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Pep, she/they, 26. Minors/ageless DNF - I check ages and block liberally. Sideblog.

[selfshippingpep]

I just want to make this clear real quick until I have my proper about/pinned ready.

This blog is proship-safe. Antis are not welcome here. Drama-mongering is not welcome here. This is a zero-tolerance policy. Good faith questions are welcome! Preaching, drama-mongering, insults, and threats will get you a permaban.

I know what I'm doing is something that the proship-selfship community wants and needs with how rampant posts with ugly and insulting proship dnis on them are. I appreciate that you guys are enjoying it!

That said, this blog is also 18+. I am an adult in my 20s. This blog does currently and will in the future host text-based original adult content related to selfshipping. If you do not have your age or age range (eg Adult, 20s, 25+, etc) listed in your bio/pinned/carrd/whatever, or your blog specifically states you are bodily under 18/a minor, you WILL be softblocked. Minors (individuals who are bodily under the age of 18) are not permitted to follow me. A second offense will result in a DM/ask as a warning. A third offense is a perma-block.

Once you turn 18, cool! You're more than welcome to follow. I won't check individual likes or reblogs, but I do check followers. So please, either include your age/range, or hold off on following until you're 18.

This is something I do for fun. Please respect my boundaries.

Have a nice day, and remember, your f/o(s) love you <3

[joestarkisser]

Feel like you want to do "something" for your F/O? But you feel insecure about your ability to write or draw?

Then I recommend factbooking!

Factbooking, which is just a funky term I came up with, essentially is just collecting canon information about your F/Os! By collecting as much canon information as possible, you can feel as if you're doing that "something" for your fictional lover, and you can do it as cute as you want!

Make a pretty, aesthetic carrd or rentry, and fill it with links or beautiful images/gifs! Buy a pretty notebook and some stickers that reminds you of/is of your F/O, and handwrite the information!

Use bullet points! Links to playlists! Colored ink! Anything you want!

Even add a section for your own headcanons if you wish to!

Add their likes and dislikes, their height and weight, family situation, birthday, zodiac, blood type, themes and symbolism, anything that canon has to offer you about them!

If you're someone who's a bit of a stickler about canon, this can help you keep up on knowing everything about your F/O as canon as possible and be good reference! If you're someone who likes to diverge, this can be a good reference for what to bend to your whims!

You don't need to be "good" or "bad" at anything to factbook! Just having the dedication to collect as much canon information as possible is just like writing a beloved fanfic or creating beautiful art!

While it isn't for everyone, I definitely recommend factbooking. It can make you feel like you're really understanding your F/O on a deeper level, and you may realize some things you never noticed about your F/O before.

[s133py-kum4]

(Stolen from an anti lazily)

[donahdevotees]

Shout out to transfem self shippers ! Your f/o's adore you, you make their life so much brighter by being in it and they love spending time with you!! 🩷

[self-ship-love]

Road trip with your f/o concepts.

Stopping to get gas & loads of snacks.

You’re in the passenger seat with a blanket and book. Your f/o lets you have sole responsibility of the music/radio station.

Your f/o likes to rest their hand on your knee as they drive. Their fingers slowly creeping further up your thigh, causing your heart to kick harder.

While driving, your f/o lovingly glances at you from time to time. They love how you concentrate on the words in the book, or how you drum your fingers on the window to the beat of the music.

Your f/o looks so tempting as they drive, that you have to keep stopping just to make out.

Sharing spooky stories as it begins to get dark.

Pulling over to stargaze and cuddle.

Checking into the nearest hotel when you both begin to feel sleepy.

Ordering everything on the food service menu just to try it all out.

Taking Polaroids throughout the road trip, creating favourite memories.

Playing mixtapes on the stereo or your Spotify playlist you created specifically for this occasion. 

Getting up with the birds just to watch the sunrise together.

Sitting on the hood of the car and watching the sunset on the hills/mountains after the end of each day.

[blackheartbiohazards]

Imagine standing out in the cold in the middle of the night with your F/O gazing up at the stars.

You have your arms around each other and you spend a long moment in quiet, shared wonder at the night sky.

[blackheartbiohazards]

Imagine you're sitting and your rough F/O pins your shoulders to the back of the chair with their grip, their knees on either side of your knees, overshadowing you and holding you in your seat with their body against you--overshadowing and overpowering you. They nuzzle and kiss you as you squirm beneath them.

