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Please reblog if youâre a BDSM/kink blog that does NOT support or allow minors.
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You are de-facto grooming minors into kink if you do not do this on tumblr.
âoh Iâm too old for stuffed animalsâ skill issue. sorry you canât appreciate little creatures made to hang out with you, I on the other hand am full of joyous whimsy and therefore vastly superior.
if you:
love getting cuddled
sleepy all the time
do not feel like an adult
very good at standing still
can make a pretty good squeaking noise
you're a plushie!!!
squeaks
You meet an angel. They're the most beautiful creature you've ever seen with porcelain skin and wings with feathers as soft as clouds. Above their head is a gorgeous halo of radiant light. You are immediately enraptured by them.
The angel is curious about the mortal world so you show them all around your street and take them home. You feel embarrassed by all of the kinky shit you have lying around but they simply ask what it is all for.
You explain in much detail as shame wells in your chest and your cheeks burn about how some people enjoy being collared like dogs and others like being struck. You show them your collection of cocks, embarrassingly describing how your people enjoy not only the cocks of humans but those shaped like animals and creatures of myth.
They ask if there are angel dildos, you reply no. They seem disappointed so you offer to let them wear one of your straps to see what it feels like. With some trepidation they accept and soon have a massive silicon dick hanging from their hips.
They ask what they are used for, and you explain. You even offer to let them try, climbing onto the bed and offering up your holes to them. It takes only gentle encouragement before they're slamming into you over and over, stretching you wide as you moan and writhe. They enjoy when you scream "oh god" (it makes the act feel holy) and their unnatural strength makes their thrusts so hard your eyes almost roll back in your head as you cum.
The angel then asks what happened and you explain. The concept seems foreign to them. Angels do not experience such things. At least, they whisper, not in their mortal body. They indicate their halo. That beautiful ring that seems to be glowing even brighter now. You reach up and touch it, and the angel shivers and smiles. Gently you run your fingers around the circle and they let out a whimper that almost sounds pained. You're touching the essence of their being. The body is a projection, the halo is their true self. Your fingers slowly wrap around the halo and their eyes widen and they push you away.
The angel apologizes, to hold them like that would almost be too much. It would feel like controlling them, and they only serve the almighty. You nod along as your mind turns. You spend some time running your fingers along the halo, even pressing a vibrating wand against it which makes them whimper and even let out the most beautiful moan that nearly drives you to tears. Every pose they make is a work of art. Truly they are divine.
You need them. Whether to free them from the control of an uncaring deity or just because you can't bear to lose such a precious creature. You need them.
You continue to edge the angel with toys and fingers and even lapping your drooling tongue along the circle. It tastes like fire and comfort and hope. Your drool turns to gold as it drops onto their face. Eventually you try again, curling just a finger around the rim. They whimper but at this point you had given them so much pleasure they don't, or can't, stop you. You tug on the halo a little and it moves weightlessly, their body following inexorably.
Previously you couldn't get the thing to budge if you tried. But the moment you fully wrap around it, it is yours. The perfect tool of control. And what's more the angel is staring at you now not with confusion or fear but with utter adoring lust. Their tongue is out like a dog. You pull the halo again, yanking hard this time. They fall to the floor beneath it with a yelp of depraved pain. The kind of sound only a pure being could make. The essence of corruption made audible.
You take a leash from your desk. Pulling the angel closer you open the clip and hold it to the ring. You close it.
The angel collapses onto the ground, grasping at their halo in utter and complete ecstasy. Their body convulsing as they moan and whimper and whine and beg and plead and lustfully demand. The whole time the leash held in your hand slowly turning from a simple chain of stainless steel into solid gold inlaid with the most beautiful designs. The leather handle turns pure white. The clip at the end is gone now, the chain is permanently fused to the ring about their head.
The angel relaxes, staring up at you now. Their face the picture of absolute adoration. Worship. Love. Lust. Subservience. You pull on the chain, bringing them closer to you. You grasp their halo and shove it against your crotch, grinding against it lewdly. Utterly claiming it. And then you shove them to the floor and tell them to open their mouth, before riding their face while holding that ring like handlebars.
Angels aren't like you or I. We stole our free will and made our own destiny. We are our own rulers. But an angel? They were made only to serve. They know nothing else.
So why not make them serve you? You'll never find a better fuckdoll.
I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
Iâm so glad you asked! Let me list off what Iâve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If youâre having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. Theyâll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and arenât into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isnât actually in helping you âmindfuckâ people, itâs in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. Itâs a great answer to the question âhow do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?â
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isnât a better book on the subject. Itâs written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase âif the Master doesnât want it, it isnât serviceâ will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This oneâs high on my reading list;Â Iâve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I havenât personally read much of her work, but sheâs a well known sex educator and great at what she does. Sheâs known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you donât need that, itâs no good. Just look through this worksheetâs wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the âhow do you want to feel?â section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. Thereâs a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of whatâs written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But thereâs some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldnât have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesnât âenjoy.â
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Donât read this if you donât already know what youâre doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you canât read something and pick out what is and isnât for you, donât bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but theyâre all important parts of my library and Iâve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
reblogging specifically for these last additions bc I don't think I've ever seen resources for kink w/ disability
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you bring your mommy GF home for the holidays, and it's a little awkward. neither of you really like that you have to call her your girlfriend while there, but your parents wouldn't understand. If they'd understood you maybe you wouldn't...
...
