hi, we exist! basic intro post below the cut (i say basic but… god theres so much work to do for this to be functional)
by the way, multiple headmates contributed. if our tone seems to shift, that’s why. —🎴
tldr: system / radqueer / if you won’t be civil, then you should leave
link to previous intro
Basic Stuff:
- this isn’t our main, it’s an entirely separate account. we don’t intend to disclose our main here. ok? ok :)
↳ if we don’t post for a bit, this is probably why
- we are also a system. memory isn’t a huge problem for us, but we can act quite differently. this is another reason this blog may not be as active as we would like.
- this blog is for radqueer stuff. i don’t really care what your stance is so long as you just try and remain civil about stuff. if you know you won’t, then please, find another blog.
- we don’t have any real DNI, but we do block freely
- SORRY SO MUCH OF THIS BLOG IS HALF DONE! we haven’t had a lot of time lately, plus there’s so much to get done…… sorry!
contact (in the case of many paraphilias) is a pretty complex thing, so i don’t think my view could be accurately described by a simple pro- or anti- label.
generally, my philosophy is “don’t non-consensually hurt yourself or others”. i think that should be something most people can agree with, right?
Helpful Posts Directory:
list of headmates still incomplete! sorry 🙇
list of IDs
userbox hoard [WIP post, link to be added later]
Tag Directory:
#homemade posts 〜 my original posts, freshly baked and made with love ♡ (may also be made with hate ♡)
#nonsense 〜 my inane ramblings that i, for some reason, still choose to post
#flags that go hard 〜 flags that i like
if a post is tagged with an emoji (e.g. #🎐, #🌀, #🎀 ), it’s most likely referring to the headmate who posted/reblogged it. the emojis and other such info can be found in the list of headmates (see Helpful Posts Directory)
there’s going to be another video on the radqueer community like there was last year (same creator too), i just now saw the post on her channel about it. and i’m worried it’ll lead to a bunch of mass reporting like what happened before. just wanted to warn you guys about that, make sure to make backups of stuff that you really don’t want to lose if your account gets termed, like layouts and important posts and other such things.
forgot that community posts can't be reblogged oops, reposting here.
I avoid interacting with the community aside from occasional comments because it's, in a, state to say the absolute least. But I noticed beings talking about a "documentary" again and I felt I could say a few things as advice for safety;
(feel free to spread this wherever, throwaway blog just for this post so I don't have a blocklist and might get got but if you think this is useful then by all means, use it.)
1: if you're scared you'll get targeted and banned; you can change your username to a keyboard slam, make a new blog, reblog all the posts you want to keep, and you'll be able to keep the same username.
2: You can go into your settings tab, scroll down and check visibility. You can shut down all of these, you aren't COMPLETELY unfindable but you cannot be found via your posts(unless someone w a public blog reblogs them ofc) or in search etc.
3: If you remember sharing private information that could be doxxing (area, legal name, birthday, etc) DELETE IT.
4: no matter your contact stance, do NOT answer any questions if someone asks you about your stance, especially with this going around. It doesn't matter what you say, *everything you say will be used against you and the rest of the community.* These kinds of things are not done with good faith intentions, especially seeing how it went last time.
In general; do not share about Anything that may be controversial in a legal sense to someone you do not trust to understand the nuance of your stance, even if it's something extremely minor, antis will do absolutely everything they can to take you down.
The idea of a new rq video is terrifying.. I haven't been in this community for long but I've heard of all the terrors that have happened because of stuff like this ૮๑ˊᯅˋ๑ა
I do not hate jessicur I used to be a big fan actually.. I just wish she could go about this in a different way.. I hate how people are sending her death threats but with her posting the video it'll have death threats be sent to us and then right back to her
It will just be a continuous loop of death threats and probably doxxing and that's why I think it's such a bad idea. I wish there was a better way to address things like this without everyone getting hurt in the process
I hope everyone in the rq community is safe please be careful. Reblog ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you see relating to this topic to spread awareness and help others be safe
this video will be releasing in 'a few days' according to jessicur so be prepared. please make sure to save anything you need to! archive your stuff! Save your intro!
in regards to the rentry i mentioned before: i’m trying to move the stuff over there, i really am! but because tumblr is such a dogshit place to store gifs, and since i have the most cluttered photos app known to man, i’ve had to remake or re-find a lot of the dividers manually (sometimes at a different, better resolution).
this ends up taking a bit of work, and since my motivation can be quite fleeting, it leads to me making only small amounts of progress at a time.
i won’t delete anything here when i’ve moved the intro posts, i just won’t paste the whole thing as a tumblr post in the case that i make a new account. i’ll just say something like “rentry with intro here: https://rentry.co/sideblogqueer” for convenience
modern social media should stop offering "sync with your phone contacts to follow them" options and start offering "block all your phone contacts so they never see your account" options
People who refuse to acknowledge that race has been proven time and time again to be purely made up and have almost no scientific backing (or DO but refuse to do anything with it or think about it for more than a second) especially while talking about transracial stuff piss me off so bad oh my god. Like there is genuinely not a single argument against trace (that Ive heard or can come up with) that cannot be applicable to being transgender as well. It's a double standard I fully believe to be caused mainly if not entirely by discomfort and stigma around the topic of race in our society. We get so caught up in our discomfort we forget to ask why the discomfort is there in the first place.
hashtagstaywoke
there’s going to be another video on the radqueer community like there was last year (same creator too), i just now saw the post on her channel about it. and i’m worried it’ll lead to a bunch of mass reporting like what happened before. just wanted to warn you guys about that, make sure to make backups of stuff that you really don’t want to lose if your account gets termed, like layouts and important posts and other such things.
Hot take;; the radq community rlly rlly needs to be more vocal IRL,,
I always feel like I’m the only one spreading radq activism IRL,,
this is NOT to say anything negative about beings who are incapable of doing IRL activism for whatever reason bc I understand that, I myself push myself to burnout often because of my conditions and get a lot of negative backlash from the demographic I’m around but I just wish there was more general effort,, especially from beings who do not have barriers,,