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Seduction Steps

1. Create a need

A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced. 

Tension and disharmony must be instilled in your targets minds. 

Stir within them feelings of discontent and unhappiness with their circumstances and with themselves. 

Make them see you as the answer to that problem. 

Pain and anxiety are the proper Precursors to pleasure. 

Learn to manufacture the need that you can fill.

2. Master the art of insinuation

There’s no known defense against insinuation - the art of planting ideas in peoples minds 

Drop elusive hints that take root days later and even appear to them as their own idea. 

Make everything suggestive.

3. Enter their spirit

Enjoy what they enjoy, Play by their rules, adapt yourself to their mood. 

In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.

Indulge your targets every mood and whim, giving them nothing to react against or resist.

4. Prove yourself

Most people want to be seduced. If they resist your efforts, it is probably because you haven’t successfully allayed their doubts about your motives and the depth of your feelings. 

Do not worry about looking foolish or making a mistake - any kind of deed that is self sacrificing and for your target’s sake will so overwhelm their emotions, they won’t notice anything else.

Know your target well and aim your seductive evidence at the source of their doubts or resistance.

5. Use physical lures 

Targets with active minds are dangerous. If they see through your manipulations, they may suddenly develop doubts. 

Put their minds gently to rest and awaken their dormant senses by combining a non-defensive attitude with a charged sexual presence. 

While you’re cool, nonchalant air is lowering their inhibitions, your glances, voice, and bearing - oozing sex and desire, are getting under their skin and raising their temperature. 

By infecting your targets with heat, you lure them into lust. Morality, judgment and concern for the future will all melt away.

6. Isolate the Target

A target who is strong and settled is hard to seduce. But even the strongest people can be made vulnerable if you can isolate them from their nest and safety nets. 

Block out his friends and family with your constant presence, alienate them from the world he is used to and take him to places they do not know. 

Get them to spend time in your environment. Deliberately to stop their habits, get them to do things they have never done. 

They will grow emotional, making it easier to lead them astray. 

Disguise all this in the form of a pleasurable experiences and your targets will wake up one day, distanced from everything that normally comforts them. 

Then they will turn to you for help, like a child crying out for his mother.

The danger of travel is that your targets are intimately exposed to you. It is hard to maintain an air of mystery.

But if you take them to a place alluring enough to distract them, it will prevent them from focusing on anything banal in your character.

7. Break the Rules

A person who is kind or good or spiritual within the limits that society prescribes, has a weak appeal.

It might seem that a permissive society imposes few limits, find some.

There will always be limits, sacred costs, behavioral standards - endless ammunition for stirring up the transgressive and taboo. 

In Seduction, there’s absolutely no power in respecting boundaries and limits.

8. Keep them in suspense

The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, your spell on them is broken. 

The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. 

They will not be able to foresee what comes next. You were always one step ahead and in control.

9. Give them space to fall - the pursuer is pursued

Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you. 

Hint that you are growing bored. Seem interested in someone else. 

Stir up jealousy, make them feel insecure and the validation you later give their ego by preferring them over their rivals is doubly delightful.

Half of seduction is stirring such competitive desires. 

Remember you have more to fear by boring your targets then by shaking them up. 

Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced.

Source: The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

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The Art of Gold Digging

1. Change your Mindset

You don’t have to be a cutthroat scandalous woman in order to be a genuine gold digger.

Most of the true gold diggers I know are the nicest, sweetest, most charismatic women you would ever want to meet.

In the Slums and Ghettos, the poorest of the poor are doing things to their neighbor you wouldn’t do to a stray dog. So when people say things like „people with money are evil, corrupt, cold and heartless“ you know thats only BS the broke people say to make themselves feel better and justify their lack of ambition to make something better out of their lives

Don’t be a people pleaser, especially when the people you are trying to please aren’t doing anything for you or looking for your best interest.

„Success is a great deodorant. It takes away all your past smells.“ Once you’re up in a mansion or on an exclusive Island, would you really still care what people would say about you? That’s the point.

Don’t be apologetic because guys out there will not be apologetic for trying to have sex with you once they find out you’re an easy target or sucker for love. 

