living a lonely life

because I´m not the kind of person that people fall in love with - what am I even doing

[bedupolker]

Supportive Pillow

[bowelfly]

happy shreween

[gayestcowboy]

this shit is the only remaining good part of twitter

[valtsv]

my favorite thing about the moomins is that their domestic cottagecore aesthetic is basically just a cover for the fact that they’re actually like 2 degrees of separation from going full feral at any one time and literally everyone knows it

[valtsv]

it runs in the family

[raudrfox-remaking-deactivated20]

[tyrannosaurus-rex]

thats just how finland is

[kokodrawings]

I think they're neat🍧

[screwingupmylife]

I really didn't want to cry on my birthday again, and here we are

[satanhaus-deactivated20220217]

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

[why-am-i-even-on-here]

Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

[josphitia]

Unlearning this is a bitch

[tigergirltail]

It is indeed a bitch, but it CAN be done and it is SO worth it.

[merlins-tits]

added to the miles-long list of things to work on with my therapist LOL

[enyafans4communism]

sorry my family didn’t teach me that i have a place among others so now i’m weird . sorry

[titsay]

[lifewithoutcosette-deactivated2]

[angelnumbers]

[heavensghost]

the hardest thing is when ur going through something terrible there is an awful middle phase of it when u don’t know if u can get through it or if you’ll ever be okay again and the truth is always you will get through it and you will absolutely be okay again but u just cant see it at the time

[handweavers]

who are you when you are not watching tv or movies? when you aren't playing video games or reading a book or fanfiction or listening to music or whatever other kind of media that you engage with? who are you when your mind isn't in another world or story, when you are forced to sit with yourself and the only experience you have is your own sensorial life? can you define yourself outside of what you consume? who is that person? do you like them? can you bear it? can you bear it?

[thereignclub-trc]

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

[screwingupmylife]

Why am I like this? Please, I just want to be anybody else

[screwingupmylife]

I hate myself so much, how can one person be so stupid?

[androidboy]

i have no object permanence about myself. if i’m not in anyones eye sight i assume i have ceased to be. finding out people remember i exist, think about me, and even talk about me when i’m not actively in front of them is startling news every time it is brought to my attention

[jb-blunk]

im getting out of here alive (my twenties)