hi. call me scarlet or chloe. it/she pronouns only.
first, things to know:
my positionality: i am a transsexual woman living in canada. i am a lesbian. i am autistic, i have adhd, severe anxiety, severe depression, dysgraphia, and cptsd. i am white, fat, in my 20s, and as able-bodied as i really can be with all the shit i've got going on.
if you they/them me or otherwise degender me expect me to just block you. i do not have the patience for it anymore.
i do not like men in the slightest. if you're a man and i haven't actively made the decision to follow you or interact with your posts, leave me alone or i'll just block you. do not tag my posts with men, do not expect me to coddle men, etc. men suck and i'm not going to be quiet about it for you.
should be obvious but i don't tolerate twerf shit, mra shit, nazi shit, etc. get your hateful bile away from my fucking space.
if i blocked you (which is a thing i do very liberally to curate my space and do not need your permission for), it was probably because you were red on shinigami eyes, leading me to check your page, search maybe like three terms, and immediately understand why you were red on shinigami eyes.
more info below.
will put more info here as i think of things.
i might be intersex (no diagnosis afaik, i do not know what i am, but my development was not exactly normal. might talk about this in future. treat me as perisex for the time being idc)
i might also be plural. (again, no diagnosis and i'm unsure. things feel very segmented. no amnesia, if there are switches they're triggered by my needs in any given social situation and at the very least *feel* seamless. all i know is that different parts of myself feel unsuited to specific tasks and there's a visceral feeling of need for a more suitable one to jump in whenever needed. they all need to be part of my presentation at once, and i don't think it's as simple as code switching or a woman having multitudes or something. again, treat me as if i'm a singlet. i do not think it makes a major difference for me either way.)
i don't list my exact age publicly, both for privacy reasons and for "this information isn't useful to either of us and can really only be used to hurt me" reasons. due to multiple developmental disabilities, i lagged behind my peers in every aspect, and due to some fun and flirty traumatic events, i'm more than a little emotionally stunted. i often talk in a way that sounds much younger than the way i've been talking here. like, upwards of 10 years younger young. back in high school, they made me see a psych who told me my executive functioning was on a similar level of that of a typical 7 year old. might have improved since then, but i'm not eager to go through that whole dehumanizing eval process again to find out. try not to take this as permission to infantilize me. i deserve love, i can consent, and if any of my partners isn't completely sure if i'm up for something, making sure is very easy.
please feel free to follow, message, etc. i like talking with people, am open to doing cute shit with cute girls, and i'm a lot less intense and a lottt cuter when talking about less serious things than i find myself talking about here.
translation: i fucking hate trans women specifically but i cant say that so ima say essentially "males" except slyly make it obvious i dont mean cis men at all. teehee!!!
this the typa wording yall gotta be looking out for - TERFs will try to bend shit but the core message remains the same
Dead serious I think a lot of the current state of affairs can be attributed to the fact that for some reason we stopped punching white supremacists as the default. Brief but glorious period of time in US culture where being publicly racist was met with ass beating by more than just Black folks.
Like I talk about being an Abolitionist a lot and believing in the intrinsic value of life/only seeing death/murder/etc. as an absolute last resort
However, to be clear, I am NOT a pacifist and in the words of Nina Simone, I ain’t bout to be non-violent honey.
They’re killing trans women, particularly Black trans women, as they always have and will keep doing in increasingly horrific ways. No amount of protests will keep us safe. Cops definitely ain’t gonna keep us safe - over in Philly they beat and arrested 15 people at a pride event in the Gayborhood while the “official” city pride event was apparently costing $10 per person minimum.
They’re abducting racialized people off the streets and occupying entire US cities like DC and Memphis with the explicit goal of disappearing as many of us as they can, regardless of “citizenship”, visas, or anything else.
Black people are being actively lynched. Black CHILDREN in particular have been found lynched after being “missing”. I can literally go on Twitter or Facebook for less than a minute and discover a new lynching or murder of a trans woman.
We are especially being taken when we are alone, when others leave us alone, when others do nothing.
We have to be willing to protect ourselves and each other if and when needed. We need to get a lot more comfortable with ACTION not just words, with not turning away when we see something happening before we get caught up in it.
Will the person you saw and turned away from go missing?
Will they be dead next, or worse?
Even if you can’t stop it, can you get their name? Can you record it? Find their families?
It cant just be us fighting always, especially as things get worse. You have to start moving too.
