Celebrate your love

A blog dedicated to pride month for selfshippers! Show off your colors with us the whole month of June in a parade for all things LGBT+ related!

[kuroishinigami-moving]

Aro/Ace Shipper Pride Day 4: Aro/Ace headcanons

@no-romance-selfship-imagines + @selfship-pride

i hc reaper as biromantic ace!!! (and also trans)

bonus parent-in-law f/os bc theyre one of my strongest aro/ace hcs: aroace akira and ace arima!!!!!! 

[samtylerboyfriend]

writing my last lil thing for pride month, this is vaguely suggestive but nothing overt; just appreciation of masculinity etc etc.

@selfship-pride

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[fleur-de-lis-selfships]

Ah yes, Carla. The self-insert I've had since I was four years old. To say that he's gone through a lot of changes is an understatement. I started developing his actual, proper story when I was 10 and my life hasn't been the same since.

[fleur-de-lis-selfships]

I JUST NOW REALIZED I FORGOT TO TAG @selfship-pride

[nulls-aliens]

Halfway through Pride Month and I’ve still yet to make a list of my LGBT+ headcanons for my favorites so here go-

V (Romantic F/O) - Demisexual

Cyrus (QPR F/O) - Asexual Aromantic

Guzma (Romantic F/O) - Transgender and Pansexual

Hancock (Romantic F/O) - Transgender, Pansexual, Demiromantic

Valentine (Platonic F/O) - Asexual Biromantic

DiMa (Platonic F/O) - Asexual Demiromantic 

Ghetsis (Familial F/O) - Bisexual Aromantic

Vanta (Platonic F/O) - Canonically Agender and Asexual!

Extra (mostly OCs):

Danse (Romantic F/O) - Quoisexual

Chase (Familial F/O [OC]) - Transgender, Asexual, and Aromantic

Gray (Familial F/O [OC]) - Intersex, Asexual, and Aromantic

Chester (Familial F/O [OC]) - Bisexual

Itzel (Familial F/O [OC]) - Lesbian (Homoflexible)

Geulimja (Not necessarily a F/O but still an OC) - Heteroflexible, Aromantic

//tagging @selfship-pride

[selfship-pride]

Selfship Pride Spotlight: Sparkyboye

It’s that time again! This time we’ll be featuring our friend Caelum otherwise known as Sparkyboye! Make some noise for mint!

Caelum is a nonbinary, gay, arospec creator here on tumblr that has a knack for making kandi (that you can find here!) and very occasionally drawing (though not so much anymore!). Mint enjoys music (such as vocaloid and K-Pop). Mints really into Cookie Run, Pokemon, Webkinz, fashion, and mints F/O sources!! Mint’s also really nice and approachable with a lot of interesting things to say!

Caelum also has a really neat collection of 24 pronouns that can be found here! I highly recommend looking at them and giving them a whirl! The variety is nice! Be sure to give mint a follow and in ask mint some questions about mints F/Os <3 (who also have alternative pronouns !)

Under the cut you’ll find our interview!! Let’s see what mint has to say!

I should start by asking, What does pride mean to you and your selfships? Tell me more about how it comes into play in your lives!

Caelum: “okay !! for all of us its kinda a big part of our lives ig ? we're all trans n definitely not straight, so if we didn't show pride in any way itd feel to us like we're hidin a part of ourselves. for some showing too much it can cause dysphoria, which mostly happens w gakushuu, katsuki, n occasionally flick.

others like eijirou, denki, n izuku are all really open about being trans. in the way of our sexuality tho we all love showin pride about that !! overall pride is jus kinda,,, really important to us. we tend to get really into it, and the ones that don't get dragged into it hxtdbxjxg bam Loves dragging me n flick (and flick usually drags cj along too) to pride parades while w my other f/os we tend to jus celebrate alone,,, anyways i hope that makes sense hxgsbdh i ramble every time i talk abt them aaaaa”

It sounds like you're a really open bunch. I love it! What do you and your F/Os do to celebrate pride? What sort of things do you wear there? 

Caelum: “yea we try to be !!! as for what we wear at pride, it's all different things. im /massive/ into fashion so i tend to go all-out on my outfit, which definitely includes all my pride kandi.

i also got izuku into kandi, so bun tends to also wear all of buns pride kandi. as for the others tho, most of em dont get rlly into dressin up,,, so i usually dress em up hxtsbsjxg denki likes to wear skirts n stuff on their female days n they have a lot of petticoats so usually i make the ones that arent v outgoing wear them as tutus if theyre comfy. they all tend to be a mess (trying to get bam in anything that isnt sports gear or eijirou into anything that isnt crocs or cargo shorts is very difficult) but it fits all of us together tbh.”

