Alright fuckers (affectionate)
I've been on tumblr since 2013 and now in the year 2025 have gone and made a kink blog
I'm fairly open about a lot of things, but I don't usually allow myself to feel sexy, indulge, or like... be hedonistic I guess. This is going to be the place where I can do that. My kinks are mine, and they're not for everyone. I am not making this blog to please anyone but myself, so if the vibes (yes those vibes too) aren't you, feel free to move along.
I'm in my 30s. If you're a minor, you are not welcome here, and blogs without ages that interact will be blocked. If you're a terf, an asshole, or pushy, you will be blocked, please leave me alone and I do not owe you anything not even a response. I will keep my asks and dms open but I'm shy as fuck.
I am bisexual, my pronouns are she/her, and I am in an ethically non-monogamous marriage. Currently, neither of us have other partners. We are both okay with the other playing with and having fun with others, as long as everyone's informed. I've gotten my heart broken too many times in the last few years, so I will not be pursuing any kind of long-term relationship.
I actually have a pretty low libido, so I might disappear for months until I get horny again. There's no rhyme or reason, but I took a strong birth control for a few years like a decade ago, and it literally never recovered to what it was before. I'm also reactive, so I don't think about it unless something or someone triggers that arousal.
I'll update later with my kinks once I've taken some of those tests
And I'll format this better so that it's got structure and isn't just a bunch of half thought out sentences, but I figure if I'm going to be reblogging, I should have a pinned post.
Even though I'm shy, I love "mail" and ask games, so feel free. I like to pretend I know how to be sexy and say sexy things, but this post is basically my real voice and what you read is what you get. I've spent too long trying to mold myself into what I think someone wants, desperately grasping for approval. No longer. I want to like me. If you don't like what I post, the exit is the back button, and fuck off.
~Syb














