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[pearldrop]

do I delete my blog or keep it. I haven't been here in months and I associate too much pain and baggage with it now... but I also still feel attached to it

[pearldrop]

moving to @seaglace I would love to keep my mutuals there too :3

[seaglace]

I made eye contact with Ethan Slater outside a theater on Friday and gave him the dirtiest look I could come up with. Like not only are you a disgusting cheating pig who abandoned your ex-wife, DOCTOR Lilly Jay (also ruined her career) and your NEWBORN baby (for ariana grande, a famous serial hit and run homewrecker lol) but you also tainted SpongeBob .

[angelwithabrowser]

playing with flowers is hard, 2006

[fleshfriend]

2005

[andletliveagain]

It’s kinda cool how someone can just pop into your life all of a sudden and become so important to you within such a small amount of time. I think that’s what makes life so interesting though. There’s always a reason to be hopeful for the future because you never know what good things will come your way next.

[marinolta]

boston, massachusetts, summer 1974

[eatpussypraylove]

Just imagine that it continuously gets better from here

[whyenn-reader]

''what if you regret it'' then you will expirience regret - a normal and unavoidable part of the human expirience.

[seaglace]

Never living with a white woman again. Biggest mistake of my life

[seaglace]

hello my beloved mutuals I need you all to PRAY for me to be able to secure housing in this really specific place I want to live in because I have reached my final straw with my rude bitch ass roommate and I think I NEED to leave. I cant take it anymore

[offshoreoilrig]

What jobs even exist

[fairycosmos]

sources are saying ohhhhhhhhh brother

[elokitties]

let’s all be grown women together❤️

[seaglace]

My 1 year breakup anniversary is on Sunday. From that point onwards I stop bringing up my ex. Forever.

[angelicdewdrop]

[stuckinapril]

No exaggeration but theeeee most critical lesson I learned in my 20s was letting go when it was time. It’s so cliche but it’s so true. I used to hold on so venomously to people, put on a tap dance for their approval, force relationships to last past their expiration date, carry the heavy lifting for reaching out because I didn’t want to feel “passive.” But when someone doesn’t want your effort it’s not about passivity. It’s literally about self respect, not wasting your time, and gravitating only to people who have your best interest in mind and celebrate you. I’ve met so many older people who don’t know how to let go and it truly scares me that this could easily be me. It’s better to develop this skill early than it is to spend an entire lifetime begging for love and belonging.

[stuckinapril]

Best brain hack is taking “this too shall pass” and applying it in the micro. The panic you feel from an argument with a friend, wanting to get on your phone when you should be studying, the absolute obsession with someone you’re crushing on, pain from rejection, utter hopelessness at a situation that is not entirely hopeless. Heavy on situations that induce panic and incentivize you to act out of turn, maybe to send a text you shouldn’t be sending or to blow up at someone or whatever it is. The antidote to knee jerk reactions is literally just “this too shall pass” and allowing yourself to feel the physical manifestation of your extreme emotion. Literally just ride it out. Even for things that can’t immediately be resolved, it makes such a big difference and prevents you from reacting in ways that you would undoubtedly regret down the line.