to sites where posts have longer lifespans because it sucks to spend hours of your life, maybe even days, to get two notes and some fucking pocket lint for your efforts. We create for ourselves, but we share because we want people to see it, because that engagement offers positive feedback and encouragement to continue. But more than that, if every post (whether art, fic, gifset, whatever) is dying within an hour or a day of being posted, that means it's not making it onto your dashboard. And if it's not on your dashboard, you won't see it. This kills the site, after a while. You stop seeing the posts, because nobody is putting them on your dashboard, because this site doesn't have an algorithm like twitter and insta's and it shouldn't, it's the last bastion of chronological timelines.
Forgive my giant fucking rant I am so tired right now and full of the plague but like stop acting like artists and writers are just being whiny little babies, or "threatening" to withhold our fucking work (you're not entitled to it! it's ours! if we get nothing out of sharing it we're well within our rights to keep it private!) when we say this site will dry up without reblogs. We're just stating facts.
also I’ve seen some people in the tags say ‘oh there have always been more likes on posts’ no there haven’t ????
these are posts from 2013, look at the ratio
not to sound like a nursing home resident but back then people know that the point of this site was to reblog things and share them, not to bury them away among your other 23k liked posts
On mobile, hold down the reblog button and swipe up to fast reblog
On desktop, press 'E' key and the reblog button to fast reblog
If you can't be bothered adding something to the post
On mobile, hold down
the reblog button and swipe
up to fast reblog
Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.
Something I made while dealing with my own stuff and hoping drawing this would pick me up somehow. Maybe it worked.
FT my cat. His name is Mischief
Victorian Visions I: A Mini Collection
Hello, all! It's finally here - the first of ?? late Victorian sets inspired by the years 1897-1898. I apologize for the awful preview pic, but I just do not have the time to properly stage and pose at the moment. I simply wanted to release this set, now that it's finally done! Details on the EIGHT NEW MESHES below the cut!
Download (Free on Patreon)
Since Dream Home Decorator realeased its trailer and I put my eyes on those modular cubbies, I fell in love. All the possibilities, all the shapes we could build them… I really love modular furnitures! However the lack of options that was given to us was a bit disappointed. It was not a surprise, but still disappointed. So I decided to do this addon.
More details under the cut.
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IT'S FINALLY HEEEREEEE! Lestat's Lover is a masc frame set (though most pieces will also fit the fem frame) inspired by vampiric and historic fashion with some spice.
All the pieces have a bunch of different beautiful swatches (btw I've added some more swatches so I advise my testers to redownload if they want em). They also have normal and specular maps. The Skull earrings have two versions with two different fits for the ear. There are also two version of the Enchained top; one using the bg nude top, one using @luumia 's BOD-E II lean. The accs lace top can be found in right wrist. Fantom mask is found in hats.
Thank you very much to my testers: @ladykendalsims @ice-creamforbreakfast @slythersim @simandy @magnoliapromenadegalleria @harinezumi-sims @aniraklova
CC-rebloggers (hehe thank youu): @faaeish @maxismatchccworld @mmfinds @softpinefinds
DOWNLOAD (free on patreon)
Anyway if you’re from the US and you ever wanted to know what tumblr feels like from a non-USAmerican perspective (please note that the rest of the world is not a monolith either and none of these apply without exception):
Everybody’s talking about brands and stores you’ve never seen in real life. You generally assume they exist, but they might as well be one giant prank the rest of the internet is in on.
You find a post that just sounds wrong. It makes no sense. It’s like OP lives in a weird alternate reality. 9/10 times, it’s just some USAmerican Thing.
You’re still not entirely sure how much an inch is. Or a foot. Or even how many of the former there are in the latter. You maybe know your height in feet and inches.
You have no idea how much a pound is. You’d also like to know how the fuck pound shortens to lbs.
What the fuck is “military time”
Somebody talks about some legal process or something similar. They don’t mention which country’s legal system this pertains to. You know anyway.
People talk about politics. None of it pertains to you. Many posts contain guilt tripping. “How can you not care about this?? Why won’t you reblog this?? People need to know this about x candidate for y position!” You’re busy trying to stay on top of the political landscape in your own country.
You pick up some random slang from the internet. Monkey see monkey do. You’re called racist. You didn’t know it was AAVE. You learnt it from black letters on white background, not from the mouths of people whose faces you could see. How would you have known? You try to unlearn it.
People tell you that you must publicly denounce Chick-fil-A or you’re homophobic. You don’t even know what a Chick-fil-A is.
People say you don’t know LGBTQ+ history. What they mean is you don’t know USAmerican LGBTQ+ history. Nobody cares about your country’s history.
You’re “called out” on using an “offensive” term. It’s (a direct translation of) a completely harmless word where you live.
People expect you to have an idea of how far apart 2 USAmerican states are. You barely know geography past your country’s immediate neighbors.
You randomly switch between British and American spellings. Nothing’s real and there are no rules.