They will not be apologetic for taking advantage of your fragile state. They will not be apologetic for using you and moving on

2. Change Your Environment

When women are broke together, they get into all kinds of immoral activity. They get high and casually sleep with all kinds of guys. But all of a sudden, when one person tries to break out of the mold and do something different and better themselves away from the pack these friends start preaching morality.

Women who escaped their poverty circles always had to stay low key with their game in order to avoid the negative backlash

It is lonely at the top but it is jam-packed at the bottom. Remember its better to be envied than pitied.

Gold diggers do not have pity-parties. Misery loves company, but gold diggers will have none of that. 

A true gold digger has nothing to complain about because she’s getting hers. 

You are going to be the one on vacation, you are going to be the one traveling the world, you are going to be the one living the lavish life yourself. You won’t have time to talk about somebody else living that lifestyle.

In many cases, poor people procreate with other poor people, therefore they never break the cycle of poverty that goes on for generation after generation.

Rich people know how to nurture and breed family bloodlines of wealth like thoroughbred horses. 

This is how they stayed rich for generation after generation after generation. They understood the concept of assets on assets. Try to become an asset. 

Go to upscale places, hang out around upscale people in upscale places. If you can place yourself there physically, you will get there mentally and ultimately financially.

Just get into the dating scene with rich guys to be around that wealthy vibe, to learn from them, and to make contacts through them. 

You’ll learn how to deal with rich guys and you’ll learn how to be an asset when that one Prince Charming does come into your life and you want to have that long-lasting relationship.

3. Get in the right energy

Think about success all the time. Think about being a winner all the time.

If you don’t have that winning mentality, you’re not going to appreciate what you get, simply because you don’t appreciate what you have.

It is very important to speak highly of people. It is very important to have a positive outlook about life, about everything.

You don’t want to project a negative aura. When people see that, they loose interest in you.

You want to at least appear to be as positive as possible.  A woman who has a good vibe and good energy is infectious and people want to be around her.

Successful men conduct business in large part by being charismatic and impressing others. Often they want a woman who’s the same way.

When your target is trying to enlighten you on something, you want to show that you appreciate and respect him. You don’t want to play dumb, but being ditzy in a subtle way works countless times.

4. Commit To The Game

The way to learn the lifestyle is to re-invent and rebuild yourself from scratch. 

You’ve got to get rid of the old, meek you and transform into a brand new gold digging seductress.

Women who live out their entire lives in safe situations, only dreaming one life „on the other side“. Some of them try to explore the other side in secret. But this tends to be half-assed 

You get in what you put out of a situation. I you put half-assed energy into the game, you’re going to get half-assed results

You have to like what you do. You have to be addicted to the thrill of the hustle.

GD Game:

The biggest mistake women make when they’re dealing with POTS is that they try to deal with all these guys the same way. That’s like playing lottery when it comes to dating.

Every target is a custom job. You have to be a chameleon with your game.

You’ll have to be able to adapt to the game that the guy is using towards you. 

A good gold digger knows how to adapt to any man and any surrounding 

when you date, do not think that your only job is to look pretty. If that’s the only asset you’re bringing to the table, at some point in time you’re going to be replaced. 

Being a pretty woman with a lot of game to back up your looks will get you in the door and keep you in the game. 

A lot of rich guys assume that most women out there who try to step to them are selfish. You have to prove otherwise. 

But if you can come across as a selfless humanitarian, or as someone who cares about the environment and what goes on in the world, your target will respect that. It will lower his defenses.

GD Looks:

If you want to live in a castle, you have to look like a princess. 

You can’t have a low budget look trying to get wealthy men. You really have to invest in yourself. 

When your targets see that you invest in yourself and take care of yourself, they’re going to want to continue the process as well. 

If he’s financially disciplined, he wants a woman who’s at the very least physically disciplined.

White clothes give off the illusion of wealth and success even if you are not rich. wear as many white outfits as you can. 

Wealthy men do notice a a woman shoes and look at the style of shoe a woman is wearing. 

When wealthy men see that you have nice shoes, it tells them that you take time out to take care of your feet. 

The subconscious correlation men will make is that you’re going to take that same care and dedication with other parts of your body and by extension, with other people.

More than that, shoes and feet are an aphrodisiac to men. When they see women in heels, they zone in on the way they walk, and how graceful their stride is. 

the best way to walk in high-heeled shoes without them hurting your feet is to walk one foot in front of the other. That will help alleviate the pain and it will give you a graceful, sophisticated look. That will help you look more thorough in the game.

