[lautakwah]

warning for discord users

If you're on the app, immediately go to your dms and then "add friends". After the latest update they allow your contacts to find you and have that option turned on by default, so make sure it's unchecked!

This is very obviously not great for a multitude of reasons, but especially for people in vulnerable positions who do not want people in their contacts to see who they are on discord and/or know they have discord in the first place. I've also tried finding out if this is a thing on desktop but haven't been able to find any mention of it, so either it's not a "feature" (yet) or they've hidden it. Either way, stay safe, and turn off finding friends via contacts!

[ID: three screenshots from the discord app with circles around the buttons to press to get to this "feature". 1: the messages/DM button, 2: the "add friends button", 3: in the add friends page, the "allow contacts to add me" checkbox. /END ID]

[lautakwah]

Other options I honestly assumed everybody already had turned off but just in case they hadn't for any reason:

privacy settings inside discord itself: "you" > settings > privacy and safety > scroll down and turn off "sync contacts", "phone", "e-mail", and optionally "use data to improve discord"

[ID: screenshots with the above mentioned buttons circled. /END ID]

App permissions via phone settings (my phone is a Samsung Android, this might look different for iOS and different Android brands!)

Settings > scroll down to apps > scroll down to discord > permissions > make sure contacts is under "not allowed"

[ID: screenshots with the above mentioned buttons circled and directions written down. /END ID]

[lautakwah]

Multiple others have also said this in the notes and tags, but apparently it's just really bad UI design, where the ticked box is specifically for when you click on "find friends". Apologies for the misleading OP, several servers I was in started talking about this and I hadn't seen anyone on tumblr post about it, which is why I made the post in the first place.

You should still definitely double check your permissions and whether or not your contacts are synced within discord, though, because that would still enable others to find you through your contacts.

can everyone please reblog this version

[shellysharbor]

CW:SPOILERS FOR THE TWINS' 2023' BIRTHDAY EVENT POP QUIZ

Uh-huh, you've convinced me, bestie

[memeguy-com]

I didnt know body wash could be so sexy and condescending

[sharkpilot]

Every time I see this post I think it’s a fire extinguisher and I get really confused

[anxious-twisted-vampire]

Imagine if mc and diavolo have a daughter and she is like charlie from hazbin hotel

[shellysharbor]

What if I told you I'm already developing,(only as an idea for now) such a character?

[anxious-twisted-vampire]

oooh really? can you tell me the details?

[shellysharbor]

Sure^^I would like to make AUs with all the children I have in mind for my MC and the characters she could potentially romance, which include the demon brothers, the dateables, and Thirteen.I'm currently deciding on names, physical features and personality traits for each.But for now I'll be sticking to describing Dia's daughter.

So, for physical traits, I'm considering giving her wavy, raspberry colored hair, like a crossing between Diavolo's and my MC's hair(she has wavy pink hair), medium-to-dark brown skin, and her dad's eyes.In her demon form, she has Diavolo's forearm marks, along with his wings and horns, though in some AUs where my MC becomes a demon, those features might change.

As for personality traits, she has a cheerful, benevolent personality like her dad, and has inherited her mom's protectiveness and curiosity.She becomes very attached to the people she's fond of, which could result in her experiencing difficulty parting with them if for whatever reason they couldn't be in her life anymore, and can be a bit childish at times, getting excited over the smallest of things.Her hobbies include caring for creatures she adopts over the years, practicing her magic abilities, training, and exploring the realms, out of her own volition, to form a better understanding of how they function.As the next in line for the throne, and possibly the first ever born demon queen, she also feels the need to prove she's a capable and trustworthy future ruler, assisting her parents as much as she can in their duties, and getting involved with her people.

And for a name, I was thinking of Rose, because of her hair colour, but Queen Rose from the Dame event already has that name, so now I'm considering naming her Rosalie, Rosanna, or Rosetta.I might look past that, though, and end up sticking to just "Rose". We'll see 😅

[anxious-twisted-vampire]

Imagine if mc and diavolo have a daughter and she is like charlie from hazbin hotel

[shellysharbor]

What if I told you I'm already developing,(only as an idea for now) such a character?

