Romantic orientation master list
Abroromantic - Is someone who experiences a fluid or rapidly changing romantic attraction to different gender expressions.
Acoromantic - Is someone whose negative experiences with romance has alienated them from their allo-romanticism.
Adfecturomantic/Affecturomantic/Adfectual/Adfomantic - Is someone whose romantic attraction is affected by their neurodivergency.
Alloromantic/Zedromantic - Is someone who experiences romantic attraction to other people. Also commonly just called a “romantic person.”
Alterous - Is someone who can’t be described as neither being (entirely/completely) platonic nor romantic, & is an attraction best described as wanting emotional closeness without necessarily being (at all or entirely) platonic &/or romantic, & is used in the place of -romantic or -platonic (so say bi-alterous instead of bi-romantic).
Someone can be both alterous & romantic &/or platonic & can have varying degrees on attraction, ultimately feel discomfort / unease / or just a sense of inaccuracy in calling it wholly romantic or platonic.
Androalterous/Manalterous* - Alterous attraction to men and/or masculinity
Gynealterous/ Womanalterous* - Alterous attraction to women and/or feminity
Panalterous - Alterous attraction towards people regardles of sex and gender
Polyalterous - Alterous atraction towards people of more than one multiple sexes and gender, yet not all.
Heteroalterous - Alterous attraction towards the oposite sex or gender
Androromantic - Is someone who is romantically attracted to masculinity, the male sex and male identifying/presenting people.
Apathromantic (The root word being Apathy) - Is someone whose orientation form of “romance indifferent” which can also be used as a title. It does not distinguish if the person does or does not have romantic attraction, but just that they are indifferent in receiving it or acting it out.
Apothiroromantic - Is someone who (also known as antiromantic, or romance repulsion) is an aromantic that does not experience any romantic attraction whatsoever, in any shape or form, and is romance-repulsed. They do not wish to be in any type of romantic relationship.
Apresromantic - Is someone who only experiences a romantic attraction after another form of attraction is felt. The original attraction may or may not fade/be replaced by the new attraction.
Aroflux - Is someone whose romantic orientation is on the aromantic spectrum & is defined as…..
someone who’s romantic orientation fluctuates but always stays on the aro spectrum. (ex. one day you’re demiro, another day lithro, the next aro, etc)
someone who’s romantic orientation fluctuates from, experiencing romantic attraction, some romantic attraticon, & experiencing no romantic attraction.
some people who are aroflux feel as if they are alloromantic at times, while other aroflux people don’t feel that way. aroflux people can be romance repulsed, romance indifferent / neutral/apathetic towards romance, or romance positive. & can have any sexual orientation.
Aromantic - Is someone who does not feel romantic attraction.
Arovague - Is someone whose status as an aromantic is uncertain or affected by mood.
Autochorisromantic/Aegoromantic - Is someone who enjoys the idea of romance, but not wishing to be a participant in romantic activities (based off of autochorissexual / a disconnection between oneself and a romantic target or fantasy).
Bellusromantic - Is someone who is fine with cute fluffy stuff with anyone but you dont want a relationship at all / not necessarily arospec identitiy, similar to nonamory. The prefix comes from the Italy “bella” meaning “pretty.”
Biromantic - Is someone who enjoys behavior typically associated with dating and love, like cuddling, hugging, gift-giving, love notes, but probably not kissing, etc. and enjoys it with both sexes or genders.
Borearomantic - Is someone who has a set romantic orientation but with an exception.
Burstromantic - Is someone whose romantic attraction comes and goes but does not specify if it has a reason or not.
Caedromantic - Is someone who used to experience romantic attractions, but no longer does due to past trauma.
Cupioromantic - Is someone who is described as aromantic (people who never experience romantic attraction) who still desire a romantic relationship. Is a subset of aromantic.
Demiromantic - Is someone who only experiences romantic attraction after developing an emotional connection beforehand. Demiromantics do not experience primary romantic attraction, but they are capable of secondary romantic attraction.
Frayromantic - Is someone who expperiences romantic attraction towards strangers and people you are less familiar with, which fades away when you get to know them more
Grayromantic - Is someone whose romantic orientation is somewhere between aromantic and romantic.
For example, a gray-romantic may:
Experience romantic attraction but not very often. But when so, it is usual strong attraction.
Experience romantic attraction, but not desire romantic relationships.
Also used as a catch-all for other non aromantic, non alloromantic/zedromantic orientations, like demiromantic and lithromantic.
Gyneromantic - Is someone who is romantically attracted to feminity, the female sex and female identifying/presenting people.
Heteroromantic - Is someone who is attracted to the oppostite sex or gender in a romantic way.
Homoromantic - Is someone who is attracted to the same sex or gender in a romantic way.
Hyporomantic - Hypo is from greek and means low. Quite the opposite of Hyper. And as Hyposexual mean low sex-drive, this is it’s romantic synonym. Low romantic drive.
Idemromantic - Is someone who does not internally experience romantic and platonic attraction differently; they distinguish between romantic and platonic based on other factors. “Idem” means “the same” in Latin.
Idemromantic people categorize their interest in others as romantic instead of platonic based on age, personality compatibility, emotional closeness, ease of living together, presence of sexual attraction, or other factors. However, their feelings toward their romantic interests would not be particularly distinguishable from platonic feelings and may be similar to how they feel for a best friend or beloved family member. They may pursue platonic, quasiplatonic, romantic, or no relationships.