Punch a white supremacist, but don’t let it stop there. Don’t keep turning away just because it’s hard. You have to be willing to act.
The statement "nobody should be punished because of their politics" is an objectively correct statement." But, 'politics' is stuff like "we should increase taxes on cigarettes and use the funding to expand the commuter rail service," not "trans people should have their healthcare taken away so they die a slow painful death."
the idea of laura palmer is haunting because she's a woman suffering and people know she's suffering and don't do anything and then when she dies they make her into a saint and grieve her because she was too young to have gone through all that suffering like it's truly about how women's pain is only put in evidence when it's too late
like it's how now there are countless articles going "we have failed [female celebrity who went through an international smear campaign after coming forward with the abuse she suffered through the hands of a respected man in society]" and it's like no we didn't! you did! you made a spectacle of her suffering and you mocked her and made people hate her for her suffering and called her a liar and an abuser and a criminal for not being a perfect victim! it's too late to apologize for not supporting and helping and believing women who are suffering when you didn't take her seriously when she needed your help! it's too late to cry at her funeral when you're complicit in her downfall!!!!
im so bunny 🐇 im so rabbits 🐇 im hopping im sniffing ive mastered the binky watch me wash my soft ears im in my flop era (smug) its a baby 🍼 babbit 🐇 world 🌐 lets all eat our greens 🥬 and bunny on forever 🌈
hii everyone, puppet back again. that was fun while it lasted! please reblog to help it keep going?
as always, its a homeless and disabled trans woman living purely off tumblr donations as they keep terminating it. paypal here if you can help.. anythings appreciated.
reblog to take an egg and spread it around. puppet loves you ^^
wizard watching a witch get burned at the stake: anyone else feel like there’s a lot of wizard erasure? wizards just don’t have as much visibility in society as witches. i’ve decided to call this phenomenon magicandrophobia.
the struggle for bodily autonomy over sexed characteristics would be a lot stronger if cis women did not exceptionalize their own healthcare needs as fundamentally different and more important than trans people's.
cis women's fight is part of our larger fight, but too many do not want to make these connections. a cis woman will fight for the right to abortion, hormonal birth control, labor protections against discrimination for pregnancy, etc. as an entirely disconnected struggles from access to other gendered surgeries, hormonal treatments, and labor protections against gendered discrimination. but they are not disconnected.
this perceived separation between these struggles is only in one direction. for example, the disparity between the percent of trans people who openly defend the right of cis girls accessing abortion at any age without needing parental consent (almost all of us) and the percent of cis women who defend the right of trans kids accessing transition care at any age without needing parental consent is stark. and that is very depressing to me.
whenever I draw obvious parallels, I get notes from cis women telling me how disgusting it is to compare our healthcare to theirs. they tell me in a variety of ways that their politically controversial gendered healthcare needs are obviously legitimate, unlike ours.
but all of our healthcare is getting criminalized and dismantled. you talk to a reactionary and they do not believe your healthcare is a legitimate need either. they also say cis women who get abortions are selfish, sex-obsessed, and a danger to children. this is the same fight and too many cis women refuse to acknowledge it.
whenever I see posts talking about defending pregnant women (not people, but women) the notes are full of transphobic cis women. I saw one the other day where a USian in the notes was saying "this is why women become republicans, because at least the right respects pregnant women." do they? how is that alliance going?
I want cis women to understand that the struggle for bodily autonomy over sexed characteristics is one struggle. insisting on this rhetorical distinction between us is a reactionary move. it calls people with regressive gender politics to your side even if you do not intend for that to happen. it reproduces the conditions that are currently stripping you of your rights, too.
what would it take for you to accept the solidarity trans people are already extending to you? what would it take for you to actually hold solidarity with us?
I saw this when running newpipe. But wait, it gets deeper. I clicked on the details buttons and it said as of today, we have 83 days left until Google rolls out this new requirement for apps inside and outside of the google play store. If any developer disagrees with their new terms and fees, they will be blocked!
I'll share some of the info below:
Looks like they're trying to nuke the remaining privacy and freedoms we have left on the internet.
What to do?
-Get your developer friends to not comply to their new guides
- Sign the open letter on the site and take action by checking out the full resources list on their website as well!
To summarize, this is all daunting especially when you feel all alone with unfair and inhumane regulations comming out faster than improvements but we got this working together!
Share the link with your friends, family and anyone who will listen!
Your phone is about to stop being yours. In September 2026, Google will block every Android app whose developer hasn't registered with them.