People talk about multiple hour car rides and you get twitchy just thinking about it. You suddenly understand why USAmerican cars are so big.
Somebody talks about school shooting drills. You only ever had fire alarm drills.
You see a cool statistic. The study’s only about the US. It’s unfortunately of no use to you.
People misuse/misspell words and names from your native language. It’s tiring.
(You feel sorry for the French. Nobody should be allowed to mangle the word déjà vu like that.)
You’re still not over the fact that USAmerican school children are supposed to say that pledge thing every morning. You’re never getting over that.
You still don’t know why the men are fresh or what the fuck a sophomore is.
Who the fuck pays up first and then fills up gas??? That’s made up, right??
Everybody has a weird obsession with some comfort food you’d never even heard of before you signed up here.
Fellow non-USAmericans, please add anything else you can think of.
- talks about “classic literature” that “absolutely everyone has read, if not in which cave are you living”. You’ve never heard of the author or the book.
The whole list minus the road trip one
Studio updates for My Wedding Stories
Both Windows and Mac versions are updated. The update includes a few minor bug fixes (details in the notes).
Choose your version to download HERE.
MC Command Center 2022.1.1 is out!
The newest public release for MCCC/MC Woohoo is 2022.1.1.
MCCC 2022.1.1 is a small hotfix to 2022.1.0 dealing with the new romance move-in feature. I missed adding a limit to prevent ghosts from being valid to move-in so we were seeing that happen in some games. If you are going to use the new feature, I’d recommend getting the hotfix version!
Full change log for 2022.1.1 is here.
Installation instructions can be found here.
Troubleshooting can be found here.
The MCCC Discord server links are below:
General Support - Support for other mods or just general Q&A.
General Support (Sims After Dark) - Alternate support for other mods or general Q&A
MCCC Support - MCCC errors and questions
Error Support- Last Exception questions
Compatibility:
This has been tested to be working with (but does not require) GTW, OR, Get Together, Dine Out, City Life, Vampires, Parenthood, Cats & Dogs, Jungle Adventures, Seasons, Get Famous, Strangeville, Island Living, Realm of Magic, Discover University, Eco Living, Journey to Batuu, Snowy Escape, Cottage Living and the patch released February 15, 2022 - PC: 1.84.171.1030 / Mac: 1.84.171.1230. It will also work with anything after that Sims 4 update unless otherwise specified on Tumblr/Patreon posts I make after the update. Earlier Sims 4 versions may not be compatible so we often do not support anything below the specified version here!
The legacy version of Sims 4 will now, and forever, use MCCC version 6.6.0, which can be found here in Patreon on an earlier post and on my website.
DOWNLOAD HERE:
MC Command Center - All Modules Version 2022.1.1
MC Woohoo - Version 2022.1.1 (optional if MC Woohoo features are wanted)
ALL TRANSLATIONS AVAILABLE FOR 2022.1.1 CURRENTLY INCLUDE:
Spanish - Thanks, LeRoiDeTout!
Japanese - Thanks, Halapeco!
Czech - Thanks, Xeria!
Polish - Thanks, OnlyBroken!
German - Thanks, Bonxie!
Russian - Thanks, KuriXarya!
Swedish - Thanks, Namelessperson98!
Italian - Thanks, Absurdlyevil!
Dutch - Thanks, ParfaitNoir!
Chinese - Thanks, Egureh!
Portuguese - Thanks, Bichon2057!
This is a set consisting of 12 new items!! I hope you'll enjoy them very much and have a very merry Christmas!
None of these pieces are perfect but here are most noticeable imperfections:
the ring doesn't work with kijiko's skindetail eyelashes!
The dresses may show lines in cas, but there should be no lines in game.
The weights and sliders aren't completely perfect like if you go for extremely small boobs the bows on Edith gets swallowed up.
There may be some clipping with the sheer parts and the skin
The veil, since it's so long, may look funky when walking.
All cc has specular and normal maps (accs don't have normal maps) All pieces have a number of different pretty swatches, but Carol tops them all and has +60 so have fun with that!
Thank you so much to my testers - especially during this busy Christmas season: @trillyke @dbasiasimbr @joliebean @berie @rosymiel
CC-finds etc: @wcifsareclosed @wifemomsimmer @maxismatchccworld @cyberess @unasyns-finds @warmfinds @mmfinds @cubersimsccfinds @troublefind @softpinefinds
DOWNLOAD
ps. I'll update my cc page later
CONFESSION:
I discovered bardcore on youtube during the pandemic and while I know it will never happen I'd love to hear medieval versions of modern songs playing at the tavern or brothel. I just think it would be hilarious.
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The Senile Scribbles: Skyrim Parody (THE COLLECTION)
Y'know what, fuck this bullshit. I need to know y'all are actually against it.
Reblog this if you will NOT use or support Post+.
I hope to make @staff see how that is total bullshit. Tumblr will die without writers/creators.