Among the Empty Universe

Long story short: assume I'm terrible. || Max, Gender-fluid, 18, Pastel-Goth Aesthetic ||

[seraphsiren]

Moved

@perpetuallygray

[pr1ncemax]

Ahhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Soooo I just reached 102 followers and I’ve had this blog for like a month??

I love all of you guys, So I’ve decided to do a commission give-away!

There will be three winners and two runner-ups!

HERE ARE THE RULES:

- REBLOG to enter

- Must be following me!! New Followers are always welcome!

Please don’t unfollow after the give-away :c thats mean

-Likes don’t count as an entry but are appreciated anyway <3

-Top Three winners & Runner-ups will be picked by a random number generator!

I will IM you your number!

-May reblog until midnight on the 15th!

I will announce the winners on the 16th!

THE PRIZE

-First Place!

$30 in commissions! And 2 drabbles!

-Second Place!

$20 in commissions! And a drabble!

Third Place!

$15 in commissions! 

Two runner-ups!

Each will get to pick between:

$6 in commissions 

or

 a drabble!

Link to Commission page

[poutypaws-deactivated20181216]

# ¹ — FAIRY ME ♡

i really like spending time on this new blog and i’m really happy that you guys and girls are following me ♡ i am planning so many cute things on here and this little digital give~away is a part of my ideas! there are only a few rules:

must be following @poutypaws

18+ absolute no exceptions

reblog this post at least once

each reblog equals one entry

no porn-only blogs allowed

ends with approx. 500 notes

♡ what you can win ♡

one happy winner will get a picture illustrated by me with the theme FAIRY ME ♡ you not only get a 600×600 pixel .png drawing but also a little .gif animation of the same picture for your every personal use.

PS. you should be comfy with talking to me about the details! ♡

♡ this is an example ♡

[poutypaws-deactivated20181216]

hey there peeps ♡

it would be nice if y’all reblog this more so the give-away reaches 500 notes and can actually happen ^-^ i’d love to draw a fairy for one of you and your chances are good, so go go go ♡

[dimespin]

“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

[chronicdisaster-deactivated2017]

This is such a good illustration of emotional abuse

[artist-rayne]

Just a reblog to spread the most UN noticed abuse, be aware

[nonamecjk]

ok weird question… does anyone have any links to clothing or fabric of that super weird patterns that look like they belong as an 80s bowling alley carpet? like i want shirts like that?? maybe a sweater??? idk but if anyone had any links to something like that it would be super helpful!!!!!!!

[fandomsandfeminism]

“What has violence against Nazis ever accomplished?” 

The end of the holocaust, for starters, ya lollipops. 

[c-bassmeow]

I actually love this post

[biggestpicture]

You mean after they shot first? 🤔

Or did you forget that part as means to justify hitting people that just spoke hateful things.

[fandomsandfeminism]

You know, I was thinking maybe this time around we don’t wait until Nazis have already begun ethnic cleansing before we intervene. Just a thought. I know, really wild. Way out there. So radical. Pretty edgy and all. 

[pez-uzi-deactivated20160424]

Places where reality is a bit altered:

• any target • churches in texas • abandoned 7/11’s • your bedroom at 5 am • hospitals at midnight • warehouses that smell like dust • lighthouses with lights that don’t work anymore • empty parking lots • ponds and lakes in suburban neighborhoods • rooftops in the early morning • inside a dark cabinet

[solareveille]

playgrounds at night

rest stops on highways

deep in the mountains

[ghostfiish]

early in the morning wherever it’s just snowed

trails by the highway just out of earshot of traffic

schools during breaks

those little beaches right next to ferry docks

bowling alleys

[genesisdoes-moved]

unfamiliar mcdonalds on long roadtrips

your friends living room once everybody but you is asleep

laundromats at midnight

[coolpepcat-deactivated20190924]

what the fuck

[ringingofraevolution]

galeries in art museums that are empty except for you 

the lighting section of home depot

stairwells

[doomgeneration1995]

•hospital waiting rooms •airports from midnight to 7am • bathrooms in small concert venues

[midtownsparker]

I just got the weirdest feeling I swear

[the-crepes-of-wrath]

OK LISTEN THERE ARE REASONS FOR THIS!!!

A lot of these places are called liminal spaces - which means they are throughways from one space to the next. Places like rest stops, stairwells, trains, parking lots, waiting rooms, airports feel weird when you’re in them because their existence is not about themselves, but the things before and after them. They have no definitive place outside of their relationship to the spaces you are coming from and going to. Reality feels altered here because we’re not really supposed to be in them for a long time for think about them as their own entities, and when we do they seem odd and out of place.

The other spaces feel weird because our brains are hard-wired for context - we like things to belong to a certain place and time and when we experience those things outside of the context our brains have developed for them, our brains are like NOPE SHIT THIS ISN’T RIGHT GET OUT ABORT ABORT. Schools not in session, empty museums, being awake when other people are asleep - all these things and spaces feel weird because our brain is like “I already have a context for this space and this is not it so it must be dangerous.” Our rational understanding can sometimes override that immediate “danger” impulse but we’re still left with a feeling of wariness and unease. 

Listen I am very passionate about liminal spaces they are fascinating stuff or perhaps I am merely a nerd. 

[sp1ne-sh0t]

I, for one, appreciate your passion for liminal spaces and thank you for explaining it to the rest of us.

[silent-wordsmith]

Okay, I love everything about this, but is anyone gonna talk about why Target is on the list? I’m not saying it doesn’t belong there, I’m just wondering. Since it’s neither a  liminal space nor a place out of context.

Come on, Science Side. Science me.

