A mass answering of questions: an epic saga of life, love, and betrayal
1. Are you more feminine or masculine?
Tom is more masculine I would say? But definitely not hyper-masculine in any sense of the word. He has the privilege of not really thinking or worrying about his gender or presentation all that much.
4. What do you love about yourself?
I donât really think there is much Tom âlovesâ about himself. He more so finds satisfaction in receiving encouragement and kind words from those around him who he trusts. He likes praise and feeling useful.
6. Do you see yourself differently than other people describe you?
I think everyone does? Tom can be internally pretty short fused and angry but it doesnât come out often. So I guess people probably might think heâs very consistently calm or maybe that he doesnât care.
8. Whatâs something youâre bad at, but love?
Rawee has recently been working with Tom to teach him crocheting. Itâs something that he finds rather fascinating, but does not yet have decent enough dexterity to really master.
10. How do you spend your free time?
Tom is a fuckin nerd. He spends his free time reading and doing potions work that he considers âfunâ. what a nerd. Also he hangs out with his gf a lot now, thats a thing.
13. What is the most insulting thing anyone has said to you?
Tom was bullies a shitton in muggle schooling but also has overall had a lot of ignorant things said to him after his accident? The thing that truly infuriates him though out of all of that is when someone underestimates him or his abilities.
He likes watching Rawee play games moreso than playing them.
16. Do you believe in god?
Tom is a pretty devout Hindu, and focuses on a number of different gods within there. He has his own shrine setup in his room when heâs at school and follows a strict diet.
20. Are we raised into what we love, or do we come to love it based on how we were raised?
I think for Tom its a little of both. Both of his parents are in medical professions, but Tom is kind of finding his own way in that, with using magic and all that. He certainly has a strong support system though.
21. How do you feel about the school system?
Room for improvement. The protests prove this. Tom is bitter about school systems and clings on to the way his bullies were treated while in muggle schooling as well.
22. Do you believe in fate/destiny?
To an extent Tom does. It ties in neatly with his spiritual and religious beliefs. But it is not so much that destiny is a strong unmovable force and more that he thinks that certain things are meant to be, but there isnât a concrete way for those things to manifest. If that makes sense.
Tom sure doesnât freakin know let me tell you
24. Do we define ourselves, or does our past?
I think Tom has a tendency to cling to the past a lot. however! He is starting to really get better at that. He is now able to define himself more than just a handful of certain events that have haunted him for a while.
Tom loves humans so much what. He has dedicated his life to helping other people. Humans. 100/10
29. Does apathy really exist?
31. What gender do you prefer?
No preference. Â He has experience with multiple genders and he does not find anyone to be more or less attractive to him.
No preference here. Cheesy af, but he likes peopleâs character more than their presentation.
41. How much of an age cap can you handle?
Uhhhh idk. Tom probably wouldnât go for someone 3-5 yrs older than him?
43. Could you forgive a cheater?
Tom doesnât really have much forgiveness in him for cheaters. The people he shares relationships are close and special to him, and he chooses them rather carefully. if someone betrays his trust he doesnât take it lightly.