secretly-me

|| Sarah |24| she/her ||

[shed-some-light]

ok actually phrebrand badges canceled here's your hard launch badges.

[secretly-me]

Everyone is talking about Dan finally being able to be is authentic self but I haven’t seen anyone comment how absolutely at peace Phil seems in this video??? Like I know when they are in front of a camera there is always going to be an aspect of performance, but this video really felt different. I felt like this was a moment where i saw Phil as a normal human adult and not an entertainer. Like he was really there just supporting his boyfriend and being real and serious and proud.

[1dphanlarrie]

Me at work today

[buildoblivion]

average 25+ year old lesbian experience this morning

[secretly-me]

I have been watching Dan and Phil since I was 13 years old. THIRTEEN. as in 2012. Peak phan. I now teach Middle school children one year younger than myself when I started watching. I can not in any way diminish how important Dan and Phil were and are to my queer journey. To realizing and accepting I was not straight. I know this isn’t about me. I know that their relationship has nothing to do with me. But, there is something so so healing about hearing them be confident in themselves. I never thought this day would come, just like I never thought I would be healed enough to live with a queer partner (who also happens to be black and trans) and even attempt at being my authentic self with others. I still struggle so much to be confident in myself at work and with family. I just wish I could truly tell them how much they mean to me. Even if it is parasocial, they gave me a community who gave me a voice. A community that made me feel normal for the first time in my life. I wish my stepmom was alive so I could say I told you so.

[derek-has-imploded]

What do you mean I have to go to work this should be an international holiday

[femmelated]

[ducksoup17]

hey now that it’s disability pride month can you please remember to include people with Down syndrome and other chromosomal defects into your activism. they’re so often left behind. I literally never see anyone spreading Down syndrome awareness that isn’t close family of someone with Down syndrome. They exist and they’re living breathing humans who deserve just as much activism as every other disabled person

[thorinds]

1000 Books You May Have Actually Read

How many of these books listed you have you read?

1-15

16-30

31-45

46-60

61-75

76-90

91-105

106-120

121-135

136-150

151-175

More than 176

Voting ended onJun 12, 2024

[femmeidiot]

So many butches are shy sweet babies and I love that about them so much

[cop-disliker69]

[telltaletypist]

i can't wait until hilary or kamala or whoever wins and this comic absolutely explodes on here

[danielwaldorf]

thinking about that episode of the bold type where jane got a yoni egg stuck in her pussy and kat had to get it out because she was the one having a bisexual awakening and the whole time she's like processing her feelings about vaginas while jane is like can you please just get it out. that show ruled

[working-on-my-backwards-walk-de]

[isleofthings-deactivated2025042]

An excellent addition hiding in the tags

[uberfluss]

first 5 faceless emojis are how your summers gonna go

[thesebonesbite]

Magnus Archives fan I see

[partywithponies]

THIS IS SO FUNNY I'M SORRY

[honestlydarkprincess]

watching the percy jackson show be like

[percabethownsmybutt]

sally: percy, where’d you get that bruise?

percy: *flashback to walking into a pole while looking at his picture of annabeth*

percy: i’m in a gang, mom

[zooophagous]

I had a tattoo client ask if I ever used AI to design tattoos for me. Man I spent the better part of a decade doing shitty bit work as a graphic designer and now that I have the space to do whatever I want, I'm gonna let the computer generate random garbage for me? What next should I have a computer that eats my dinner and fucks my wife?

[zooophagous]

I feel like people get so hung up on the results of a thing that they don't appreciate that the process of making it is, actually, enjoyable.

It's like if you have a friend who likes to bake, asking if they'd like to just buy cupcakes from the store instead of making them. The end result of the cupcake is secondary to the joy you get from having made cupcakes.

Art isn't a slog or a chore or something I want to avoid. Art is fun. It's rewarding. It feels good to do it. You may as well be asking me if I want the AI to watch television for me, it doesn't make any sense, I'm not participating and would gain nothing from it.