Best Places to start GD:

Excellent places where you can meet rich men is are upscale hair salons, high end shoe stores , expensive restaurants and golf

You can have the whole damsel-in-distress thing going on, and wealthy men will be glad to show you and teach you how to play golf. They love helping a little lady learn the ropes of the game. This is also a great opportunity for a conversation starter as well. If you want to be a good gold digger, definitely take up golf. 

Happy hour at an upscale hotel is another great place to meet wealthy men. Every city has at least one or two upscale hotels. There are cities with several upscale hotels. You can go there during happy hour, either alone or with a friend, just to wind down and have a drink. 

The hotel bar is a great place to rub elbows with the upper crust in your neighborhood or city. 

In many of these places you won’t even have to strike up the conversation yourself. Just by positioning yourself in these locations, many guys will simply step to you. 

It’s really about timing and positioning yourself strategically in the right locations. 

Just getting to a spot and being in the right place at the right time is about eighty percent of the game. The rest should fall into place. 

In order to participate at an exotic car event, one has to have serious money to have a car to get into one of these races. For wealthy men, it’s like a hobby to them. Women don’t generally know about this. This is a great little secret of the gold digging game.

How to spot a rich man

One thing you want to look at are a man’s hand. If you see a man with a manicure that means that he likes to present himself in a certain way. 

Look at those fingernails. When you see a guy with nice hands that shows that he’s not doing manual labor. Most millionaires just don’t do manual labor. They have other guys doing the grunt work

Avoid guys who are too flashy. Most guys who dress in gaudy outfits and trying to display money, are not really rich.

Wealthy men dress clean and they’re well groomed, but the don’t wear loud colors and don’t display over the top jewelry.

The casually dressed guy sitting at the bar could be an undercover millionaire. There are targets who purposely dress down and drive an average looking car to hide their wealth.

Follow them around town and see where they hang out. They might be driving that bucket to the yacht club. They might spread their wealth in several different banks and investment houses.

Fake Watch? The second hand of a genuine Rolex watch does not tick. In most watches, the second hand will tick. The Rolex hand floats, it never ticks

Things to be aware of:

Protect your reputation. For a Gold Digger, being labeled a slut is career ending! 

When you just meet a guy, and he wants to immediately take you on a vacation within the first few days of knowing you, that should send you a red flag.

He knows that once you’re away from what’s familiar to you, you’re going to be a little more vulnerable. 

You don’t want to have sex too soon because the minute you do, you don’t have anything left to bargain with. You don’t want to put yourself out there like that. 

When you go on vacation with a target immediately after meeting him, you have to dust off the old school, “It’s that time of the month” line 

You do not want to flat-out reject your target because that will leave a negative vibe. You want to be able to do it in such a way that your target will come back wanting you more. 

Remember: As a true to the game gold digger, you’ve got to be subtle in the way you do things. 

Let’s say a target wants you to spend the night with him at his home. You never want to say, “Hell no, I’d never do that.” You never want to diss the gentleman. You want to play it real cool. 

For example, you can say something like, “I have to respectfully decline.” 

The reason why you don’t want to blatantly reject targets is because a lot of these guys think with their egos. As a gold digger, you want to cater to and stroke their egos. You want to make them feel manly. 

Don’t think with your own ego, because these guys will sit up and tell you that you’re the best thing since sliced bread, only to tell you the next day, “I’m done with you. I’ve got a new girlfriend.” 

Part of the sugar daddy game is they’ll offer to get you a nice house, they’ll offer to get you a car, or something else of prime importance. Sugar daddies make it all seem like you have them wrapped around your finger. 

Unfortunately, the opposite is true: They’re getting you wrapped around their fingers. That’s the trick a lot of women don’t know about. Once you get into that house, once you get into that car, you’re under their command. 

A true to the game gold digger is always in control of the game. You let him think that he’s in control, but you always run the show as a true gold digger 

Don’t ever let a target manipulate or pressure you into any situation. No matter how much money they give you, never let a target use money to control you.

