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3833 < if mew are wis)(ing deat)( or )(arm on t)(e radyume mods fuck mew and block ac. ac IS a mod in radyume and )(as BPD and NPD and no empat)(y and mew is obviously not ableist
i hate venomqueer, of course saying that is gonna get you banned dude
i have zero empathy and i do NOT fucking care about anything outside of what happens to MYSELF. but, i have the basic decency to understand non-consensual harm is BAD? are you fucking serious!!!! you can’t just call everyone ableist when you get called out for being a bad person. dude.
even if you don’t feel anything for others, you at least have to understand saying you are neutral on events that horrifically traumatize people is INSANE.
i wasn't going to comment on this further, but i do want to make a final statement on this.
of course saying that is gonna get you banned dude
i'm unsure of why being banned was such a big deal for hiim, to the point where hee had to vague & directly post many times about it, and accuse myself and others of ableism. it was a very poor way to handle being banned from a server ... and frankly, if hee felt that hiis post was misread, hee could've reached out instead of accusing the mod team of ableism. it was very clearly no one's intention to be ableist, and while it is unfortunate hee felt hurt or misunderstood, that isn't really an excuse to make multiple emotionally charged posts (both direct & indirect) when hee has such a large following in this community — which has led to harassment of myself and others, and i've even seen someone wishing to harm / wishing death on the radyume mods.
you can’t just call everyone ableist when you get called out for being a bad person. dude.
i feel it's rather unfortunate hee has to resort to calling others ableist after being called out for something ... when hee could've just taken down the post, apologized, or even just clarified what hee meant further, if we had misunderstood hiis original intentions? (which i am still unsure of, because hee handled it rather ... immaturely, and as far as i know, made little statement beyond "you guys just hate it when cluster b's show symptoms of their disorders!")
even if you don’t feel anything for others, you at least have to understand saying you are neutral on events that horrifically traumatize people is INSANE.
agreed, anon. some people have disagreed with me on this, but i do not think being "neutral" is an acceptable stance when it comes to things like child exploitation, and exploitation in general. you should not be neutral on predators preying on and harming others, regardless of your ability to feel cognitive empathy. it is one thing to be unable to care or empathize, it is another to be "neutral" on predators. being neutral means you're not against it, and frankly, i think being strictly against it is the only acceptable stance in this case.
i appreciate your ask — anonymous or not, it's nice to know i have people in my corner. i've unfortunately been receiving some harassment due to this, hence why i'm stepping back for the most part.
this might piss some people off, but all of the blankqueer labels that are "pro (or neutral) csem/rape/animal & child abuse" or anything similar are WEIRD.
old definition xenosatanism, basedqueer, lsdqueer, noxiaqueer, etc. are all blankqueer labels that hold some (or all) of those beliefs. i do not think these people should be welcome into the radqueer community.
your radical inclusion should not include people that cause real harm to non-consenting parties or parties that are unable to consent.
ageplay isnt even considered age regression, its just roleplay.
even if someone age regression IS meant with a sexual intent, it still the same thing as ageplay . this whole argument is silly
info & reasoning , because im talkative and annoying about stuff , plus i know a lot about abnormal psychology AND abnormal sexuality so an argument involving both the two of them (they do overlap, though) is something i like talking about and my brain decided to latch onto the most random special interest OKAY heres my fuckass essay (informational? argumentative?? idk) i practically zoned out , and locked in at the same time, while writing , complete with linked sources
age regression is the act of reverting into a child-like headspace . this can happen involuntarily from various mental issues such as PTSD, DID, some schizo-spec & psychotic disorders, BPD, and more.
individuals may also age regress voluntarily to cope with stress, and they could do this by engaging in certain activities that they associate with (their) childhood & comfort.
⬆️all of the above stuff is nonsexual. ⬆️
if it is sexual , though, thats a different thing! but it still isnt ageplay. ageplay is just roleplay, just playing pretend-
if someone actively regresses into a childlike headspace for sexual reasons, it's more likely from an autochronophilia such as autonepiophilia or autopedophilia-
autophilia in general is "erotic target identity inversion", which are "poorly studied paraphilias that involve sexual arousal by the idea or fantasy of being the object of one's sexual desires" [source] in such case with age regression for a sexual reason would probably fall under an "AutoChronophilia" (chronophilia is just a general term for attraction towards a certain age group) meaning a sexual attraction to yourself being a certain age, and in this context, a younger age (not inherently pedophilia, prepubescent children, age regression can also be other younger age groups such as nepiophilia (babies & toddlers), hebephilia (pubescent individuals, 8-14 years old) and Autophilic attraction can happen with any paraphilia . im assuming if one gets sexual pleasure for age regressing its because they're an autochronophile of some sort, but who am i to assume, anyone can do anything
for ageplay on the other hand, its mostly to enhance power dynamics in dominant/submissive relationships! apparently its not even mainly for caregiver/little relationship dynamics--- [source] ageplay in general is a form of roleplay so it can be used in any kind of kink- commonly in AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lover, this specifically is on the AB side) and paraphilic infantalism, but can also be used in BD/SM as well . i know less about these kink topics than i do with other paraphilias.
what is the argument im making here ,,?? oh yeah, age regression is WAYY entirely different than ageplay, given that EVEN if age regression was sexual, it still wouldn't even be considered ageplay!!
and i suppose in this context its arguing its pedophilia...? in the autochronophilia examples i listed, "autopedophilia" was one of them, but that was with sexual age regression, not ageplay, because ageplay is more on the dom4sub side of things .
anyways yeah theres my freakig sloppily written word spew . i love ❤️ talking so much 🥰🥰😘