a succubus & a skeleton.

ella. 21. she/they. self-inserter & tired cashier. ao3 / twitter

[selfinsertsuccubus-blog]

i logged into this account by complete accident trying to find my rp blogs bUT while i’m here i made a person so if you wanna keep up w/ me, hmu @hirschmania

[warm-suggestions]

You are not a burden. People are there for you because they love you. You are not a burden. 

[niyarest]

people who complain about commission prices surely aren’t aware of the fact that not only art itself is considered a luxury, but it’s also custom made so like…. do the simple math

[shitpost-senpai]

Artist: Hey guys i need money! Commissions are open!

me:

Artist: Lineart:: $40, Fullbody: $60, Colored: $120

Me:

[spider-hands-mannos-deactivated]

Look man either pay them or learn art yourself to feed your fat fetish.

[dark-alleys]

bitch 40 for lineart should be the standard, art is a damn luxury and some of these artists need food

[shitpost-senpai]

@ whatever greyshades is these days, Like I said, they’re kids who don’t know how to haggle.

[tammdraws]

>Lineart - 2 hours for pencils, 1-2 hours for lines = 3 hours at $40

>$40/3(aprox) = $13/hr - paypal fees and bank transfer fees = 10/hr

>Colour - 2 hours for pencils, 1- 2 hours for lines, 3-6 hours for colour = aprox 9 hours at $120

>$120/9 = 13/hr - paypal fees and bank transfer fees = 10/hr

Art is an extremely specialised skillset that takes anywhere from 5-20 years to develop, costs around 500 minimum entry to be able to create digital art due to requiring a tablet and software, along with enough RAM to run high-layer drawings depending on your program. Thinking you have any reason or right to haggle with someone because you don’t like their prices is some entitled shit my friend. You don’t walk into an autoshop and try to barter with them for their hourly wage and their parts cost, why the fuck would you do it in something else? It’s capitalism, if you don’t like it, don’t buy it but don’t think you have a right to special treatment.

I guarantee you we’d charge hourly if that was a possible standard but because the industry has no standards peope have to charge what will sell and that is ultimately much lower than it really should. Especially considering most of us have standards against drawing furry mpreg vore.

[swedebeast]

People don’t realize just how cheap commissioned art online actually is. Most of the time you pay the artists minimum wage.

Just think about that for a second.

[the-dragonauts]

Where I live, that’s LESS than minimum wage

[narnia]

[princelymlm]

Gay culture is being just a little bit in love with all your friends

[fuocogo]

It’s what they deserve

[gayautismfeels]

Hey, friendly reminder that it’s okay to always be tired as an autistic person. Saying you’re tired because you’re autistic is totally okay, a lot of things in our world is harder and more taxing and more tiring. We have to deal with sensory overloads, meltdowns, anxiety and panic attacks, physical stimming, social interactions that aren’t always easy, and more. It’s okay to be tired. You don’t owe anyone a made up excuse, it’s totally okay.

[mikael-rusky]

The gods bless with this adorable cursing anime youtube Girl.

[benatars-partner]

Reminder

Your favorite characters love you, even if you don’t think so sometimes.

[wallace-and-gromit-deactivated2]

ai-chan played fnaf. cringe culture is over

she truly is a gift from the gods

thank you, kizuna ai-sama, for ending cringe culture

[jollixbae-deactivated20180724]

MOOD

[catshavefeelings]

Did I ever express my love for Kizuna Ai

[flyingpurplepizzaeater]

You don’t have to be grateful that it isn’t worse.

[voidbat]

read that. read it again, and again, and again. somebody, somewhere, always has it worse than you. there is one person on this planet that has it the worst of all, and that person is NOT the only person allowed to be unhappy with their lot. if things are bad for you, they are bad for you. period.

[biwomensupport]

This goes for trauma as well. A lot of times survivors get trapped in a cycle of  minimizing/diminishing their trauma because “other people have it worse” - but there is no hierarchy of trauma. There is no ranking system for which traumas are “better” or “worse.” Your trauma is valid. Period.

[gothiccharmschool]

IMPORTANT TRUTHS.

[lilbittydragon-deactivated20241]

As a therapist, lemme just say: almost every trauma survivor I’ve ever had has at some point said “But I didn’t have it as bad as some people” and then talked about how other types of trauma are worse. Even my most-traumatized, most-abused, most psychologically-injured clients say this. 

The ones who were cheated on, abandoned, and neglected say this. The ones who were in dangerous accidents/disasters say this. The ones who were horrifyingly sexually abused say this. The ones who were brutally beaten say this. The ones who were psychologically tortured for decades say this. What does that tell you? That one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care. 

Don’t buy into it, because it’s nonsense. It doesn’t matter if someone else had it “worse.” Every person who experiences a trauma deserves to get the attention and care they need to heal from it. 

[meeresfem]

“one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care.”

SO true.

[i-am-a-fish]

Also Agender and Aro!

[lilmamabeyellin]

hearing “I’m proud of you” from the right people is so comforting and motivating.

[rocket-sith]

Reblog if you write fic and people can inbox you random-ass questions about your stories, itemized number lists be damned.

[lilpicassa-deactivated20180724]

also being rude or mean for no reason isnt fuckingcute. idkwho told yall bitches that but yall ugly as fuck.