Whatever I Want

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[lilcowgirl7-deactivated20210223]

It’s not that you have issues…… it’s that you have a tendency to continue using instincts you picked up in childhood that are no longer useful to you on your journey towards achieving openness and intimacy and reliability in your personal relationships w others. It’s not that you’re defective or difficult or incapable it’s just that what you learned to do to save yourself from the experience of abandonment or rejection or ridicule or failure is not helpful here anymore and you need to start thinking creatively and collaborating on better ways to cope with that instrinsic fear that you are not correct, that you are faking, that you will be found out and left, whatever it is

[porcelaindollsprincess]

[ribb0ngirl]

creds: alli_xoxo4444

[pollywolly21]

like boi syfm

[4ngels4ever]

[delicatetrashdelusion]

[rosetylahinthetardis]

everyone would love me if I were an osemanverse character but instead i am real and it's pretty much caused me a lot of problems

[rabbiitsfoot]

I make sure to stay mysterious online just incase I ever find out that my neighbor (who's twin sister I had a crush on) is the creator of the podcast I've been obsessed with for the past two years.

[stqrdxst-xx]

[despazito]

unfortunately a lot of the corny self help advice turns out to be true but the thing is you have to come to those conclusions yourself otherwise it just sounds dismissive and dumb

[cdzen]

if i were attracted to someone i would ignore them and if someone were interested in me i would ignore them and if someone cute asked me out i would say no #myimpenetrablefortress

[theadhdgoblin]

[becherdireinen]

trust that everything will fall into place without you forcing it there.

[vexheart]

[angel-faggot]

need someone to match my freak and my unbearable romanticism

[askyea-poesy]

I want to be myself again. I want to be six. I want to stop knowing everything I know.

Catherynne M. Valente

[surqrised]

“Someday, someone is going to look at you with a light in their eyes you’ve never seen, they’ll look at you like you’re everything they’ve been looking for their entire lives. Wait for it.”

— Unknown