ShenTanCypher

ShenTanCypher @AO3

[ruyo18taffi]

[alipeeps]

[stjohnstarling]

I’m not sure how many people realize that there’s a way in which hurt/comfort is actually very kinky, because at its core you’ve got this emotional power exchange fantasy where one character is vulnerable and helpless and the other takes care of them. In the case of stories involving grievous injuries, where someone is bedridden for a long time, you often end up with two characters in a 24/7 total power exchange relationship without a safeword. It just doesn’t involve as many whips and dog collars.

[pomrania]

Tags by @asthedeathoflight:

#i think people get too caught up in the idea of kink as eroticizing the taboo (not that that's a bad thing at all lol) #and forget that coming at it from another angle kink is about vulnerability and trust #the fantasy of being at your most vulnerable and someone not hurting you (or hurting you and it still being okay) #vs the fantasy of someone letting you see them at their most vulnerable and trusting you not to hurt them (or hurting them and it's okay) #i think if people understood that more they'd understand that like having some interest in some kind of power exchange is like #super duper common #also as an ace person i don't really find like. the physical reality of sex very appealing #like it's whatever it exists it's fine it sounds messy #but like…. the vulnerability…. oogh #also i think this is the underlying motivation behind omegaverse too but nobody wants to admit that #it's literally 'what if i literally could not control the most desperate and vulnerable parts of myself and you stayed anyways 🥺' #that's kink baybee! #anyways. tag essay brought to you by my hyperfixation on the psychological aspects of kink

[yinzhengs]

绅探 | detective l 1x17: xiaoman explaining the case ft. luo fei and ben being supportive 

bonus:

[pauli-artt]

Winter ❄️

[recomvery]

One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

[thesewersofparis]

is that not what happened

[lifeloverdottorish]

art by x: @moyeeeeqen

[drpantalone]

🎨 mksrw on x

[mididoodles]

[eirenical]

Guardian | Zhen Hun | 镇魂, Episode 8, translations from Viki

“Father: A person who doesn’t buy branded clothes, shoes, or perfumes and lives a simple life so that you can afford all of them.” –unknown

I’m on the found family feels train this week (then again, when am I not?  ;D), and I’ve been wanting to talk about Shen Wei and Professor Zhou for some time now…. so here we go.

Behind a cut so I don’t kill anyone’s dash, because, as always, this got kind of long… ^_^

Keep reading

[lenoirexv]

Zhu Yilong as Shen Wei | 镇魂 guardian (2018) | For @lilianhuas | (HBD)

[lansizhuis]

art by xianduguaitan (x x x)

+ art reposted on tumblr with permission from the artist + if you have twitter, please go ahead and give the artist a like and/or a retweet with their art

[myshyangel]

“i am watching cherry magic for the plot”

the plot: WHAT?

[flamingwell]

[h1234yt]

Ofc no, tianlang jun said, go on i dont mind, what a carefree father

[mr-crowsnest]

Someone added context and it only makes it more confusing LMFAO XD

[sandumilfshou]

so is this the main couple????

[westiec]

it is not!! XD

[sandumilfshou]

ok so unless shit is getting really wild, IS THIS THE MAIN COUPLE?

[mysteryteacup]

"Unless stuff is getting really wild"

image massively undersells wildness.

[mysteryteacup]

Actually, y'know what. Let me help a bit more.

[mysteryteacup]

#excuse me what?

You're right, that could have been more helpful.

(He was born around 1994.)

[thesewersofparis]

is that not what happened