[chillyneon]

Dramatic Villain F/Os who yell at their subordinates in long diatribes, only momentarily stopping when you need something from them because you can do no wrong, and immediately resuming their shouting afterwards.

Dramatic Villain F/Os who yell at their subordinates INCLUDING YOU so everyone is catching hands.

Dramatic Villain F/Os who go to you to vent all their frustrations for hours and will actively make you sit down if you try leaving before they're done talking.

Dramatic Villain F/Os who use their hands a lot while talking, so you have to duck and dodge while they're going off on whatever tangent they're on.

Dramatic Villain F/Os who are so caught up in their genius that you're the only one who can decode what they're saying whenever no one can understand what they're on about.

Dramatic Villain F/Os who are on the very cusp of world shattering victory, but suddenly stop everything because they realize you're not there to witness it. Absolutely WILL send all their underlings to bring you so they can continue with their evil evil victory.

Dramatic Villain F/Os that even though you are the bane of their mental stability and the worst subordinate they've ever had, if anything ever happened to you then they would kill everyone.

💖Dramatic Villain F/Os💖

[chaos-event-horizon]

Did you know?

Shippers with older F/Os? They LOVE you. The gap in your ages doesn't bother them. They see you as an equal. An adult. An ally. They see you for your personality and your smile. They don't let the comments of others bother them. They don't care what anyone thinks about some arbitrary "power dynamic" baloney. They laugh at the people who claim your relationship is suspicious. They roll their eyes when someone calls them a "cradle robber". They know better. They know that you love them enough to tell them if you are uncomfortable- and that's all they care about. Your comfort. Not that of some whiner who can't see the happiness you bring to one another.

They love you.

They may have been on this planet longer than you, but that just means they had more time to think about who to spend their years with. And they chose you. Because you are worth it. You were worth the wait. And they've never once been happier, in their entire lives.

They will never stop loving you!

[proshipteddy]

Autistic selfshippers u are amazing and your f/o adores you and they love hearing you infodump and seeing how happy your special interests make you. They love your collections and passions. They love your stims and expressions. The way you talk and the way you are. They love you completely and entirely. You are perfect to them not in spite of your autism and symptoms but just entirely and unconditionally!

[dreamwinged]

sometimes honestly if you're feeling invalid/anxious/any sort of negative feeling about your selfship , you just have to go back to canon. and i know it seems like such an easy answer but you really do have to. it is always SO comforting to me when i'm feeling bad about things to just see my f/os normally, without any fan interpretation or characterization or opportunities for jealousy involved; to remember why i fell in love with them and that no one can take that specific experience away from me. that other people's thoughts on the character don't matter because at the end of the day, none of it has any bearing on canon and no one can "know" a character any better than anyone else. it really really does work and i wish id realized it sooner

[blackheartbiohazards]

Imagine your villainous (or any other) F/O kissing and biting and sucking hard at your neck, over and over again, leaving hickies and bruises for the pleasure of putting their mark on you.

[luin-no-koibito-archive]

shoutout to selfshippers without soft f/os.

f/os who you cant really apply soft imagines to. Ones that you have a hard time hearing soft words in their voice. Ones who don't really have that soft, fluffy type of love language.

They have other ways of showing they love you outside of that movie-esque, fluffy type of romance! Maybe it's more casual, maybe its a kind only you two understand. anyways it is, they love you nonetheless! remember that!

Stolen from an anti! Proship/comship PLEASE interact!

[devotion-between-the-wheat]

imagine laying your head in your f/o's lap, just feeling the peace of the moment. perhaps your f/o cards their hands through your hair, or traces over your skin, memorizing every groove and curve. and you can't help but be putty in their hands, and they in turn are love-drunk by the sheer sight of you in that moment.

[self-ship-love]

Imagine

Your f/o encouraging you to eat when you forget to have a meal. Perhaps you're so run off your feet that food just slips your mind. They make sure to gently remind you and show up with sandwiches or whatever you like to eat.

The same with water. They always remind you to drink water. This can apply to platonic and familial f/os not just romantic ones.

[self-ship-love]

Imagine

Attending a big event that your f/o happens to be invited to. The two of you hit it off immediately. At some point during the evening they take your arm and tell you they're in dire need of someone to talk to outside.

When you ask if they're alright, they respond with,

"To be honest, I just wanted an excuse to look at the stars with you."

[imoanurparentsnames]

imagine your f/o cupping your face gently before giving you a soft kiss on the lips

or imagine cupping your f/o's face gently before giving them a soft kiss on the lips