Always Come Across As Being Unattainable

You want your target to pursue you. You want to have your target earn you. You want your target to court you. The reason is a simple one: People value what they work for. 

if you go to a restaurant and the food is a hundred dollars a plate, psychologically you’re going to think that the food is better because it’s more high-priced. 

You want to come across as being unattainable, like you’re not quite ready for a serious relationship. 

You have to be courted into a relationship, slowly, gradually. Your time is such where you seem a little too busy to spend with your target. You always want to keep your target chasing.

He has to know that you are a high maintenance young lady. If you come across as low budget, he’s going to treat you like you’re low budget. 

Wealthy guys are going to test you. Some of these targets are going to try to play you like you’re beneath them. 

You have to step up to the plate and let them know that you’re high maintenance and that they’ll have to continue to treat you like you’re high maintenance

No matter how smoothly and subtly you work it, you want to be stern and still get your point across.

Discipline

When you have a sense of discipline, you will be able to control your actions and not let your actions control you. 

You’ve got to be very disciplined when it comes to dealing with your targets, because they’re going to try to impress you, they’re going to wine and dine you. They’re also going to test you and see how weak you are, they’re going to try to see what moves and motivates you, they’re working really hard to see your Achilles’ heel. 

You’re going to have to stand strong and not be swayed by any of the wealth you see before you. You can’t be thrown off your game by any sexual chemistry you and your target may both have. 

wealthy men like the challenge. If you can show that you can go toe to toe with the best of them without breaking down or giving in, the payoff will be worth it.

Be Unpredictable

“familiarity breeds contempt.” When people get too used to you, they almost develop a certain level of disdain. 

you do want to be unpredictable. You change your patterns every now and then. 

This could be as simple as switching hobbies. You can rearrange your daily routine. You can change your look. It could be something as subtle as that. 

If you’re used to going to the mall everyday, at the same time of day, think about heading for the gym instead. 

There are all kinds of little things you can do to switch up the pace and throw your target off-guard. That way, he won’t be able to simply put you in a box. 

When they think they know you, turn left and go the other way. You always want to keep them on their toes. 

It’s like putting together a puzzle. When you’re working a puzzle, you’re intrigued by that puzzle because you’re trying to figure it out. Once you put the puzzle together, you’re not intrigued anymore. You have it figured out.

As a gold digger, you want to keep adding pieces to the puzzle so your target will never fully figure you out. 

Change your demeanor and attitude. One day, act totally happy-go-lucky. The next day, you have a dead-serious look on your face.

Source: “The Art of Gold Digging” by Tariq Rasheed

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Long, but worth it.

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It really is a good read

[shenayababe]

God is full of miracles and surprises. And yes, his plans for you are not always aligned with yours, but in the end, the experiences that he faces you with are nothing more than you can already handle. Believe me, he could never give you more than you can carry. Nor give someone else your piece of the cake. What is yours, will be yours and yours only.

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If you bring a child into this world your job is to take care of them and give them everything they deserve. The child didn't ask to be on this earth so they don't own you anything.

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A boyfriend shouldn't be asking you questions about your whereabouts and who you're texting or calling. If he wants all of the responsibilities he needs to take you of the market permanently by marrying you. ~femoiselle

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How to get paid to Travel

Take people's pictures while they're on a vacation.

Babysit people's kids on their vacation.

Yacht/Sailboat Delivery Work.

Jobs that require traveling :

Cruise ship worker

Travel Agent

International Aid Worker

Foreign Service Officer

Tour Guide

Travel Blogging

Public Speaking

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Self Defense Gadgets (you already have)

• Nail filer.

• Spray deodorant.

• A whistle.

• A pen.

• Keys.

• Stainless steel pencil.

• A fork.

Tips

• Have a resting bitch face(makes you look unapproachable)

• Trust your gut feeling.

• Always aim for the eyes, ears, groin, neck, nose and anywhere else that is sensitive)

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Things NOT to do on text:

⭒Argue

It's childish and unnecessary to have a fight over text. If there's anything someone has done wrong, you shouldn't be afraid to meet up with them to have a proper conversation about the situation.

⭒Share bad news

Good news is something I don't mind hearing through text. But I would prefere to hear the bad news in person.

⭒Gossip

This is the most obvious one. Never ever gossip over text because it leaves traces. And the person you're gossiping with is not trustworthy. They could show the person being gossiped about the texts.

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