Spark your Sexuality and Explore!

This is a place to explore and heighten our sexuality, every one of us.  The posts shared or made are biased in favour of my own preferences. Images appearing here are found on the internet, and are assumed to be in the public domain, and will be...

[sharedsparks]

I can hardly wait either....

[memento-mori62]

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Far far from it dear...

[talldarkandsensual-deactivated2]

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I'm curious to find out too...

[beautiful-submissive-soul-deact]

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absolutely and without question...

[viciousrumors]

[sharedsparks]

No reason to stop at one, and I don't even need the details...

[sharedsparks]

Gangbang wife

Mine or yours?

[sharedsparks]

I do believe we will quite enjoy ourselves...

[nightmarekite-deactivated201505]

Why do I want polyamorous representation?

Because when someone doesn’t want to date me because I’m poly it’s ‘understandable’ but when I don’t want to date someone because they are monogamous it’s ‘ridiculous.’

Because all relationship advice tells you that if you have feelings for someone else while you’re in a relationship you’re a bad person.

Because even feminists try to slut shame me.

Because when I tell people me and my partner have an open relationship they assume it’s because we’re going through a rough patch.

Because people equate ‘multiple partners’ with ‘predator’ and think everything I say is an attempt to get in their pants.

Because I am fed up of love triangles as easy plot devices in my media.

Because the LGBTQA+ movement are so desperate to show ‘allies’ they are ‘just like everyone else’ that they shit on everyone with a non-monogamous dynamic.

Because when a monogamous couple have sex with each other every night it’s having an active sex drive. When I have sex with a different partner every night I’m a nymphomaniac.

Because people think that monogamy = validity, always.

Because monogamous hetronormativity is so ingrained that I don’t even feel like I can dance with someone without telling them the complete logistics of my love life.

Because people genuinely believe that raising a child communally is damaging to development.

Because when I say ‘I could never be monogamous’ I get dirty looks.

Because too many people have tried to confide in me when they’re cheating because ‘I thought you, of all people, would understand.’

Because I can’t talk about my relationship troubles with my monogamous friends because ‘I always have something to fall back on.’ As if my relationships are meaningless.

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[hplyrikz]

[sharedsparks]

Amen to this...

[myragewillendworlds]

Masters vs Daddy Doms

What tumblr/DDlg thinks it’s like:

What it’s actually like:

Nowhere do I see a bigger misunderstanding of what a Master is than in the DD/lg community. They have a worse view of Masters than ignorant vanilla people do.

No, Masters are not all cold, unemotional, unloving, arrogant or abusive. They are people. They can be all the things Daddy Doms can be. Both types of Dominants are nurturing, provide aftercare, love and care about their submissive and want to guide them in life and help them improve themselves.

But where Daddy Doms put their main focus on these things and delve deep into the role of a father figure, Masters want to go further and have all control over their sub.

Read a blog by a slave in a long-term 24/7 relationship before jumping to these horrible conclusions. They speak of happiness, care, playful moments as well as mundane days, and above all, love between them and their Master.

[locandload-deactivated20150810]

yeah and also too many people that claim to be a daddy or master do it wrong

[sharedsparks]

Couldn't agree more....

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We are my love....

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Of course you may, I am going to take a moment to enjoy the view...

[sharedsparks]

Yes he certainly is...

[40sfun-deactivated20150110]

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That's why you are the perfect wife...

[sharedsparks]

Wow, glad to have found you, outstanding blog and orig captions! I make my own captioned gifs that might be your style. There's only a few for now but that will change. Check them out at #setag718 and feel free to reblog. Stay sexy, S.

Thanks for the feedback, kind of a new adventure...

[sharedsparks]

I am certain they will appreciate your choices...

[sharedsparks]

I had given them all permission...