What about the community has helped you express yourself (via your sexuality and gender identity)? 

Caelum: “mm i guess seeing other non-cishet self shippers ? i dont see a lot but which does make me sad, but the ones i do see make me feel rlly comfy here !! n seeing people share their headcanons too, esp since the ones i have mean a lot to me 👉🏻👈🏻 n self shipping in general really helps me figure out n come to terms w my gender n sexuality, n since i am Very Gay for all of my f/os it gives me a spot to show that lmao.”

To sign off, is there any sort of advice you give to selfshippers who are also struggling with their identity or sexuality? Also any last words!!

Caelum: :uhh dont b afraid to try out different labels n stuff ig ?? its almost guaranteed tht ur gon go through many labels, n thats okay !! n it's alright if u think ur something to the point where you're certain thats what you are, but smth changes and u realize u arent that !! just remember tht ur f/os love u jus the way u are, regardless of ur label !! also, dont let anyone tell you how to identify, whether u wan use really broad terms or multiple gender n sexuality labels like me, its all okay !!! :33″

Thank you so much to Caelum for coming out to speak with me! Mint was REALLY patient and I very much appreciate it!

[yumedanshi]

Uhhhhhh gay time

@selfship-art @selfship-pride

[my pronouns are xe/xyr]

[selfshippingshapeshifter]

My queerplatonic partners and I with our orientations for the @selfship-pride event!

[selfship-pride]

matchups??? im a 16 y/o bi person who likes em mysterious and just a lil (or a lot) bit evil. I'm teeny and awkward and love nothing more than writing poetry (and the thought of libraries)

HELLO. I 1006% MATCH YOU WITH V FROM Devil May Cry!!

mysterious lad that recites poetry?? sounds right up your alley!!

[gh0ul-k1ss3r]

wow get a room u guys

@selfship-pride happy pride month we r gay hfbfjd

[kaliships]

@selfship-pride a comprehensive analysis of my lovely girlfriend... definitely 100% accurate and unbiased

[limey-blue-arty-do]

our colour in each others lives~

in this month of Wrath Pride, allow yourselves some self-care and love

tagging @selfship-pride for Pride Month

[selfship-pride]

Hello! If you’re still doing match ups may I get one?? I love mischievous tricksters or the classic misunderstood bad boys. I’m 19 and I’m pansexual! Thank you for doing these!

OFC FRIEND!!!!

I’ll match you witthhhhhh.....Samatoki Aohitsugi! from Hypnosis Mic! He’s an angry boy and he’s apart of the Yakuza but hes just a dude that loves his sister a bunch!

[selfship-pride]

If youre not too overwhelmed with them, could i get a match up? I'm 21+, love men, and love grumpy and rude, maybe a little smug, older men who are usually morally dubious (bonus if they have glasses)...

HEY THERE!!! How about....!!

Something like Doppo Kunikida from Bungou Stray Dogs?? While he’s not an older guy per se, he acts like it.

[selfship-pride]

I wanna try out the matchup thing lol - I'm 20, tend to prefer guys and nonbinary folk over girls, and someone once described my type pretty accurately as that I "dug through the trash and picked the misunderstood dudes who probably need a hug and also therapy" (@nulls-aliens)

@nulls-aliens

I THINK I GOTCHA!!! I almost recommended this lad to someone else but decided against it!

How about Will Graham from Hannibal? He’s a good lad. He comes off as rude but he’s really misunderstood and pretty traumatized. His hyper-empathy really makes his life hard.

[selfship-pride]

Idk if you're still doing matchups, but im 14, pansexual, im very lazy but sometimes i get random bursts of energy. I like people who aree willing to respect me, cuddle me 24/7, and who are also very energetic.OH,,, also a food lover ( gender doesn't matter btw!! )

HELLO!!! SURE!!! I have a nice boi for you!!

Nagisa Hazuki from Iwatobi Swim club!!!! He’s all energy and he’s literally seen hugging people a lot. He’s a good GOOD boi.

[selfship-pride]

if you dont mind id love a matchup! 👀 im a bi enby (usually w a preference for men but im always open for ladies and enbies!) and i have,, plenty of types but my main one is smug & flirtatious characters~ -@nebumilkships

HELLO!! YES OF COURSE!!

I present to you Gin Ichimaru from Bleach!! He’s the smuggest bastard around.

[selfship-pride]

Sorry if matchups are closed rn but uhhh yeet. I'm an easily excited clueless lesbian who typically goes for more intelligent and stoic f/os!

can i just say you sound adorable?

ANYWHO!! I gift you with Olivia Armstrong from Full Metal Alchemist!! She’s a strong and smart lady with a commanding presence. She’s LOVELY.