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Mason | This blog is a safe place for MLM | I also sometimes post advice/encouragement/motivation/etc | Trans men and nb men are included! | I'm taken, please do not message me with inappropriate messages or flirting. You will be blocked.

[mlm-boy]

am an """adult""" gay now. hm. the things i can do

[teethfucker]

*busts coffin open* I FORGOT TO KISS MY BOYFRIEND GOODNIGHT

[lumberjackloverboy-moved]

i want a boy to kiss my top surgery scars. i want him to be speechless each time he sees them, I want him to call me beautiful as he runs his fingers over them and kisses them over and over and over again

[bering-strait-deactivated202005]

being a guy in love with a guy is not always cute or romantic or soft or tender. sometimes it's pushing your boyfriend's face away yelling because you have viral bronchitis and he keeps trying to kiss you knowing this because he's a himbo with no sense of self preservation

[bering-strait-deactivated202005]

update: he got bronchitis! you'll never guess how

[mlm-boy]

A lot of men have stretch marks. You’re still handsome. Please don’t forget that.

[maliciousindungeon]

[mlm-boy]

BRUH YES ADJDK

[mlm-boy]

hearing men objectify women right beside u is the most painful shit im so sorry queens sorry u gotta deal w creatures like this 😔

[mlm-boy]

he just said the f slur and honestly what was there to expect LMAO

[mlm-boy]

hearing men objectify women right beside u is the most painful shit im so sorry queens sorry u gotta deal w creatures like this 😔

[santiagonex]

Favorite Gay TV Events of 2019

[mlm-boy]

srry for being barely active n not talking a lot yknow

ive been feeling weird about a lot of stuff lately

[rob-pattinson]

Are you happy I came here? I would kiss you if I could.

[profeminist]

What To Do If A Parent Doesn't Accept You Coming Out as Queer

You're definitely not alone.

“In America, there are an estimated 1.6 million homeless young people, according to the True Colors Fund. Of those people, 40% are LGBTQ, and many of them are out on the street because of family rejection. While this is one of the worst-case-scenarios, and many LGBTQ young people come out to great support from their families, others find themselves in a middle ground: one parent supports them, while the other rejects them.

If you come out to your parents and one of them isn’t supportive, first know that you’re not alone. And while it can be hard to cope with, initial rejection from a parent also doesn’t mean you’ll never be able to mend that relationship. We checked in with Dr. Aron Janssen, Child Psychiatrist and director of the Gender and Sexuality Service at the Child Study Center, to find out what the best way to handle a parent’s rejection when you come out is.

Read the full piece here

[profeminist]

If you’re thinking about coming out of the closet

[ultrafacts]

Source 

[hellkatsally]

These dudes are fucking legit.  They don’t just show up one day in court, either, they actually make friends with the kids and let them know they have a support system and that there are people in the world who care about them and will always have their back.  And less important, but also cool, is that the few times a couple of them have come into my cafe, they’ve been super friendly and polite and when I told one of the guys that I noticed his Bikers Against Child Abuse patch and wanted him to know how awesome I thought he was because of it, he got kind of shy and blushed and said, “The kids are the awesome ones, we just let them know they’re allowed to be brave.”

[bebinn]

The source is long, but so, so good. These men and women are available in 36 states, 24 hours a day to stand guard at home, in court, at school, even if the child has a nightmare. Many of them are survivors of childhood abuse as well, and know what it’s like to feel scared and alone.

In court that day, the judge asked the boy, “Are you afraid?” No, the boy said.

Pipes says the judge seemed surprised, and asked, “Why not?”

The boy glanced at Pipes and the other bikers sitting in the front row, two more standing on each side of the courtroom door, and told the judge, “Because my friends are scarier than he is.”

[lesbian-moon-gf]

Actual tears.. hnngh

[bee-whistler]

Show me more of people like this, world. I give up on humans too easily.

[groovypirate]

where do i sign up for this,i want to be in this gang

[ultrafacts]

[haydengisearchive-deactivated20]

This is fucking amazing. It may be out of character for me to say this but rock on

[clatterbane]

Bikers Against Child Abuse was founded in 1995 by a Native American child psychologist whose ride name is Chief, when he came across a young boy who had been subjected to extreme abuse and was too afraid to leave his house. He called the boy to reach out to him, but the only thing that seemed to interest the child was Chief’s bike. Soon, some 20 bikers went to the boy’s neighborhood and were able to draw him out of his house for the first time in weeks.

