Skye Gray

30 something transfemme nonbinary genderqueer fagdyke (she/her). Perpetual bottom energy. Need a he/him lesbian to impregnate me.

[sexiimoth]

I cannot escape the brain fog. I keep forgetting what I was doing and why I was doing it. I'm anxious and confused. I don't know what to do. I'm overwhelmed. I need some professional help, but I can't articulate what that looks like. I'm drowning in my emotions and physical pain. I cannot do this. I cannot.

[sexiimoth]

I prayed and prayed to be run over by a car and taken out. And this is the best you could do? A broken leg? If there is a god, they're a hack.

Not only did I NOT die, but now I have to deal with the consequences of being hit by a car.

- constant pain

- attorneys

- transphobic medical providers

- not being dead

- life actually sucking more now

[sexiimoth]

I'm so distraught. I have on one here that cares about me. I'm so alone. I'm depressed and broke and jobless, no healthcare, and I want so badly for it all to end.

[decompose1]

neovaginas can get wet naturally

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

YOU HAVE OPTIONS! demystify bottom surgery

[deerbrain]

you can also have nothing, if you want!! nullification is starting to become available alongside vaginoplasty and phalloplasty

you can have nothing and retain sexual function, even! it's called nerve-preserving nullification. similarly to other bottom surgeries, they use the most sensitive tissue (glans/clit) to create a subdermal pseudoclitoris

yes you can pee like normal. urethral reroute leaves a small hole at the perineum (taint)

all the advice about scars from OP applies here too!! take care of yourself well and it can heal well

(also, for people interested in the "mixed look" OP mentioned: the magic words are "penile-preserving vaginoplasty"/"phalloplasty without vaginectomy"!!)

[her-aurora-doll]

As someone who has had nullification done, my inbox is always open.

[blindbee]

[avodaco]

me when i get my student loan

[g8dtier]

this is the money cat. reblog in 30 seconds and you will find yourself with more wealth

[strikercorbie]

#this is the only money cat i will reblog because it’s actually doing the manekineko pose151,646 notes (via lolwhutninja)

OMG YOU’RE RIGHT

[yournonbinarypal]

[menlove-archive]

I've never played a more perfect card in the 10 years I've been playing this game

[segamascott]

[pjackk]

IDrank abunch now im ready to party! Anyone gay

[sandmandaddy69]

[monsieurenjlolras]

This is your regularly scheduled reminder that "Life finds a way" is about the dinosaurs becoming transgender

[genderfluid-and-confuzled]

thought one: yummy yummy

thought two: orange juice in my tummy

[metalsands]

is that..... *gulps* your pussy...?

[sapphling]

getting diagnosed with alcoholism because of the scratch marks around my robot girlfriend's usb pussy

[imawitchywitch]

Have any other autistic folks just met their also autistic partner and immediately were like ah yes, my person. We must merge. We are mutually obsessed and calm each other. We talk about everything and agree on everything. We want the same things and like the same things. We must live together and get married, and do everything together now.

[spinfader]

Trans girls, in my experience, have largely lived an existence in which for the vast majority of our lives, we've never been anybody's first choice romantically. That's if we're chosen at all.

Second choice? Yeah. Back up plan? Happens. Fetishized? Always.

But never just chosen. Never just pursued. Never loved quite as much as we need. Never the object of obsession. Never the focus of passion.

Every love feels like it's one better option disappearing like a vapor in the wind.

So I say all that to say, if you're romantically inclined, and you love a trans girl. Choose her. Really choose her. Choose her in every moment. Make her feel like she's the only one that matters and do it every day, because it's possible, likely even, that she's never felt that before.

Really choose her, or you will break her heart.

If you're not willing to do that, leave her the fuck alone.

[storyweavingspider]

ALSO. FLOWERS. FOR THE LOVE OF GODS GET HER FLOWERS SHE HAS PROBABLY NEVER BEEN GIVEN FLOWERS ROMANTICALLY IN HER LIFE.

[agaywolf]