[shellysharbor]

Obey Me! Mammon Dating Headcanons (GN! Reader)

Pretty self explanatory.After seeing how well Thirteen's headcanons were received, I decided to give my best boy his own as well💛💛💛

**Spoilers ahead**

NSFW under the cut, minors and ageless accounts, please DNI

•Electroshock kink.So, remember a group chat where he states that he put his finger in the socket and kinda liked the sensation?Yeah, he would absolutely want to experiment further and purchase a shock wand for you to use on him.He'd want you to slowly trail it from his neck to his abdomen, and up his thighs.Maybe even up and down his cock if you're both feeling adventurous.

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•Comfort sex with him would be a regular occurrence, given how much he quarrels with his brothers.He *needs* you to hold him close to your chest, letting him feel your heartbeat as you ride him slowly, trailing kisses from his neck to his earlobe, whispering words of comfort to him and kissing his tears away if there are any(there would definitely be, this is Mams we're talking about).Afterwards, he'd let you trace patterns on his face with your fingers and press light kisses over them, contentedly closing his eyes and drifting off to sleep whilst hugging you by the waist.

•Car sex would be another regular occurrence for you two if you're the type to tease him after your dates as he's driving you both home.You'd start by teasingly running a hand up his thigh, moving it to his groin, and tracing circles on it, feeling it harden from your touch.He would have to park the car to a quiet spot and getting to the back seat with you before hungrily kissing you and caressing you underneath your clothes as he ground against your clothed sex, getting small whines out of you

"Not so bold now that ya got the Great Mammon between yer legs, are you?Man, I can *feel* how excited you are even though our clothes"

•He'd then proceed to move just enough clothes out of the way to enter you, starting with slow thrusts to let you get used to his size.Once you did, he'd start picking up the pace, reaching a point where he's plowing into you so fast you can't even form words from the stimulation you're receiving

•You know that one road trip Devilgram story with him?What followed afterwards would be Mammon driving you to the nearest motel to check in, making a beeline to your room and immediately pinning you to the door, after closing it behind you, to kiss you almost desperately as he held your hands above your head with one hand and your thigh with the other.Not that you'd need amy assistance, given how tightly you had your legs wrapped around his waist.He'd then carry you to the bed, peeling off your clothes, still soaked from the pool, and kiss his way down your neck, chest, torso and abdomen before going down on you.Once you were lubricated enough, he'd remove his own clothes, and slide the tip of his cock up and down your entrance, smearing it with his precum and finally thrusting into you, drawing a longing whine from you for him to hold you, to which he'd be more than happy to oblige.

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[aki-i-guess]

BABY MAMMON I 💜 HIM SO MUCH

[shellysharbor]

He's so 🥺💛✨🙏🏻💕

[shellysharbor]

Obey Me! Mammon NSFW Dating Headcanons (GN! Reader)

Pretty self explanatory.After seeing how well Thirteen's headcanons were received, I decided to give my best boy his own as well💛💛💛

**Spoilers ahead**

NSFW under the cut, minors and ageless accounts, please DNI

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•Comfort sex with him would be a regular occurrence, given how much he quarrels with his brothers.He *needs* you to hold him close to your chest, letting him feel your heartbeat as you ride him slowly, trailing kisses from his neck to his earlobe, whispering words of comfort to him and kissing his tears away if there are any(there would definitely be, this is Mams we're talking about).Afterwards, he'd let you trace patterns on his face with your fingers and press light kisses over them, contentedly closing his eyes and drifting off to sleep whilst hugging you by the waist.

•Electroshock kink.So, remember a group chat where he states that he put his finger in the socket and kinda liked the sensation?Yeah, he would absolutely want to experiment further and purchase a shock wand for you to use on him.He'd want you to slowly trail it from his neck to his abdomen, and up his thighs.Maybe even up and down his cock if you're both feeling adventurous.