Chief’s thesis was that a child who has been abused by an adult can benefit psychologically from the presence of even more intimidating adults that they know are on their side. “When we tell a child they don’t have to be afraid, they believe us,” Arizona biker Pipes told azcentral.com. “When we tell them we will be there for them, they believe us.” ( Article)

More about BACA, from their site

[uriesays]

My parents are a part of this organization and they are metal af

They go on runs to protect the child if they feel even the slightest threatened no matter where. If the child needs them to go on vacation with them, they do. Bikers come from across the nation to watch over and take shifts for these kids. And the best part is once you’re adopted into this family as a BACA kid, you’re always one. Even when you’re 40 and the perp gets released from jail, they’ll come meet with you and find your best options for avoiding the person and maintaining the life you’ve built for yourself. Once a BACA child, always a BACA child. In Florida, there’s 100% rate for identifying the perp based on the child’s testimony. Why? Because BACA stands with the child and supports the child so they feel comfortable enough to point out their attacker.

What’s better than a badass biker gang being on your side???

[kikithegirl]

NATIVE AMERICAN CHILD PSYCHOLOGIST WHO IS A BIKER AND NAMED HIMSELF CHIEF HELL YES I’M HERE FOR THAT AND BIKERS BEING BAD ASS TO PROTECT KIDS. HELL YEAH.

[birdungehrl]

it’s back! I will always reblog BACA

[your-uncle-dave]

Damn good people.

[rowsdower-saves-us]

I know they wouldn’t consider themselves such, but these people are freaking heroes and the world is a better place because of them. 

[racethewind10]

Hey folks, it talks about this in the article but its not mentioned in this post, BACA is a 501 © (3) charity that depends in part on donations to help pay for stuff like gas for their bikes. If you want to help, consider donating. 

[drgaellon]

@copperbadge You like posting about heroes, Sam. Seems like this would be up your alley.

[copperbadge]

I love these folks! I’ve reblogged them before but it’s wonderful to see the donation information has been added. 

[galaxy-of-stories]

Always reblog. Keep doing what you’re doing y'all.

[hurtlittleboy]

Guys? This post changed my life. I saw this post. Forever ago. And thought it was only in america… and wished desperately that they could help me. But then I saw it again, during a bad episode, and checked their site. They aren’t just in the USA

They’re in Canada as well and probably other countries. I met and talked with a native guy who runs the place near me. His name is Shaman. I got in, and I’m considered a BACA child now. Despite being 17, turning 18 when I talked to them. They spent time with me when my abuser was over, they gave me therapy resources. They give you something called a ‘level 1′ where they go to your house with as many bikers as they can, i shit you not a solid 20-40 bikers came from even out of province, and met me. I got to choose my biker name and I got a vest with patches on it and my name on it. They all hugged a Teddybear before giving it to me, and told me if I ever felt the BACA bear was running out of love, to give them a call and they’d refill it for me, and then I got a ride on one of their bikes. Just a day or so ago I went to an annual party with them and they we ate food one of them cooked and had a lot of laughs. 

I’ve never felt as loved as I did being a part of the BACA family. They also gave me dog tags with the names, and phone numbers of my 2 workers.  So I can call them whenever I feel scared. 

BACA is an absolutely wonderful group that will do everything in it’s power to help any child whos been abused. 

And it doesn’t end when you’re 18 either. As long as you get in contact/get your level 1 before you’re 18? you’re ALWAYS a BACA kid. I’m 18 now and they still invite me to parties, ask me if I’m okay, and are there for me. They’re still trying to find me resources for therapy. 

BACA has changed my fucking life. 

I hope you all can read this, and reblog it knowing from someone who fucking been with them, that they are absolutely amazing. 

[transbutts]

Support “soft” transboys

Support romantic boys. Support boys who like “feminine” clothing. Support boys who like makeup. Support boys who like nail polish. Support boys who like being pampered. Support boys who like generally female terms. Support boys with female friends. Support boys who are pegged “too femme to be trans.” Support trans boys no matter their interests or their gender expression or their softness.

[monsterslm]

oh man… sorry bro.. i accidentally left some lipstick on your neck.. here let me kiss it off… shit i left more… here hold on… oh no i left even more… here hol

[boygirlish-deactivated20200602]

the “I love my boyfriend” flag for when you’re gay and love your boyfriend

[mlm-boy]

lookinnng to try and make more friends

i know i know i tried doing this before but im really super bad at keeping relationships going BUT!!! IM GONNA TRY REAL HARD THIS TIME GUYS :)

like. irl friends would be super cool too so?? if u live in texas thatd be super hella cool...

looking for trans/nb friends yknow, would prefer if u can handle my weirdness im SORRY im just kinda off sometimes but im SUPER NICE N I LIKE TALKING ABOUT STUFF!! :D

uhh i like furries and minecraft!! i like ocs and art!!! good omens and cartoons like adventure time are my fave!!! im 17 jsyk about to be 18 real soon in case u were wondering cus i want people to be aware of that! id prefer people in that age group

dm me!! if u wanna talk!!! dont be sexual or something like that it puts me off immediately :(( idk i just feel the need to say that

ID RLLY LOVE FRIENDS I CAN BE WEIRD WITH SO !!!

[24anddown]

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