[liamoige-deactivated20201102]

If y'all want to make a clown a gay icon like… Harley Quinn is right there

[glitchotic]

Harley quinn and pennywise are wlw/mlm solidarity.

[liamoige-deactivated20201102]

No Harley beats the shit out of Pennywise with her bat and takes the kids out for ice cream and group therapy

[novastarlyght]

hey SVtFoE fandom/fans of the trans Marco theory!!

 I wanna tell you about a character named Zadie

she is from the Amazon Prime all-ages cartoon “Danger & Eggs” and she is explicitly and unambiguously a trans girl

in the 13th episode (which is titled “Chosen Family” and yes it is about exactly that, oh and it takes place during Pride) she sings a song about her first day of school after transitioning 

and everyone loves and accepts her and it’s the most precious and beautiful thing, like I was genuinely almost moved to tears also the creator of the show (Shadi Petosky) is a trans woman herself

so I just wanted to share her with you guys, I feel like you’d really appreciate her :’)

(PS go get an amazon prime trial and watch all of Danger & Eggs because it hasn’t been confirmed for a second season yet and really REALLY needs support!!!! big cartoon fandom help a smaller one out…??)

[theslaybymic]

[alastairbgray]

Daydream

REBLOG IF YOU ARE A WRITER ON TUMBLR

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT KIND OF WRITER YOU ARE YOU CAN BE WRITING: POEMS, FANFICS, IDK NORMAL FICS, NOVELS, SHORT STORIES, IDK ANYTHING!! JUST REBLOG!!!

[stayhungry-stayfree]

This is a really helpful page in my CBT textbook for tackling some of the maladaptive beliefs we often hold. The first column lists the rules and assumptions we often may tell ourselves, while the second column is a more functional belief. Just thought I would pass this along. Be kind to yourselves, friends❤

[ceekari]

Oh my god, number 5. And 6, and 7.

I frigging needed that.

[rollerskatinglizard]

Failure is not a permanent condition.

[kosmonauttihai]

The text on the image:

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t do as well as others, I’m a failure. More functional belief: If I don’t do as well as others, I’m not a failure, just human.

Maladaptive belief:  If I ask for help, it’s a sign of weakness. More functional belief: If I ask for help when I need it, I’m showing good problem-solving abilities (which is a sign of strength).

Maladaptive belief:  If I fail at work/school, I’m a failure as a person. More functional belief: If I fail at work/school, it’s not a reflection of my whole self. (My whole self includes how I am as a friend, daughter, sister, relative, citizen, and community member, and my qualities of kindness, sensitivity to others, helpfulness, etc.) Also, failure is not a permanent condition.

Maladaptive belief:  I should be able to excel at everything I try. More functional belief: I shouldn’t be able to excel at something unless I am gifted in that area (and am willing and able to devote considerable time and effort toward it at the expense of other things.

Maladaptive belief:  I should always work hard and do my best. More functional belief: I should put in a reasonable amount of effort much of the time.

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t live up to my potential, I have failed. More functional belief: If I do less than my best, I have succeeded perhaps 70%, 80%, or 90%; not 0%.

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t work hard all the time, I’ll fail. More functional belief: If I don’t work hard all the time, I’ll probably do reasonably well and have a more balanced life.

[farahandthemachine]

What book is this?

[stayhungry-stayfree]

This is a really helpful page in my CBT textbook for tackling some of the maladaptive beliefs we often hold. The first column lists the rules and assumptions we often may tell ourselves, while the second column is a more functional belief. Just thought I would pass this along. Be kind to yourselves, friends❤

[ceekari]

Oh my god, number 5. And 6, and 7.

I frigging needed that.

[rollerskatinglizard]

Failure is not a permanent condition.

[kosmonauttihai]

The text on the image:

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t do as well as others, I’m a failure. More functional belief: If I don’t do as well as others, I’m not a failure, just human.

Maladaptive belief:  If I ask for help, it’s a sign of weakness. More functional belief: If I ask for help when I need it, I’m showing good problem-solving abilities (which is a sign of strength).

Maladaptive belief:  If I fail at work/school, I’m a failure as a person. More functional belief: If I fail at work/school, it’s not a reflection of my whole self. (My whole self includes how I am as a friend, daughter, sister, relative, citizen, and community member, and my qualities of kindness, sensitivity to others, helpfulness, etc.) Also, failure is not a permanent condition.

Maladaptive belief:  I should be able to excel at everything I try. More functional belief: I shouldn’t be able to excel at something unless I am gifted in that area (and am willing and able to devote considerable time and effort toward it at the expense of other things.

Maladaptive belief:  I should always work hard and do my best. More functional belief: I should put in a reasonable amount of effort much of the time.

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t live up to my potential, I have failed. More functional belief: If I do less than my best, I have succeeded perhaps 70%, 80%, or 90%; not 0%.

Maladaptive belief:  If I don’t work hard all the time, I’ll fail. More functional belief: If I don’t work hard all the time, I’ll probably do reasonably well and have a more balanced life.

[farahandthemachine]

What book is this?

[idgah]

foods dangerous to dogs:

avocadoes

alcohol

raw bread dough

caffeine

chocolate

grapes and raisins

onions and garlic

macadamia nuts

raw salmon

xylitol (artificial sweeteners)

if you have a dog please reblog this

[subparhoney-deactivated20151019]

You don’t need to have a dog, everyone just reblog this maybe ok yes

[just-shower-thoughts]

Nightmares aren’t actually the worst dreams you can have. Waking up after dreaming about something you deeply desire just to realize that it was a dream and you can’t make it real is actually far more hartbreaking.

[pinkpossibly]

The person I reblogged this from deserves happiness and love