i recently came across your tiktok and the video you had made surrounding your sp.
i had left a comment on how i was going to try out robotic affirming, i did so that same day and at night my sp called me well i had missed the call but first, a little background which is how ur story is kinda similar to mine.
we dated for a year and broke up in april because we would argue often and it was just unhealthy and he also said he didn’t want a relationship anymore like with anyone or whatever and so fast forward this whole month he had been giving me mixed signals because we had never really stopped contact, he said he would remain in contact with me to check up on me and so thats what he did sometimes but it was weird and confusing because he once told me he didn’t wanna contact me so he wouldn’t spark anything with me but then when i stopped contacting him he texted me checking up on me and literally flirted with me one time calling me pretty and stuff( atp i wasn’t really attempting to manifest him back i would just hope something would change)
then this stops and he had given me hope by saying to my little brother who had asked him whens the next time he would come over to my house(we are long distance btw) where instead of the breakup he just told my little brother that he didn’t know when and that it would have to be on a weekend.
after that i really wasn’t in contact with him for like a week or two and so then it was his graduation day and i texted him that day lowkey not expecting anything back but he did end up responding and even sending a picture later on that day(which i never mentioned or anything) and it literally continued for like a week straight of us like communicating, not like texting every hour or etc but still like definitely in more contact then before because he would sometimes ignore me when i reached out and so i remember last time we spoke he had sent me a picture of his new haircut( im ngl it made me go insane) so it eventually led to the conversation of like okay where is this going because i was so impatient and also like sick of the mixed signals and he ended up telling me that he doesn’t want a relationship nor does he see us happening.. so naturally thats when i turned manifesting him because in the past like i would but i would give up eventually, and im ngl just like you i got desperate and paid for a love spell and yeah i got the missed call last night and ive been trying not to think so much about it because i lowkey got really excited after seeing that(had to calm myself down afterwards) yeah now that you know the full story id love to know what are some useful tips you would recommend, i know i should keep affirming and persisting and i am still like i have been throughout the day but yeah idk i would just love any type of feedback because your story really motivated me to continue with this whole manifesting thing and i know i can do it too but i also don’t want to get obsessed with this.
Hi! tysm for telling me your story! its def very similar to mine! im happy you felt comfy coming here from tiktok!! 🫶🏻
ofc do not worry about your sp saying those things because my sp lit said the same thing!
some tips id give you is to focus on your self-concept and do things that make you happy/calm. its best to stay off your phone, so that you don't get triggered or program ur brain with negative stuff. you can journal, go for a walk, craft things, decorate something, workout, hangout with friends, or make friends! these are just a few examples. for me personally, i would go on walks and affirm. i would also craft stuff (which led me to make a insta account to try selling my crafts), so i gained another hobby!
my point is, is that its important to not soley focus on ur sp. dont be mentally away from the stuff you are supposed to enjoy because it was not the best when it happened to me. ofc youre going to be obsessed with manifesting him and thats normal! just be sure that obsession goes into affirming for him and for ur self-concept!!
lmk if you have any questions or need any further help 🐳