•Car sex would be another regular occurrence for you two if you're the type to tease him after your dates as he's driving you both home.You'd start by teasingly running a hand up his thigh, moving it to his groin, and tracing circles on it, feeling it harden from your touch.He would have to park the car to a quiet spot and getting to the back seat with you before hungrily kissing you and caressing you underneath your clothes as he ground against your clothed sex, getting small whines out of you

"Not so bold now that ya got the Great Mammon between yer legs, are you?Man, I can *feel* how excited you are even though our clothes"

•He'd then proceed to move just enough clothes out of the way to enter you, starting with slow thrusts to let you get used to his size.Once you did, he'd start picking up the pace, reaching a point where he's plowing into you so fast you can't even form words from the stimulation you're receiving

•You know that one road trip Devilgram story with him?What followed afterwards would be Mammon driving you to the nearest motel to check in, making a beeline to your room and immediately pinning you to the door, after closing it behind you, to kiss you almost desperately as he held your hands above your head with one hand and your thigh with the other.Not that you'd need any assistance, given how tightly you had your legs wrapped around his waist.He'd then carry you to the bed, peeling off your clothes, still soaked from the pool, and kiss his way down your neck, chest, torso and abdomen before going down on you.Once you were lubricated enough, he'd remove his own clothes, and slide the tip of his cock up and down your entrance, smearing it with his precum and finally thrusting into you, drawing a longing whine from you for him to hold you, to which he'd be more than happy to oblige.

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[shellysharbor]

Where's the "Just friends?" option, SWD? 🥲 I swear I become more fond of her each time we encounter her in the story and events, and I wanted her to become a love interest so bad 🥺😔

[devildom-doll]

Supportive gf Thirteen ilysm *kith kith kith* 💕💜💜💕💜💕💜💕💜💕💜✨💜💕💜💕💜

[shellysharbor]

She can deny it all she wants, but it's pretty clear she cares about us (*ahem* female version of Mammon *ahem*)

[shellysharbor]

Obey Me! Thirteen NSFW Dating Headcanons (GN!Reader)

I can't find (many) NSFW dating headcanons about Thirteen, so I made some myself.This is also my very first time writing, so I hope I did a good job 😅 NSFW stuff is under the cut

Minors and ageless accounts, please DNI

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•With your bedroom being on ground floor, you've sneaked her in through the window past your bedtime and gotten nasty with each other.

•She's also invited you over to her cave, so that no one will disturb you.

•But you, on the other hand, have disturbed the surrounding area's peace with your moans echoing through the cave if the sound works the same as with normal caves.

•You've done it in the sitting area of HOL while everyone else was sleeping, because let's be honest, Thirteen *can* get jealous and possessive, and she wouldn't mind any of the brothers walking in on you two and seeing who's making you feel so good and turning you into a complete mess.

•You have matching nipple piercings

•She's played with yours from behind whilst leaving love bites on your neck and nibbling on your earlobe, smearing her lipstick on your skin as you moaned her name.

•You have also played with hers, only you have whispered sweet nothings into her ear and verbally teased her as she was melting from the stimulation.

•In the bunny event, she nicknamed you "bunny" and later used it in a more intimate setting as well.

•She still uses it sometimes, even in a normal setting, and you can't help but remember how she sat you down on her lap and ran her hands up your thighs and played with you as you held onto her shoulders and tried your best to keep your voice down in the VIP room in the Fall as she whispered into your ear

•"Aww, is my bunny getting this excited already?How cute~"

•Her Christmas present to you was a collar similar to hers, only yours has the ring hanging from the strap so she can pull you closer to kiss you, bite your ear and whisper words of filth into it while she's fucking the living daylights out of you.

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[tostie-ornaments]

This is so good!!