It's not worth rehashing right now. You go home because you always do. Your relationship with your parents is a bit tense, but it's acceptable. and this is what people do, right? go home? you do it because you're supposed to. because they'd be upset if you didn't. because going is easier then dealing with the fallout...
maybe.
they're pleasant, but interrogative. They can't stop asking questions. details, personal things of your partner that they have no right to know. you try and interfere, but you don't know how to tell them no. you never have. But she's strong. her strength, her will, is part of why you love her. she withstands their barrage with more dignity then you would've. she doesn't seem bothered. they're not the first.
That first night wears on, the alcohol getting everyone through the uneasy tension that seems to linger just out of sight. you feel small. its one thing to deal with them on your own, it's another to be witnessed. it's another to see your little home world through your partners eyes. none of it is quite what you remember anymore.
as the night winds down, the first slip finally happens. it's not you or her, but them. one of them makes a comment, something so casual and offhand that by the time the last word has left their lips they've forgotten the rest. but it lodges in your heart. it slowly creeps through you brain and traps you in a tiny cage. a pattern, a cycle present all your life, a fear you know you can't show because they couldn't understand. because they put it there. you change. you shut down. you keep talking, but there's nothing left in your voice.
they don't see it. they do, but they don't know. it's normal. it's you. it's what they know of you. it's how you react when words are said, and in their eyes it means nothing anymore. She sees it though. suddenly the person she came here with is gone and this weird, timid, joyless shell is babbling on next to her. Her hand on your back roots you again, and you fall quiet as the others talk. She winds the conversation to a close, prompts a goodnight from the room, and gently guides you back to your room.
it's changed. it's not yours anymore. if it ever was. it never really felt like your space, they were always in and out, it was really just the room where you slept. anything that was yours was hidden, tucked in the backs of drawers or shoved under your mattress. privacy was earned through subterfuge. Now that you're gone, that you've been away for years, it's just another space. an office, a den, some quiet space. it's completely different. it's exactly the same. it's just as much yours as it ever was.
she helps you undress and lays you down on the fold-out couch where your bed used to be. you can still hear them outside. the walls were always thin. you learned to cry silently. you still do. you're doing it now. she pulls the blankets over you both and holds onto you tight as you cling to her. you forgot. you forgot that this is what is was like. you knew it was bad, but the nostalgia of childhood is still powerful. you forgot how much it hurt to go home.
her hand glides gently through your hair. it traces little circles on your back and drifts back and forth across your shoulders. the lights are off, the sun is set, the world is dark. it smells like her. you cling to her as your mind begins to float through that abyss. she leans in to you. her breath is hot against your cheek. her voice soft in your ear. her whisper a bare mote above silence.
"I would've raised you better."
aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement
aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement
aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement
aftercare isn't a kink, it's a requirement
Meep
yes baby,
the horsey is gonna keep rocking back and forth, yes the saddle will keep vibrating as long as the movie plays on the big TV. Itâs not my fault you chose a 4 hour long movie. Itâs OK that you came 15 times. I know theyâre very attractive to look at baby. Thatâs why theyâre actors and thatâs why youâre a little baby. Hereâs a sex scene, baby with all your favorites⌠look how they thrust and hear them moanâŚďżźoh, did someone come again? Thatâs why youâre wearing a diaper baby for all your little messes đ¤âşď¸đđ đ mommy has all the snacks and drinks to keep you going, mommy is here
Meep!
wanna feel tiny and taken care of
can i stress the importance of boundary setting? of being able to say no? if you want to be able to play with this shit, or really engage sexually at all, you need to be able to look someone in the eye and say âi donât want this.â
if you canât look me in the eye and say No, if you havenât demonstrated an ability to voice discomfort when you feel it, you are not a safe partner and i do not want to play with you.
specifically what iâm thinking about here, though idk if clarification is needed, is that when you donât tell me youâre uncomfortable youâre putting me in the position of harming you without giving me the option not to. if you never say âi donât want thisâ then i donât get to say âno problem, we donât have to!â and youâll grow to resent and hate me for crossing a boundary that was never communicated to me. actually, this applies to things other than sex too. if you never voice displeasure/discomfort, or direct desire, youâre making it impossible for people to respect you and give you what you want and keep you feeling safe.
Shelf Life
I see you there, waiting for your dominant to return. How long has it been? Let me sit next to you, and mourn your submission with you. You gave it to someone who doesn't value it, or challenge it, and now it sits unused... waiting. Yes, I hear you, but you are not a "bad sub". I'm sure you must feel that way, ignored and untested as you wait for that text that never comes, hour after hour, day after day, from someone who claims to value you, and your submission. What other lie can your brain land on, considering the evidence? Not true though... not true.
Here friend, hold my hand. We are getting you off this shelf. This is not where you belong. Watch your step. What's that? No no. Don't worry about him. When he returns to find you off your shelf, he will learn the lesson of his neglect. He deserves no other explanation from you.
Come come. Time to heal, uncover your lost self value, and find someone worthy of that submission you again hold for yourself. Your shelf life is over. You and your submission, deserve better. That's it. Off you go. Proud of you.
From the way you guys are into breeding, I can tell youâve never changed a diaper.
I once saw an edit of the "no take, only throw" comic that read "no pregnant! Only breed!"
Can't remember exactly who it was though
ok I just wanna say if you see a kink on tumblr or wherever that really turns u on and then you try it irl and it doesnât make u feel the way you hoped it would THATS OK!! You can let that kink live in fantasy!! There are a lot of things that turn my brain on that I donât enjoy during actual sex!! Isnât human sexuality interesting!!
Certified Sex ED Post !
You don't even have to try them out IRL. You're allowed to find things hot in fantasy that you'd never do IRL.