Lithromantic/Aporomantic/Akoi(ne)romantic - Is someone who can feel a romantic attraction towards others and also enjoy romantic relationships in theory, but not needing that affection to be reciprocated or be in a relationship with the one the feelings are directed towards. Either that, or they may stop feeling the attraction once in a relationship or stop enjoying it.
Nebularomantic - Is someone who has a hard time or cannot tell romantic attraction apart from platonic due to being quoiroromantic or due to their neurodivergency.
Noviromantic - Is someone who experiences a complicated romantic attraction (or lack thereof) such that they do not feel it can be described in a single term
Omniaromantic - Is someone who feels no romantic attraction whatsoever. In no way, shape, or form do they fall in love or feel any attraction to anyone.
They are completely non-romantic, and will not fall in love no matter how long they stay with someone or any other factor that could/would lead to a romantic interest in any other type of aromantic or alloromantic relationships. They do not wish to be in any romantic relationships,are not attracted to anyone. (Excepting experimentation.)
They are asensual, have no aesthetic attraction to others, and no squishes. They can experience platonic love or familial love, though not all do so.
This term was made to made a distinguish between being on the aromantic spectrum and specify from the common definition of a aromantic person, since saying someone is “aromantic” could mean they could be demiromantic, gray-aromantic, and such other types of aromantics who do feel sensual, have aesthetic attraction and such.
Panromantic - Is someone who is romantically attracted to others but is not limited by the other’s sex or gender. Panromantics will tend to feel that their partner’s sex and/or gender does little to define their relationship.
Placioromantic - Is someone who feels little to no desire to receive sexual/romantic acts performed on them but expresses interest/desire in performing them on someone else. Not necessarily arospec, but a useful term for the community. The prefix for this term comes from the Latin word “placere” meaning “to please.”
Polyromantic - Is someone who experiences romantic attraction towards people of more than one sex or gender, but not all. Unlike panromantic, this term implies that sex or gender is still a factor in attraction, and it does not imply the gender binary as biromantic does.
Post rubor - Is someone who quickly gets crushes/squishes/etc on others, but after the initial excitement of said crush/etc vanishes so do their feelings.
Proquuromantic - Is someone masculine who only experiences romantic attractions to those percieved as aslo being masculine.
Quasiromantic - Is someone who identifies as quasiromantic may see their attraction as non-traditional or may feel it differs from crushes, perhaps a mix between platonic, romantic, aesthetic, or somewhere completely different and/or it involves other non-traditional aspects, such as rare attraction, or attraction but non-physical, non-platonic but romantic, etc.
Queerplatonic - A queerplatonic relationship is a relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection beyond what most people consider friendship. The commitment level in a queerplatonic relationship is often considered to be similar to that of a romantic relationship. People in a queerplatonic relationship may be of any romantic or sexual orientation. It may include any romantic or sexual elements the people in the relationship feel they want, or none at all.
Quoiromantic - Is someone whose romantic orientation is on the aromantic spectrum that describes people who cannot differentiate between platonic and romantic attraction, cannot define romantic attraction and therefore are not sure if they experience it, experience attraction somewhere between romantic and platonic, or want to be in a queerplatonic relationship. It’s also known as WTFromantic or Whatromantic or Platoniromantic.
Recipromantic - Is someone who only feels romantic attraction only if the other person feels romantic attraction to them at first. If there is no one around to feel romantic attraction to them, largely recipromantics may feel like simply definining themself as aromantic describes their experiences just fine.
Requi(es)romantic - Is someone who feels little to no romantic attraction due to some mental or emotional exhaustion, the exhaustions might have been caused by bad experiences of romance during that person’s history.
Sapioromantic - Is someone who is attracted to intelligence or human minds.
Schromantic - Is someone who is aromantic and romantic at the same time, or some mix of the two. (A term used here on AVEN)
(describing romanticism in terms of Schrödinger’s cat as having the possibility of being romantic and aromantic at the same time).
Skolioromantic - Is someone who experiences romantic attraction towards nonbinary genders.
Transromantic - Is someone who experiences romantic attraction to people that they perceive as being transgender.
Amatonormativity - A tendency of society to treat romantic relationships as more valuable than non-romantic ones.
Aromate - A platonic friend who’s pretty much your soulmate but in a friend way. you’d totally hold their hand and take them out to movies though. In other words Aromantic partner.
Lush - A sensual equivalent of a squish or crush.
Nonamory - Not wanting to form romantic relationships no matter one’s orientation.
Peach Fuzz - When people in queer platonic relationships pretend their partnership is a romantic one to stave off questions from family and friends.
Plush - Queer plantoic crush, strong desire to join in a qeer platonic relationship with someone.
Soft Romo - Low level romance/romantic attraction/crush/etc.
Smush - A sexual crush aka Lust.
Swish - An aesthetic crush.
Squish - In the asexual community, the equivalent of a “crush”, but explicitly lacking an interest in forming a romantic couple or having a sexual relationship with the person in question. It does not matter if they are “in a relationship”, as long as you two can have a deep connection. A squish is an intense feeling of attraction, liking, appreciation, admiration for a person you urgently want to get to know better and become close with. It is different from “just wanting to be friends” in that there is an intensity about it and a disproportionate sense of elation when they like and appreciate you back. ~From Urban Dictionary~
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