[shellysharbor]

Thank you so much 🥰

[shellysharbor]

Obey Me! Thirteen NSFW Dating Headcanons (GN!Reader)

I can't find (many) NSFW dating headcanons about Thirteen, so I made some myself.This is also my very first time writing, so I hope I did a good job 😅 NSFW stuff is under the cut

Minors and ageless accounts, please DNI

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•With your bedroom being on ground floor, you've sneaked her in through the window past your bedtime and gotten nasty with each other.

•She's also invited you over to her cave, so that no one will disturb you.

•But you, on the other hand, have disturbed the surrounding area's peace with your moans echoing through the cave if the sound works the same as with normal caves.

•You've done it in the sitting area of HOL while everyone else was sleeping, because let's be honest, Thirteen *can* get jealous and possessive, and she wouldn't mind any of the brothers walking in on you two and seeing who's making you feel so good and turning you into a complete mess.

•You have matching nipple piercings

•She's played with yours from behind whilst leaving love bites on your neck and nibbling on your earlobe, smearing her lipstick on your skin as you moaned her name.

•You have also played with hers, only you have whispered sweet nothings into her ear and verbally teased her as she was melting from the stimulation.

•In the bunny event, she nicknamed you "bunny" and later used it in a more intimate setting as well.

•She still uses it sometimes, even in a normal setting, and you can't help but remember how she sat you down on her lap and ran her hands up your thighs and played with you as you held onto her shoulders and tried your best to keep your voice down in the VIP room in the Fall as she whispered into your ear

•"Aww, is my bunny getting this excited already?How cute~"

•Her Christmas present to you was a collar with a ring, similar to hers, so she can use it to pull you closer to kiss you, bite your ear and whisper words of filth into it while she's fucking the living daylights out of you.

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[viriborne]

I’m gonna start heterophobia posting again if the fucking backlash from this stupid fandom over the sheer THOUGHT that a sapphic woman might hit on them has made the devs not include the ONE female character in the entire fucking game

[shellysharbor]

As a bi woman, I'd been waiting for her appearance ever since they posted her teaser on Obey Me!'s Instagram, only for so many people to get upset over her mere presence when she was finally introduced in the story, and to say I was PISSED would be an understatement.Plus, there can only be romantic interactions between the MC and the characters only if we choose the romantic options, so their "worries" are completely irrelevant.I hope she's more present in future lessons and events, there's so much potential in her character as the only grim reaper in the cast, and in her species' lore for the story.I love the game, but the fandom is getting progressively worse in terms of disrespectful behaviour towards characters

[vforys]

chrysanthemums

[shellysharbor]

AHHHH SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL 😭💖💜💙

[lanshappycorner]

My goal in life is to one day have the skill or money to make plushies shaped like my cheebs

[shellysharbor]

Little chonkies 🥺💖

[szollibisz]

Everyone in the academic art field is like "it's important to observe and take inspiration from the old masters!" ok then, take some inspiration from those gay little renaissance dudes and start drawing buff women. Now.

[musterniillustrates]

ok so i made the mistake of standing on the beach in the dark and listen…….. listen. there is nothing that cares about you less than the ocean in the dead of night. it is tangible. you can’t fuckin see a thing. there is no horizon. it’s a ceaseless void and she cares for no one and loves nothing. you have to respect her bcs she clearly has no fuckin love for you and if she wanted she could take you and NO ONE WOULD KNOW

[variablejabberwocky]

#ngl I felt this when we were crossing the mountains into and out of California#i felt it in my *soul*: ‘These mountains EAT people–and are as indifferent about that as my own teeth are about chewing’#it was the strongest prey-fear I’d ever felt in my life

[mud4sludge-deactivated20230205]

cooking while chronically ill

baking with arthritis or other chronic hand pain

living with chronic migraines

adhd meal plan

chronic pain tips

getting yourself to eat

[mud4sludge-deactivated20230205]

foods to eat when nauseous

printable medication log

stretches to relieve back pain

safe foods for sensitive stomachs

heating pads vs ice packs