Well, I finally broke down and made a horny blog. Welcome! It's nice to have you here. This is my pinned post, and I edit it whenever I feel it is beneficial to do so (last edited 18 November 2025).
I guess let's get the rough part out of the way first.
Do not interact:
Minors- this is an 18+ blog. Please leave immediately.
Terfs- get the fuck out. You will be blocked.
If you would judge someone for anything outside of their control - like race, gender, orientation, sexuality, nationality, etc. - then you're an asshole, and I don't want to talk to you.
About me:
I have a penis, and I use he/him pronouns. If you're very nice to me, there are others I may tell you are okay. Not cis, but not not my agab. You can check out my #eggposting tag for subtler stuff; I also have some more explicit descriptions under my #eigengenders tag (most in-depth explanation here).
I am bisexual, and I love all genders/genitalia. DMs are open for flirtation with other adults, so long as you understand that I'm not looking for a long-term monogamous partner at the moment. I'm also happy to talk academically about kink-related things.
I'm a top-leaning verse with an oral fixation.
I don't always do a great job of tagging things, but if there's anything in particular you'd like me to tag, let me know, and I'll make an effort.
Kinks and kinky preferences:
As my blog title says, I am a switch. I tend to default to submission online, since it's easier/more acceptable/less aggressive, but I do genuinely enjoy both.
Very much have a praise kink, both as a dom and as a sub. Love to be praised, and love to praise. Sometimes, it can be nice to mix in a little degradation, but only if we've agreed to it beforehand.
Bondage is lovely- I can think of very little more intimate than the act of tying someone up, or trusting them enough to be tied. Big into ropes, chains, cuffs, etc.
Hypnosis is cool- I've never been successfully put under, but I like it as a dom, and I like the concept as a sub.
I tend to prefer a gentle style of dominance for myself, but I can get rougher if you like- the trust involved in being asked for that is a huge turn on for me.
Not crazy about titles, but if I'm domming you, you can call me Sir, or Master. Please don't call me Daddy without asking first.
If you're domming me, I enjoy being a Good Boy (and, under the right circumstances, a Good Girl).
Here are some graphics of my kinks (section last updated 22 September 2024):
From https://bdsmtest.org
From https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/
Some elaboration on some of these results:
I'd be willing to wear heels for play only if we found them in my size- I have wide feet, which makes shoe shopping difficult, and I don't get enough out of cross-dressing myself to bother looking for them, but if that's your kink, I'll work to indulge you, as I have nothing against it.
Calling people Daddy/Mommy can be hot. Taking it further, to the point of age regression or incest roleplay, is not really my kink, but this is not a moral indictment against those who enjoy it. Live your freaky truth! I'm willing to try it in certain circumstances, if you ask nicely beforehand.
With respect to age, I wouldn't seek out someone too much younger, but I'm open to adult conversations with other adults. More willing to go older than younger, for what it's worth and I might have a fetish for hair that's starting to turn grey. You should be 18+ to follow, but there's not really an upper limit for me.
I will not be tickled. This is not open to negotiation.
I will not participate in cheating, even as roleplay. If you have a cuckold/cuckqueen fetish, this is not to shame you- it just isn't for me. I'm happy to join a couple for play, so long as the rp doesn't get too cucky.
I'm still figuring out my personal stance on polyamory/ethical non-monogamy. I'm certainly not looking for anything monogamous myself right now, but I've got some hang-ups from my upbringing that make it difficult to engage fully with the poly lifestyle. I'm reasonably confident that I'm some flavor of poly myself, but patience is appreciated as I work through this, either way. I'm usually down to have fun, though!
If you've made it this far, my asks (including anons if you're shy) and DMs are open. I hope you like it here!
Claimed anons: 🦇, 😇 (maybe), 🪼, 💮, ☕️, 💜, 🐝🌱, 🤍, 🐾
I post pictures with #tw: my body
